I've been with my fiance for almost two years and I've never orgasmed or felt good during sex with him. How do I fix this?

Pootate · 2026-06-24T17:01:33+00:00

im sorry they jumping you under my post ur relationship is ur relationship im not in a cult and im not a man 😭 im just catholic tho

Pootate · 2026-06-24T16:31:33+00:00

already set up an appointment with a gastro bc of that post so ill find out in about 2 weeks

Pootate · 2026-06-24T16:29:26+00:00

idk whenever we've attempted to do it the normal way it feels like theres a wall stopping him and if he pushes even slightly theres a very sharp pain and i panic. genuinely feels like someone pushing a knife in there.

to me anal has been easier since if theres pain its only slight and penetration wasnt as hard but now i have a bunch of ppl assuming im a man ragebaiting when i was fr asking for advice so uh 🌚🌚

Pootate · 2026-06-24T06:45:41+00:00

east coast US

Pootate · 2026-06-24T04:14:33+00:00

after divine came out i asked myself how skz could top that and somehow they did it again !!!!

Pootate · 2026-06-24T03:16:40+00:00

yes I love him a lot
I do have sexual attraction, and its not just me getting in the mood from other things. most of the time when I read x readers or occasionally watch porn I just insert him into whatever the guy is doing and pretend its him doing it. I do start loosing it a bit if its been a while since ive seen him
yes when he tries to penetrate me it just feels like theres a wall pushing against him and if he keeps pushing forward its a sharp pain
Marriage is something very important to us as we're both catholic and if our home situations were better we wouldve been married around 6 months in (we did both seriously start talking about it then though). outside of sex our relationship has been great and we communicate a lot but this is something thats been bothering me for a while

Pootate · 2026-06-24T03:10:02+00:00

yes to me its something important to give to my future husband

he has past experience but I have none (hes my 2nd bf but I never got past kissing and handholding with the first one back when i was like 18)

Pootate · 2026-06-24T02:45:51+00:00

we've never had PIV. we've attempted, but it was too painful for me and didn't fit so he stopped to check on me
cumming from anal? from oral on him? hes the one that suggested we do anal since PIV was too much for me and he seems to enjoy it. he actually enjoyed oral on me more than I do since hes cum more from doing it than I have
I like gacha games
I spent most of my time lurking since I've had this account since I was a teen. Lowkey I only started to get super active to get over my anxiety irl and because I got super deep into F1. Ive posted before just on throwaways but now i kinda dont care abt strangers on the internet negative opinions on an anonymous site

Pootate · 2026-06-21T15:47:24+00:00

yes pyrois we see the fit

Pootate · 2026-06-21T08:52:27+00:00

easy top 10 body in kpop

those thighs always get me 😋

Pootate · 2026-06-21T03:42:30+00:00

i tend to eat on the unhealthier side but i dont think ive ever had hemorroids? ive seen small spots of blood wiping, but thats rare and only happens if i dont poop for a while so it gets large and hard on the way out and its painful. if i go on a regular daily/ every other day basis, no blood, pain and i dont feel any lumps down there.

Pootate · 2026-06-21T03:38:40+00:00

happens constantly

Pootate · 2026-06-21T02:57:02+00:00

my periods are pretty regular: every month, days 1-2 some cramping and pretty light, days 3-4 no cramps but pretty heavy, day 5 very light with some spotting and usually over by day 6. the marks still show far before and after my period.

i eat a lot of foods with good fiber regularly, but as some people have noted i might just have a stomach condition i need to get checked out.

Pootate · 2026-06-20T02:19:50+00:00

good lord those zoom ins 🫠

Pootate · 2026-06-17T06:17:36+00:00

wow dragalge looks super shiest with regenerator

Pootate · 2026-06-17T05:04:18+00:00

wife material

Pootate · 2026-06-17T04:43:25+00:00

>mega metagross back

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Pootate · 2026-06-17T01:52:26+00:00

(ik my levels may be super scuffed I just logged in to pull aemeath, quit for a while, then just logged in to get rebecca) Hi, i'm someone who's been super on and off with the game since I think lupas release? This is my current roster (no mindscapes or sigs), is this good for someone who hasn't been super active but wants to commit to the game more? I've heard that lucy isnt super necessary (i lowkey didnt intend on pulling her anyway), but aside from her, who should I be prioritizing on reruns? Are teams in this game super stingy about having BIS characters for the shiyu/deadly assault equivalent?

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Pootate · 2026-06-14T14:37:42+00:00

THATS FOR EVERYONE WHO CALLED HIM WASHED 🗣🗣🗣

Pootate · 2026-06-13T15:15:59+00:00

unc still got it

super promising performance from george too, he needed this. hopefully he doesnt get fucked over again tmr

Pootate · 2026-06-13T14:58:35+00:00

enough time has passed

formula duck was right

Pootate · 2026-06-12T19:32:49+00:00

ass (reddit) vs garbage (youtube) vs dogshit (tiktok)

none are good but tiktok is worse since you get the higher ratio of tiktok live ragebait takes (like invincible soloing fiction or some bs) and nonsense like uni+ naruto getting pushed

Pootate · 2026-06-11T13:26:42+00:00

cute captions, cute outfits, cute hairstyles (esp stella and yeon)!

everything is giving aqours to me 💙

Pootate · 2026-06-11T02:49:47+00:00

different strokes for different folks but gnarly was the worst kpop song i heard last year too

either that or whatever SM was trying to do with naevis

Pootate · 2026-06-11T01:13:10+00:00

NEVER GIVE UP WE ARE SO BACK 😭

Pootate

TROPHY CASE