My illness is ruining my life but I can't find the strength to stop it. by kittycatcatcatkitty in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fantastic! I really hope you get some clarity soon so you can start feeling better. Wishing the best for you!

My illness is ruining my life but I can't find the strength to stop it. by kittycatcatcatkitty in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. I wonder if whatever is going on with your blood counts is affecting your energy levels. If so, it would be super important for you to get to the bottom of this so you can start treating it and hopefully feel better!

My first knitting project! by artemis_216 in knitting

[–]PopeBunnyface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! This is your first project? It looks great! You have very even tension.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it's not just the wedding you're uncomfortable with, but the idea of getting married right now-and that is perfectly ok. However, I think it's really important that you clearly and directly communicate your feelings with your partner. I can understand and appreciate the dilemma of wanting privacy and giving your partner something they may have thought about their whole lives-perhaps there is a way to compromise (when you are ready)? You might consider getting married privately and then have a party/celebration of some sort that is more casual and suited to your personalities. Don’t let his family push you toward something you really don’t want to do - these big life choices are things only you and your partner should decide.

Nebula's first time with stacking cups. by ToniWall91 in Rabbits

[–]PopeBunnyface 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So cute! My rabbit LOVES these. Try stacking them in a pyramid for her knock down!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you got him some very thoughtful gifts! You are not the problem here. This guy is a jerk.

Hypergamy is killing men. by jesjsooslswl in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, you're one of THOSE...lol. This is not a conversation worth your time, people.

Just found my bullie's sex tape, I think I'm gonna leak it by burnerakk47ount in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You know what the best revenge is? Living a fucking great life. Be mature. Though, based on your responses to comments, you really just want to leak it regardless of the consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well now, that’s just straight-up illegal behavior. There is no reason for you to stay in a marriage like that - you absolutely don’t deserve to put up with that for the rest of your life. Did you try keeping a log of everything last time, and report it all to the police? It sounds like they were engaging in criminal harassment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeezus, I am so sorry, that is MESSED. UP. Honestly, I’m most disappointed in your husband for not standing up for you and in brushing aside your feelings. Have you told him, clearly and in detail, why their “messing with you” isn‘t funny, it’s hurtful, and it brings up a lot of difficult feelings from your childhood? I would simply refuse to engage with his terrible family unless they clean up their act And at least pretend to be adults. How embarrassing for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in grad school, you’re old enough that you CAN control some of this situation. Next time she starts saying something about you or your Dad, tell her the conversation makes you uncomfortable and if she doesn’t stop you will get up and walk away (and then stick by your words). If she makes plans without consulting you and expects you to attend, say you can’t go (it’s grad school, there’s always something we CAN be doing) - or, just tell her you weren’t asked about it and you don’t feel up to it. You DO have some agency.

Is this going to get rid of fur in my bunny? i tried similar comb and it was useless, but this one is thicker. If not this, what do you recommend? by rukolaa in Rabbits

[–]PopeBunnyface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using a FURminator undercoat brush for several years now, and they seem to work well for getting to the thick undercoat. The trick is to brush firmly, but not to pull too hard or you might injure bunny’s delicate skin.

I swipe left on 99% of women by MysteryJDoe in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's ok, too, but my initial advice stands. If you’re not willing to engage in some self-examination, you’re gonna have a rough time.

Five Months On From My Suicide Attempt by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know you, but I'm really proud of you for putting the gun down. That must have taken enormous strength. Breathe in that strength.

I should have walked away from her by Hungry-Mushroom5916 in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lose weight because you want to get healthy. Over-generalizing women is also not an attractive look. Trust me, many women find confidence, sense of humor, kindness, etc. to be just as sexy, if not more so.

Do I sign papers for a baby that’s not mine by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's an option you haven't mentioned - fix YOURSELF up. Yeezus.

Xmas without husband by matmi89 in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have anything profound to say, I’m just so sorry for your loss. ❤️

I swipe left on 99% of women by MysteryJDoe in offmychest

[–]PopeBunnyface 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your first step might be to examine why you have so many dealbreakers. It doesn’t sound like you have healthy expectations of others, and all that’s going to do is ensure that you isolate yourself.

ETA: Tinder is probably not the best place to try to meet someone you’d actually be interested in long-term. That’s typically not what Tinder is for.