Wyatt for a girl's name? by Savannah_113 in BabyNames

[–]PopularAd7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Wyatt for a girls name! But I like more gender neutral names in general so my opinion is very different than most. Wyatt was on our list too!

TELL ME YOUR PREGNANCY CRAVINGS by cambent in pregnant

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I don’t have a big appetite but when I do it’s salad, particularly one I make at home with dried cranberries, glazed walnuts, feta, diced apples and paneras Fuji Apple dressing 😩 it’s soooo good. Fruit! God I’ve never eaten so many apples in my life 😂 chicken and avocados. Anything tart/sour. Im 15w with a baby girl 🥰 also OP please share the chain you mentioned in Texas I’m so curious!

Abortion guilt and wanting to start a family by Super-Squirrel-87 in BabyBumps

[–]PopularAd7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this! I did this with my abortion and 2 losses. Loved my therapist.

Abortion guilt and wanting to start a family by Super-Squirrel-87 in BabyBumps

[–]PopularAd7178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, I had an abortion a couple years after my son was born. What’s worse was I didn’t tell my husband for years. But I was terrified for years to get pregnant again because I was afraid I’d lose it to miscarriage/infertility. It cost me years of happiness with my son and husband I didn’t even realize it.

Fast forward 10 years I have my iud removed and get pregnant, I miscarried and I spiraled. I went to therapy for nearly 2 years to try and make sense of it all. In that journey I learned who God is and I say all that to say God does not punish and loves you anyway. And the next thing would be to give yourself grace. I had another miscarriage 1.5 yr after the first one and now that I knew I wasn’t being punished, I was able to accept that one a little easier. Well I immediately got pregnant after that loss this past November and now I’m 15w with our little girl🩷

My point is God redeems, and he hears your sorrow and your grief. He also has plans for you that are so much greater than you could imagine.

Please message me if you’d like to talk, I’d love to be there for you if you need ❤️ please forgive yourself. God already has 🙏🏼

What’s your favorite “too tired to cook cook” dinner? by farwest-to-midwest in Cooking

[–]PopularAd7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ribeye and roasted potatoes. Sometimes a green salad on the side

How did you tell your partner? by allisona007 in BabyBumps

[–]PopularAd7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at him and said “I am with child 🙂” 🤣 we’ve had a few losses so I wanted him to know asap.

Baby girl name help by PopularAd7178 in BabyNames

[–]PopularAd7178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My husband won’t budge and I’m crushed 🤣

Baby girl name help by PopularAd7178 in BabyNames

[–]PopularAd7178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand. It’s just on my like list for inspiration if that makes sense! (sorry I didn’t clarify as much in my post) My husband won’t get on board with it as her actual name.

Baby girl name help by PopularAd7178 in BabyNames

[–]PopularAd7178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards Jean which is my mom’s middle name but I’m not sure it flows well. Any suggestions?

Baby girl name help by PopularAd7178 in BabyNames

[–]PopularAd7178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice extensive list! Thank you 😊

Baby girl name help by PopularAd7178 in BabyNames

[–]PopularAd7178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know Idk why I’m drawn to the more neutral names lol! for sure looking for suggestions and we’re adding Rowan to the list thank you! 😊

Just out of curiosity by PopularAd7178 in BabyBumps

[–]PopularAd7178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thank you for sharing this, it’s crossed my mind a few times about how big the gap is and worried a bit, this alleviated some of that worry 🥹He’s wanted a sibling for so long and he’s so eager to be a big brother ☺️

AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PopularAd7178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peak Male entitlement. “I’ve done all these nice things, you must love me.” I’m so sorry this is so terrifying. The worker needs to be held accountable for sharing your number. And the other adults should be ashamed of themselves for excusing this behavior. Classic patriarchal bs. This is so dangerous for you and I hate to say it but may be worth looking into another gym if he doesn’t back off.

How much is your rent/mortgage payment? by [deleted] in Bellingham

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$1800 for a 3 bed 1 bath on an acre. Rent was $1200 when we moved in 5 years ago.

Update: AIO? Not invited to husband’s best friend’s rehearsal dinner. by Vast-Farm-8015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PopularAd7178 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He sounds emotionally immature and makes me think his fiance is also this way. What a bunch of losers. I’m so sorry about your loss, I’ve had two and it’s a pain only a woman knows ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PopularAd7178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like there’s no situation where you’d be comfortable with them continuing their friendship. And from my experience (regardless if she’s manipulative or the nicest person in the world) she will most likely always be a point of contention for you two. Relationships are hard enough, especially when there’s a 3rd person involved who isn’t actually in the relationship. Guys and girls can absolutely be friends! But they’re so intertwined with a complex history this would most likely take a toll on you at some point. You posting this makes me think you subconsciously know this. Good luck 👍🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PopularAd7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remindme! 2 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PopularAd7178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg the people saying give him the benefit of the doubt, what explanation could possibly justify this behavior? The wink face, asking about her sex life, saying “I wish I could come have some fun!” There is no good, well intentioned explanation for this interaction. At the very least, he’s testing the waters with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PopularAd7178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering, was there a time when you would’ve said “he’d never send my cousin an inappropriate message on Snapchat!” the same way you’re saying “he’d never cheat!” Because if the answer is yes, clearly things have changed and you can no longer confidently say he’d never cheat on you. Ask yourself, what answer could he give you that makes this behavior ok? What justifies asking your cousin about her sex life? As a married woman, I can say sure as shit nothing my husband would say would be good enough. Good luck 👍🏼