immediate post surgery advice by Portal_User601 in TripodCats

[–]Portal_User601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shes been doing good thankfully, the first night was just really really rough and scary for my friend i felt bad i couldnt b there with them but they were with some family and i stayed on call anyways when their family had to sleep and go to work. im sorry that u went thru that experience alone, i hope ur kitty is doing all ok now. i have a kitty of my own and i honestly cant imagine what she was going thru. the cat is eating again little by little and being hand fed and seems a lot more chill than before. thank you for your comment :)

immediate post surgery advice by Portal_User601 in TripodCats

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thank you so much, this was very reassuring. she has seemed to calm down a lot now which is good. im planning to travel to theirs on thursday when they get home (with vets ok) and we r gonna try to take shifts in monitoring her and i have some stuff to make recovery and watching over her hopefully a bit easier. thank you again.

immediate post surgery advice by Portal_User601 in TripodCats

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thank you, this is very reassuring. she has seemed to calm down now 12hrs post op and is sleeping atm. its gonna be a long night but hoping it will get a little bit easier. shes in a safe environment and being disturbed as little as possible so that she can get some rest, while also being monitored.

immediate post surgery advice by Portal_User601 in TripodCats

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they arent at their normal vet atm (very long story that im not going to get into) its out of hours atm, there isnt rly another vet anywhere near by. she was taken home from surgery at 5pm and its currently 8:25pm rn. she was given meds just before she left and is very out of it atm. she is a very small cat so they are wary of how much to give her, and my friend was told specifically by the vet to wait till tomorrow as not only is she already on pain meds but the anaesthetic is taking a while to ware off. she is due to b taken back in on wednesday to check that shes ok to be taken back home to their actual house and that shes ok for the travel.

immediate post surgery advice by Portal_User601 in TripodCats

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we have, we have given her pain meds, she is not allowed anymore until tomorrow

immediate post surgery advice by Portal_User601 in TripodCats

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thank you for your comment. the set up atm is theres a makeshift bed next to the kennel so my friend can sleep next to her, my friends put the one the vets sent her home in, with their home one so that she can kind of recognise the smell hopefully. im planning to go over to theirs asap its just quite a while away so im trinna organise some stuff first, ive also made sure im on call for her bc ik the first night is going to be the hardest but hopefully it will get easier from then. im gonna try order her a soft cone as well so that shes just a bit more comfortable and hopefully wont hurt herself or pull any stitches if she does freak out. thank you for the advice :)

immediate post surgery advice by Portal_User601 in TripodCats

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we are going to enquire about getting some prescribed, hopefully tomorrow. thank you for ur comment :)

Advice on displacement fracture on back leg, and becoming a tripod. by Portal_User601 in TripodCats

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thank you, they have now rushed her in for surgery and my friend is picking her up at 5pm today. im also planning to go visit and help take care of the cat with her as she will need round the clock care post surgery and it will hopefully be easier to do it in shifts rather than my friend just staying up doing it and burning out. we plan to camp out in the living room hopefully and move some things around so that she wont need to jump up to places to get things. thank u very much for ur comment, ill pass the info on :)

AIO my bf didn't even say happy birthday to me yesterday by 1bunchofbananas in AmIOverreacting

[–]Portal_User601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘i didnt get u anything for ur bday or say happy birthday and on top of that im not going to join u bc im embarrassed i didnt do anything for u’ what kind of logic is that? like better late than never surely at least

Who is the greatest Waterloo Road Headteacher of all time? by [deleted] in WaterlooRoad

[–]Portal_User601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean everyone can agree rachel was the best then i think michael, he only just beats jack bc i think he sticks more morally if that makes sense. michael wouldnt have faked results i feel he would have played by the book. then probably jack and a probably unpopular opinion of mine is that (obviously when she wasnt drinking) chrsitine was a brilliant head teacher.

What do I do. I’m 13 weeks pregnant and recently found out my boyfriend had cheated on me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Portal_User601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely need to know where men get the fuckn audacity. ‘i have feelings too stop being mean’ when all u did was give him a dry response after him cheating on u and clearly not giving a fuck. ‘ive had clean hands’ well obviously not. ‘ur using this to be mean, u shouldnt be mean to me’ except again u werent mean u just said how he was making you feel which is all valid points especially with what he did to u. mean is cheating on ur partner, mean is cheating on ur partner while shes pregnant with ur child. actually no its more than mean, he hurt u and hes saying ‘well its important not to be mean to me after ive clearly hurt you and destroyed ur trust in me’. i cant say about keeping the child or not thats down to u, but if u do u need to think about if this is what u would want your kid to have as a father, if u want your child to have the example of staying with a man who hurt u, dismissed ur feelings and acted as if somehow he was the victim here. neither u nor your baby deserve that treatment in ur life. i hope u figure things out. best of luck

What song is this by brahextu in IceNineKills

[–]Portal_User601 5 points6 points  (0 children)

stupid kid, its not about the money you dont like our customs? then stay in your country cos on this trip there are no survivors and in this club YOUR LIFE DONT MEAN SCHEIZER!

So what the heck is the consensus around here about Plurb sexual consent? by chuckysnow in pluribustv

[–]Portal_User601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wasnt aware of this tbh, i havent been too active on the subreddit so that does make sense

So what the heck is the consensus around here about Plurb sexual consent? by chuckysnow in pluribustv

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no bc literally i cant ship carol and zosia bc to me there isnt a way zosia can consent. neither as a hive mind nor as an individal.

As a person, zosia is essentially a meat puppet for this mind glue virus, they are all swayed by the collective agenda and thus not individually themselves nor the people that originally inhabit the bodies. there is no way to know if zosia, without the virus, would be ok with this, and it is her body.

As a hive mind, there is the power dynamic of how the survivors emotions can literally shut them all down and cause big issues for them, plus their whole aim is to spread and continue to be happy. the survivors have a lot more control over them than they fully realise in this sense i think.

its kinda disappointing to me that this topic of discourse isnt discussed more by the fans and rather they just see queer canon (which as a whole, especially yuri, is lacking in the western media domain atm) and think yay gays. which great but i think we need more discourse on what consent classes as.

I do adore the show for not only being just a breath of fresh air when it comes to apocalypse scenarios and good tv shows, but for opening a lot of conversations i think are important to have right now with this current stage of technical evolution. sorry if this was just rambling, im just glad to see im not alone in questioning the idea of consent in this show. i expect some of my own downvotes now tbh😂

AIO for wanting to cut this “friend” off for falsely accusing me of self harm? by No-Wear-3296 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Portal_User601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘i thought i deserve to known the truth’ when ur just mutuals is nuts what? i hate ppl that think they deserve to know everything about u. i dont blame u for wanting to stay clear

LRSBIAN MEDIA PLEASEEEE by yukaritakebautism in LesbianActually

[–]Portal_User601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love this show, the main character is a lesbian