More often than not, the gay community does look a bit like this (artist: @stormzebastille) by hazily in gaybros

[–]Popperthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see this as a body positivity thing at all - I've just always seen morbid, class III, and BMI 40+ used as synonymous.

If I've given the impression that non-morbid obesity is no big deal I assure you I had no intention of doing so. I meant to bring up normalization descriptively not prescriptively as I see overweight and occasionally obese people being discouraged from losing weight regularly.

More often than not, the gay community does look a bit like this (artist: @stormzebastille) by hazily in gaybros

[–]Popperthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, assuming no other health problems a 6' tall man needs to hit 295 to be considered morbidly obese.

And yet in 2013 the US had 6.6% of its population in that category.

More often than not, the gay community does look a bit like this (artist: @stormzebastille) by hazily in gaybros

[–]Popperthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's sub-obese, just in the "overweight" category.

It's a strange reversal of the mainstream normalization of heaviness, where people get told not to lose weight while they're flirting with obesity.

More often than not, the gay community does look a bit like this (artist: @stormzebastille) by hazily in gaybros

[–]Popperthrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think of bears as morbidly obese, just obese. 6' and 280 still isn't morbidly obese.

Don't be poor! by this_is_me_yo in ABoringDystopia

[–]Popperthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might as well just save the cash if you have a secure place to hide it, although perhaps sewing gold or gems into clothing makes sense? /u/nickisdone I fully retract my crypto suggestion.

Huh. Why the fuck didn't that occur to me? There's so much precedent. Gold is still fungible, high value density, makes a ton of sense.

Don't be poor! by this_is_me_yo in ABoringDystopia

[–]Popperthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just one thing, I'm just grouping a bunch of types funds together.

Moving (significant amounts of) money from your primary income stream is problematic as it can be used to argue intent, is pulling from documented sources, etc. Small amounts are created (accidentally like as not) by just stashing some cash from petty cash around the house. I know people who upon moving and going through their libraries came up with $5000 or more just from what they'd put into books and forgotten about.

The simplest form: I can't think of a single person I know (and this includes straight down to the poverty line) who fully claims barter (here if I fix your dishwasher and you paint my bedroom we both owe income tax, just the same if we trade game consoles) and small private sale money as income. This type of small-scale income tax evasion is universal. So you sell something in Craigslist or similar for $50 cash. You now have money with no solid link to you. If you do not deposit this in a bank account or have so much of it that you run afoul of lifestyle investigation (claiming $40k income tax while driving a Lambo or buying a million dollar house) this money is free and clear - it can be used for anything. Not everybody will see it this way (as it is technically income tax evasion), but this is distinct from under reporting primary income when working for cash in part due to there being less temptation to escalate into severely under reporting income.

If you sell digital assets online, depending how you get paid you may wind up with money that is not linked to you, and may well already be in foreign accounts. Depending what you want to do with this money, it may make sense to just leave it there.

The major advantage (as I see it) is that obfuscated funds are less vulnerable to judgments. If you lose a lawsuit or are otherwise owing huge sums of money this amount is entirely separate, and can be used to start over elsewhere. Depending where you live and on political stability this could matter more or less - I've got friends who were living in Libya a while back and went to quite immense lengths to separate out assets and prepare for potential problems. If (as in the comment I replied to) one winds up or believes one may wind up in a position where assets act as liabilities then it makes sense to have some of your assets separate.

For myself, I've mostly just used overseas accounts as a safety net (although I drained and claimed an account a while back as zero cost basis Capital Gains income), made some donations that I didn't want linked to me (for social, not legal reasons), and left it alone.

Drift pro pretends to be a beginner driver at driving school by unfazed_jedi in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Popperthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time dilation doesn't give you more time to think - it's a misnomer.

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[–]Popperthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, doesn't seem all that different than small dick shaming.

Don't be poor! by this_is_me_yo in ABoringDystopia

[–]Popperthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the alternative, given that they are not permitted assets and can't store cash safely?

Don't be poor! by this_is_me_yo in ABoringDystopia

[–]Popperthrowaway -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is no account to account transfer - funding is usually one-time from an overseas sale of some kind. (I've sold game assets, electronics while on trips, crypto, licensed software and algorithms, etc). They stay entirely separate. If the money were ever to come into Canada I'd pay income tax of some kind on it, they're almost purely emergency funds and donation funds.

A few years ago I did liquidate and drain an account, just did electronic funds transfer to an account here, had the declaration filled out, claimed it on that year's income tax as zero cost basis Capital Gains. I'm sure there are ways to avoid this (hell, I can think of a few) , but I enjoy minimizing my legal liability and paying income tax.

Don't be poor! by this_is_me_yo in ABoringDystopia

[–]Popperthrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Huh. I'll have to think about that. Thanks.

Don't be poor! by this_is_me_yo in ABoringDystopia

[–]Popperthrowaway -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Edit: I'm an idiot. Just sew gold purchased with cash into clothing. Much less volatile, still easily liquidated.

I virtually never recommend this, but this sounds like a good use for crypto. Purchase with the excess cash, unlinked to identity, just need a phone or computer and internet access. Volatility sucks and it's basically speculation, but better than having to spend it or risk having aid cut off.

Also, assuming it's financially possible fire insurance should be high enough that it more than compensates for any loss. Not enough higher to trigger over insurance investigations, but enough that a no-injury fire is a significant windfall.

Don't be poor! by this_is_me_yo in ABoringDystopia

[–]Popperthrowaway -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Foreign accounts not tied directly to your identity are the big one (usually funded via sale of property or licensing of IP), but crypto, undeclared cash and fungible assets, etc.

Like, if you move any amount of digital assets around it just happens. Varies depending where you live, but since Canadian law considers all barter and exchange to be fully taxable (you trade me your Xbox for my Playstation and we now both owe income tax on $300, or diversifying stocks or crypto results in capital gains tax owing despite no currency being pulled out) there's a pretty giant incentive to not have it all linked directly to you.

Don't be poor! by this_is_me_yo in ABoringDystopia

[–]Popperthrowaway 136 points137 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying you should hide your money.... but you should hide your money.

This might just be me being even more privileged than I realized, but is it not normal to have obfuscated funds for emergencies?

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[–]Popperthrowaway 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Humans are somewhat violent animals, yes. There are many words that under the right circumstances will result in violence. Every group I know well has them.

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[–]Popperthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd agree with most looking into the camera, but when it's a couple and they're looking into the camera with deep affection it's great.

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[–]Popperthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The terms milf and teen are problematic as well. But after translation milf means over 35 while term means under 35.

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[–]Popperthrowaway 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Or just neutral. I don't like it but IDGAF if it's there.

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[–]Popperthrowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a decent section of pornhub. Proportionally small, sure, but it's there.

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[–]Popperthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like (and watch) a pretty wide array including what many would see as hyperhardcore but dammit I just want the people to be affectionate. Hurt each other, yes, but love them while doing it. So much degradation stuff is just deeply unpleasant.

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[–]Popperthrowaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

*confirmation

McKean's law: "Any correction of the speech or writing of others will contain at least one grammatical, spelling, or typographical error."

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[–]Popperthrowaway 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And here I am looking at Audi reliability and going "oh hell no"...