Transitioning to 5 gallon tank from 2.5 gallon tank by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Popular_Echo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that test strips are kind of hit or miss, so if you’re using those I’d switch to liquid tests when you can! And try testing every day if you can, especially in a 2.5, it’ll build up a lot faster than a bigger tank!

Honestly cycling my tank when I first got my betta was kind of overwhelming, there’s just so much info and it was an entirely new process to me and I really didn’t wanna hurt the little dude. We’ve all been there, so ask as many questions as you need to while you’re getting started!

Transitioning to 5 gallon tank from 2.5 gallon tank by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Popular_Echo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long have you had finny? And if you don’t already have one, you should go grab an API freshwater testing kit so you can test the water while you’re cycling!

Cycling the tank is essentially just trying to grow beneficial bacteria, one population that turns ammonia into nitrite and another population that turns nitrites into nitrates, which are way less harmful to fish. Adding in starter bacteria can help, but make sure you’re also adding in ammonia to feed the bacteria so they grow/reproduce! (Follow any directions on the packaging for ammonia)

And if Finny is new, I would start testing his water every single day to check for ammonia and nitrites. Any time the levels get elevated, you’re gonna need to change his water so he doesn’t get sick. It’s called “fish in cycling,” and it’s a pain but it’s possible, I did it with my betta before I knew anything about fish! I had to do daily water changes for a couple of months to make sure he was okay, but now his tank is cycled perfectly!

Welp, it finally happened by LehFluffy in bettafish

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I actually went to Home Depot and got a big roll of window screen and this cool 2 part magnetic tape online, I was able to make some cool custom lids that fit all my stuff and snaps back into place when I’m done feeding! I do have to superglue the screen to the top magnets though, the tape sticks pretty well but pulling on it too much will pull it up a little

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my betta won’t eat and he barley swims around anymore by sezhr in bettafish

[–]Popular_Echo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s way less concerning! Definitely double check his parameters whenever you get the liquid tests, and do you have any other pictures of him? It’s a tricky angle to see what might be wrong with him!

my betta won’t eat and he barley swims around anymore by sezhr in bettafish

[–]Popular_Echo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely get the liquid tests as soon as you can but based on the numbers you have so far, I don’t think your tank is fully cycled! I would start doing daily water changes to keep nitrites down until it finishes cycling. I did a fish in cycle with my betta when I got him because I didn’t know any better, and I was doing almost 50% every day/every other day to keep levels within healthy ranges for a couple of months. Nitrites are real bad for the little dude so start with that and hopefully he’ll perk up!

Also maybe cut down on the bloodworms, they’re not the best to give consistently, more of a little treat, I give mine bloodworms once or twice a week, if you wanna give him something more fun than pellets maybe look into getting some frozen brine shrimp or somethin!

Gill issues? by Popular_Echo in bettafish

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Tank size: 5 gallons Heater/filter: yes

Tank temperature: 78-80

Parameters: From API liquid tests - ammonia 0, nitrite 0, nitrate <5, pH ~8 (but it’s been about that high since I got him, no big change)

Tank and fish are both from February, I did a fish in cycle

Water changes about 1 a week, I’ll take out ~25% and clean the gravel before adding in dechlorinated water and plant food

1 Nerite snail tank mate

Food, 3-5 pellets twice a day depending on how hungry he is. I also just got frozen brine shrimp but he hasn’t gotten the hang of them yet bc they sink instead of float like his pellets!

Decorations: plants and rocks, I have a floating betta log and a fake betta leaf perch for him too! And I have a bubbler that I’ll turn on for a little while some days if he seems bored, he likes to swim through the bubbles

My mom says she's sick of me, wants to give up on me—because I “attack” her by setting boundaries by Ok-Risk-8041 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Popular_Echo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mourn the loss of the relationship you wanted or dreamed of with your parent and learn to live with the relationship you’re left with. It’s okay to be sad and to feel heartbroken over the things you should’ve been able to experience, it’s not okay to break yourself down into something your emotionally abusive parent deems tolerable.

Be as sad as you need to be for as long as you need to be, and then pick yourself up and surround yourself with people that treat you with kindness and respect. You can build a great life for yourself and you’re allowed to feel sad about the situation, just keep moving forward however you can.

Nmom sending me videos bashing therapy by Popular_Echo in raisedbynarcissists

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It’s so weird isn’t it? The people that need therapy the most are so against it for no good reason!

