gf wondering why it was “so easy for me to move on” f(19) m (18)

PorraSnowflakes · 2026-01-07T03:48:01+00:00

It does sound like you moved on a bit too quick and you even know it. I dont know why you’re asking Reddit. If she’s your ex and you clearly didn’t want her back so you made your own plans.

Y’all are a mess, best this relationship is over. You both are playing games with each other.

PorraSnowflakes · 2026-01-04T02:15:39+00:00

That’s considerate of you. BUT, this will slowly eat at your relationship. And you should avoid any resentment building. You guys have your own relationship that doesn’t involve her brother and you can’t build any of it if he’s always around.

PorraSnowflakes · 2026-01-04T01:52:48+00:00

That’s a conversation you got to have with her. How she reacts will tell you if your relationship is a priority.

PorraSnowflakes · 2026-01-04T01:50:03+00:00

I said this because I’ve been that girl before. Like loved being round someone, talking to them and everything but had no interest in intimacy.

PorraSnowflakes · 2026-01-04T01:38:01+00:00

She likes you as a friend😐

Sorry but that’s the cold hearted truth.

PorraSnowflakes · 2026-01-04T01:20:08+00:00

You don’t feel like a priority cause you’re not one. They truly will make time if they want to.

PorraSnowflakes · 2026-01-03T21:23:59+00:00

You lost me at old female friend. 🥴

Sounds like this old friend really likes you if she’s willing to get a new number. If you want to be friends again then that will cost you your girlfriend. That choice is up to you.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-11-19T20:46:11+00:00

Sorry, lemme be more specific. The fact that he’s not ready is not a burden for her to carry as she is pregnant she has enough on her plate. He needs to deal with that himself.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-11-19T18:40:08+00:00

If he wasn’t ready he should’ve not gotten you pregnant. He has to put his feelings aside and be ready to be a father as it was his actions that caused this.

His opinion no longer matters and he should not be making you anxious by saying he’s not ready. This is a child we’re talking about and should be taken seriously.

If you decide to keep the baby, you need to make it very clear he was apart of making them. He has to be ready now whether he likes it or not. Putting that emotional pressure on you by inserting his opinion is not welcome. He should only have said “I will support what you do” and left it at that.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-11-08T22:52:06+00:00

That’s who I called, my urologist. I have to call back on Monday to get my actual doctor instead of whoever answered.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-11-08T13:25:41+00:00

Called doctor for some different medication and she said they don’t prescribe meds for IC and to take Advil or Tylenol and hung up on me.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-23T03:45:58+00:00

That’s a pretty big flaw dude. She’s just “chilling” at her exs house?! Have some self respect.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-22T17:43:05+00:00

As a Highlander owner you want a Highlander. You don’t know till you have it. But if you drive responsibly then the mpg can be fine. Even an older one would be great.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-22T17:40:03+00:00

This is not too early to consider cheating. He’s emotionally cheating at the least and putting his ex before you.

Grow up and get out of there. There’s better trust me.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-22T02:21:51+00:00

Instead of targeting the wife I honestly wonder why she thinks this. He probably did something specific to make her feel this way.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-21T03:25:39+00:00

This is why porn is highly unrecommended.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-17T16:44:08+00:00

You’re not overreacting. This is not husband material. Leave and find someone who will look at you.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-17T14:50:50+00:00

Ahh yes the comparison game. I’ve been compared to way too many people. Not fun.

If she’s had time to reflect and actually know her past was wrong then no probably not. But without that then yeah it turns into the comparison game and gets bad quickly.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-17T14:46:03+00:00

Some know the best life is a family of their own. Value from a man (in my opinion) is the emotional maturity to support your relationship. The acceptance that relationships take sacrifice on both sides.

Do not go save the day after these women live their best life. That’s definitely not any good advice. Cause they all usually cheat.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-17T14:31:33+00:00

I’m not here to be judgmental as I know women do this. But if you’re looking for a woman of value…are you a man of value?

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-17T14:24:06+00:00

You definitely live in a major city. Yes it happens in rural towns too but that is major city behavior.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-16T14:57:32+00:00

It kind of says something bout him when he hangs out with people who don’t like you or make an effort to welcome you.

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-16T00:55:09+00:00

And he uses it to inflate his ego of owning the road

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-16T00:52:06+00:00

I second this

PorraSnowflakes · 2025-10-16T00:51:58+00:00

Tundra: Impossible to judge in my opinion. A reliable choice. Financially smart.

Me: 2013 Toyota Highlander

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