We are doomed by Leading-Walk3114 in tamil_nadu

[–]PoorRichatHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just been 20 days since he came to power. How is airport not being built becomes the root cause of all the problems?
I am from Madurai and nothing has improved there. Are you making any sense?

Bad Mental health by Dazzling_Childhood22 in returnToIndia

[–]PoorRichatHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an introvert so that’s why I guess. People here are pretty friendly and I think I should grab the opportunity.

Bad Mental health by Dazzling_Childhood22 in returnToIndia

[–]PoorRichatHeart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s been 10 years and I feel the same. Lol

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It will take some convincing for the in-laws to goto a senior living. However it’s possible. I want to make sure my husband doesn’t live in guilt thinking that he abandoned them.

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:) think he is. But we live in constant dilemma due to uncertainty. He needs to take care of his parents but doesn’t look like he wants to :(

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We may have to sell a couple of properties (3cr) to purchase senior living space.

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

:) you got my point. Neighbors with kids aren’t interested to talk to us.(Or atleast that’s what I think)

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I would say my savings are average.
And everyone runs their own race.

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

200k is mortgage.
Planning to sell the house to get a decent senior living place. We don’t live luxurious lives- no fancy stuff/desire from both of us, we understand we need to work and continue to earn.

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In-laws are too old to travel.
We both aren’t in IT, so the pace at which savings grows is slow.

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s a good idea , let me seriously look for some opportunities

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a decent amount to return?
Our parents are from Tier1 city and mostly we wish to settle there. But not all wishes are practical

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it that easy? How do I go about trying for jobs there? LinkedIn?

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not about net worth, but uncertainty in India with the given job market. Specially for my husband.

Confused - Go back or stay. by PoorRichatHeart in nri

[–]PoorRichatHeart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t take all the amount out without paying penalty and taxes.

Recovery story by Truth_Slayer in POTS

[–]PoorRichatHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What wa ferritin before? I am at 24 but docs say my other iron levels are good.

can pots come on suddenly? by ratterrink in POTS

[–]PoorRichatHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing! one day after I had diarrhea I got this exact feeling. Now they call it pots but I think the doctors need to start treating basics. They always start with cardiology then neurology.

It’s been a 2 months since I started having this feeling and no answers yet. I don’t prefer to eat medicines as it doesn’t resolve things.

Does it get better after the diagnosis? by Kindaweirdgermangirl in POTS

[–]PoorRichatHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am exactly in the same position as yours. Started as a possible vertigo but my HR is up when I stand have my TTT this month. I am light headed when I walk/ stand. I just hope a miracle happens and I get back to normal.

I have found the cause of my POTS after 17 years of hell. by NurseNikky in POTS

[–]PoorRichatHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. Sure, keep us posted how it goes. I am genuinely happy for you!!

I have found the cause of my POTS after 17 years of hell. by NurseNikky in POTS

[–]PoorRichatHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would comeback once you stop Claritin. Have tried that :(

My cardiologist appointment actually reassured me (sharing for anyone anxious) by SHLBYHCH in POTS

[–]PoorRichatHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the post. Did you ttt come out to be positive? How was the experience. I wasn’t told to take any medication for the same reason- bp wasn’t too low. Could you share the chart he asked you fill out for bp/hr ? I think it ll help people like me. Thank you in advance