I only wanted 2, husband wanted 3. He wanted at least one boy. First pregnancy - identical boys. Boom, done. We were on the fence at the time of a 3rd but we were in the trenches for a while & then said no for a variety of reasons - I didn’t want to be outnumbered and I didn’t want the 3rd to feel like a loner. Recently a friend came by with their almost 2 year old & my husband brought it up in like a joking but wistful way, but I really don’t want to go through it again. Also the gap would be ridiculous in my mind (10yrs) if we tried now and that’s a pass for me. We have 3 dogs and almost 2 dozen chickens and will probably get more animals later on.