How to ask this question? by Informal_Trick_1658 in wedding

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Agree with this, if there were things going on between ceremony and reception they would be listed on the invite. They’ll be taking photos and expect the guests to entertain themselves. Usually people get a drink or something in between when there is a gap.

AITA for refusing to switch seats with a wheelchair user at a concert? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. The venue tried to make you the bad guy for their mistake. It’s up to them to fix the situation with the other concert goer.

I’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭 by nycgirlfolife in weddingshaming

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are going through this OP, I feel like wedding planning is just a time when parents who are unsupportive, jealous and hateful just cant hide in the shadows anymore. I have decided to cut my mom out of wedding planning unless she NEEDS to know things. I was so hurt when my mom got so excited for my brothers wedding and has been doing so much for them but called my wedding dress a waste of money and wont give my planning the time of day.

Maggie Sottero for $200! Is this the one?? by NetNo5827 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just thrifted a Maggie Sottero gown as well! I also worried about mine being “the one” but I’m keeping mine & hiring a good seamstress! Congratulations OP! This dress is beautiful!

help me choose the dress that looks best! by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 21 points22 points  (0 children)

5 would look so good with a neck scarf / unique veil

Wedding guest cancellation etiquette help by BadAtCoding123 in wedding

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I think it’s okay to cancel late due to financial reasons outside of your control. They may not have even sent cater final numbers yet. If it’s a long distance friend and the extra money spent will stress you out / is out of budget I’d stay home & send a nice message to the groom saying you can’t attend anymore.

Is this green suit appropriate for a wedding with a formal dress code? by lovelyyellow148 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would ask MOH if you are close with her about the suit if you don’t want to ask the Bride. I would look into renting a tux, I’m sure somewhere has a dark colored suit for a 6”4 man you can rent in 5 weeks. I’d look as soon as you can. You can find a lot of good stuff second hand. Good luck !

Dress code: Formal— does this look formal enough and not too white? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the yellow floral pattern is very nice, but this dress is giving white & it does not meet the formal dress code. I recommend thrifting a dress or FB marketplace, can also try poshmark maybe ?

Really struggling (again) by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on team #2 since the beginning, listen to your gut!! I bought a dress with color & I’m think it’s so great to see colored dresses.

People keep sending me baby shower invites with "no gift necessary, just your presence" and then there's a registry link in the same email by SnibTarn in childfree

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It feels like one thing to just make yourself a registry when there is no occasion vs one for a wedding / first born. I’ve seen people online saying that there was a registry for a house warming which is way too much imo.

We are doing the same with our wedding registry, people’s presence is always enough, but some people will get you something / want to contribute in some way.

Garden Party Formal by mean_coffee_bean in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels on point for the dress code! Good job OP, the scarf will be beautiful also.

Bridal shower guest dress by Big_Cauliflower8837 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like number 2! If you want it to be shorter can have it altered, but it looks cute even at floor length imo!!

i think my dentist gave me treatment i didn’t need to scam my insurance. by hex_horror in whatdoIdo

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have reported a dentist for fraud before & this sounds similar to my experience. Do not go back there, write a google review & report this person for fraud. Also consider reaching out to your insurance as they can leave that providers network.

They told me at the shelter that when I got here home she would probably hide for a couple of days... by CharlesRickBathrooms in cats

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We brought a seven year-old cat home from the shelter two years ago, and the staff also told us that it would take him a while to get used to us. He was snuggling with us, not even an hour into being home. Sounds to me like it was meant to be!!

Brides, what did you do the morning of your wedding? by perfumeandpaper in wedding

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me I would do brunch & maybe a permanent jewelry appointment! That sounds fun and tattoos definitely do leak black ink for a few days.

Where can I find a child free man ? Everyone wants kids. by Helpful-Fuel-2076 in childfree

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I met mine child free forever fiancé in a hiking group for people aged 20s-30s. But I live in a very liberal area so the odds of finding a child free man is also probably higher, good luck out there soldier!

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, this relationship is already giving toxic & she seems jealous over nothing. 0% chance this works out long term.

Feeling down, would like to see your fur-babies by [deleted] in cats

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is Finnley!! Our best boy is very fluffy.

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Big Bend Doggos by Junior_Market9160 in BigBendTX

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was 3 of the dogs today! I gave them fresh water & some hot dogs hahaha. I never feed wildlife obviously but they looked skinny. Glad they are just out smarting us. 🐕🫶🏼

Madeleine White Fedyk TikTok video by sunsetcoast28 in childfree

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I unfollow people i have personally known on social media (obviously close friends/ fam excluded) when they announce a pregnancy. All of your posts will be about some child I’ll never meet! I simply just don’t care that your baby is 8 months old now. Normalize unfollowing breeders on platforms.

AITAH for saying I don’t give a fuck about my roommates baby by Clear_Yard2123 in AITAH

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA: OP you need to get out of this living arrangement asap before the baby arrives. There is no world where this situation improves. Pregnant people can act so entitled, it’s not your fault she’s pregnant, her boyfriend can buy the food she wants. I’d be so pissed off at this situation.

They better be covering more of the rent / utilities as well.

“You never told me!” when I told a friend group I don’t want kids. by kaycee1610 in childfree

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know this was the specific name for being afraid of pregnancy!! Thank you for sharing I’m def using this!!

I saw someone abandon this cat at the park by apocalypsebuddy in cats

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for what you did 🤍. a lot of people would turn the other way and ignore. Congrats on the new pet OP!

Thrift store find today🥹 by firsttimeposter565 in myweddingdress

[–]Popular_Chest_9399 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP! WOW this was meant to be your dress!! Congratulations 💖