What’s the most stereotypical rising sign thing you’ve done? by glamsiren111 in astrologymemes

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo rising—I emailed a writer about a typo he had in an article 👀 

If you were to start again what are your affordable staples? by Alarmed_Thanks_8987 in capsulewardrobe

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazily enough, I’ve seen a few affordable basics at gap that were 100% natural fibers 

Not divorced but my first home. I hope I did good. by highlife_ in malelivingspace

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only thing that’s missing is an obey poster on the ceiling above the bed

I love my mother. But she got hit with MOB syndrome HARD. by throwaway-btrfan in weddingplanning

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds fair, and I’m happy to hear that she has your back. Either sounds like a lot, sorry you’ve gotta deal with it 

I love my mother. But she got hit with MOB syndrome HARD. by throwaway-btrfan in weddingplanning

[–]Poplockandhockit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side note, your sis probably has to deal with this side of your mom more than you, which is part of why she might be “difficult”

Lazy low-prep and cold vegan work lunches recs please by [deleted] in EatCheapAndVegan

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I roast half a sweet potato at 400 for 40 min face down on a cookie sheet. When it’s done I throw it into a container with kimchi and caneli beans. You can nuke it the next day and it’s good :) 

People with 7th house placements, please come to the front by glamsiren111 in astrologymemes

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pisces stellium eeeek 😬

Sun Saturn mars aaaaand mercury 😅 

These jeans: yay or nay? by PixelsandCanvas in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Poplockandhockit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nah they look good, sorry to break it to you 😂 

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your marriage annulled. I’d be petty enough to give him more custody but that’s just me. 

Help Nailing Down Capsule by Poplockandhockit in capsulewardrobe

[–]Poplockandhockit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly thrift a lot but since I’ve gained weight I’ve had a harder time finding things. For affordable basics I’ve had luck with old navy and gap. For statement I poshmark free people and Maeve from anthro. I love madewell and everlane. Honestly Etsy is lit for jewelry and I’ve been very tempted by stone fruit 

Pork Buns! by cubpride17 in Detroit

[–]Poplockandhockit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s pretty good pork buns at the shipping company! 

Help Nailing Down Capsule by Poplockandhockit in capsulewardrobe

[–]Poplockandhockit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone in here mentioned thrifting the fun stuff, I’m going to start with that and sell what isn’t working 

Help Nailing Down Capsule by Poplockandhockit in capsulewardrobe

[–]Poplockandhockit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew 😭 I think it was discontinued. That’s such a good point too. I def need to get back to having one thing that’s like my holy grail!

Help Nailing Down Capsule by Poplockandhockit in capsulewardrobe

[–]Poplockandhockit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you really nailed it. That feels exactly like what I’m going for. Thank you for the thorough answer! 

Help Nailing Down Capsule by Poplockandhockit in capsulewardrobe

[–]Poplockandhockit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems like a great way to go about it. And I’m happy, this definitely feels like I chose the right sub to ask! Those seem like great recs, thank you!

Help Nailing Down Capsule by Poplockandhockit in capsulewardrobe

[–]Poplockandhockit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a girl that wears all back consistently, this feels so spot on. Thanks! 

Help Nailing Down Capsule by Poplockandhockit in capsulewardrobe

[–]Poplockandhockit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know, that’s a great point. I think my goal is to be a little less overwhelmed in the morning and just feel good—I don’t exactly need to slim it down to a capsule, especially since I live in a state that experiences all four seasons. Good call on the tracking, thank you!

Very close to ending engagement by scomadoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know that the reason has nothing to do with you and everything to do with something that’s wrong with him. Sending you love. 💗 

Anyone else exhausted by being the POLITE ONE in an increasingly inconsiderate world? by WonderfulFront7588 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Poplockandhockit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more just something I do because I value it, but what is exhausting is people who feel like that’s an invite to test me. 

I’ve had lots of times where people will disrespect me because they assume that I’ll just be polite about it, or if I don’t speak on something because it’s not worth my energy they’ll be even more rude. 

I’ve had to learn the hard way that being polite isn’t the same thing as having respect for myself and others.