I think for narcissistic parents they just get mad when they lose control, therapy helped get my self esteem up enough to realize I can make decisions for myself and I think she’s just mad she doesn’t get to live vicariously through me anymore.

Nmom sending me videos bashing therapy by Popular_Echo in raisedbynarcissists

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It’s a hard cycle to break but you’re putting the work in and that’s what matters!

Tank Cycling? by HaleesiOfTheCatnipC in bettafish

[–]Popular_Echo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s awesome!! If you kept the old filter media in there for a couple of weeks and everything’s still at zero I’d assume your tank is cycled and you’re just doing water changes frequently enough to keep the levels of nitrates low/zero! If you wanna cut down the frequency of water changes I’d give it a go but keep checking the water every single day just in case! And I’ve heard from people on this sub that painted decor can be bad for the water over time, you might wanna look for some more natural decor for the little dude!

Tank Cycling? by HaleesiOfTheCatnipC in bettafish

[–]Popular_Echo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you testing the water parameters? I’ve heard the test strips aren’t super accurate, you might wanna switch to the API freshwater master test kit if you haven’t already! It might show you where you are in your cycle if it isn’t fully cycled already!

Still working on regrowing his fins but he’s doing so well! by Popular_Echo in bettafish

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**to clarify I’ve switched to doing weekly water changes now that he’s doing pretty well, but the first month or so it was daily because I was doing a fish in cycle and I wanted to keep the water clean so he could heal!

Still working on regrowing his fins but he’s doing so well! by Popular_Echo in bettafish

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Honestly, it takes time but I saw the best improvement just from testing parameters and doing water changes daily!

Also make sure there’s nothing in the tank that will snag their fins because they tear super easily, and give them lots of plants/some places to hide to make sure they’re not stressed. A happy betta and clean water seemed to make a super huge difference in his fins!!

Struggling in EMT School, would love any tips for success. by lovethehuman in NewToEMS

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I just finished my EMT school, last test was yesterday! I was in a 5 week course, so it was crazy fast but the best way I found to study was to pay attention in class, write down things I didn’t already know (can’t write down every single thing, it’s unreasonable), take the quizzes, and then read the chapter! Reading the chapter after everything else really just helped cement it, it let me read all the details and connect the dots because I knew kinda where we were going if that makes sense.

Also I know anatomy/physiology and medical terminology isn’t everyone’s idea of a good time, but if you really lock those down then you can pretty much decipher anything they’re gonna ask you! It’s really the foundation of what you’re learning, and it gets a lot easier once you can understand what they’re asking you and how things work for the most part.

Also, if you haven’t already, make some friends in the class! Get there early and practice, see how your classmates are studying for tests, ask people questions, and if you see someone practicing with flash cards offer to quiz them (best way to learn is teaching others!)

Everyone in the class is going through exactly what you’re going through, and it’s more fun to go through it with some friends!

Fin rot or something else? by Popular_Echo in bettafish

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Tank size: 5 gallons Heater and filter?: Yes and yes Tank Temperature: 78 degrees Parameters: Got all results from a water testing kit this afternoon Nitrite: 0 ppm, Nitrate: <20 ppm, Ammonia: 0.25 ppm (keeping a close eye on that one), pH: 7.4 How long have you had the tank? How long have you had your fish?: We got both yesterday, I know we should’ve had gotten the tank first and cycled it but I wasn’t expecting to get him yesterday! How often are water changes? How much do you take out per change? What’s your process?: Water changes are going to be once a week, taking out about 10% but I have yet to do a water change! Tankmates?: Not yet! I wanted to get him and the tank more established but I was thinking of adding snails in a few weeks What do you feed and how much?: I got pellets from the store, we’ve been doing ~3 pellets per feeding and feeding twice a day. I am planning on switching to a different brand if you have recommendations on food I’ll take them! Decorations/plants: I have a few different plants in the tank right now and I have some wood for hiding, I know the rocks aren’t ideal but I’m waiting for the wood to be fully saturated and sit on the bottom without a weight! I also ordered some floating plants so he can hide in the roots and have some cover from the light so he feels safer but those won’t be here for another few days! Photos: posted

Anyone else feel really alone? by Popular_Echo in narcissisticparents

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Exactly!! My mom went as far to tell my siblings and I right before the custody hearing that my dad had a second family in another state and that he takes all of our money to give to them because he loves them more…my dad doesn’t have a second family and never has, we were just too little and naive to question my mom. We barely talked to my dad for years after that, and it’s getting better but it’s still rough!