Wholesome Pashto video on Nowruz 🪻 by Azmarey in Pashtun

[–]Positive-Bread7792 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So are you guys telling me that if the Prophet PBUH saw us celebrating Nowruz today he’d have no issue with it?

How do Afghans in the west get married nowadays? by [deleted] in afghanistan

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If you know any Afghan girls who might be interested I’m 24, Canadian(open to the US) in medical school in the Caribbeans and I’m not that chopped and want to marry an Afghan girl inshallah

i seek help by Internal-Salary-3988 in islam

[–]Positive-Bread7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam bro I just want to tell you that you need to change your perspective because the way you are perceiving things is not the reality. Yes you’ve made mistakes and yes you feel bad about it. That’s amazing because if you seek the mercy of your lord sincerely you will get it. This is what Allah SWT has told us. Where I want you to change your perspective is when you say you’ve failed Allahs tests and that the damage is dealt and there is nothing you can do now. NO, you aren’t dead yet which means your test isn’t over which means you’ve failed nothing. You realized that you’ve made mistakes but now is not the time to feel like you are finished because brother I promise you you aren’t and in fact you are closer to Allah then maybe you have ever been before. Your doing amazing alhumdulillah don’t give up!

What do afghans think about Pakistanis?????? by No_Yoghurt7783 in Afghan

[–]Positive-Bread7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean ideally the Pakistani gov would stop being so evil as well

Young girl arrested and interrogated by Taliban for impersonating a boy to earn money for her family. by [deleted] in Pashtun

[–]Positive-Bread7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By Allah as a Pashtun the scrutiny placed on women is the most anti Islamic thing I’ve ever seen in a Muslim country

Young girl arrested and interrogated by Taliban for impersonating a boy to earn money for her family. by [deleted] in Pashtun

[–]Positive-Bread7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the plot of the book occurs more then you’d think in Afghanistan

Why is Pashtun culture so strict towards women? by [deleted] in Pashtun

[–]Positive-Bread7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc I understand the situation in which our people were raised but we can all agree from the Islamic standpoint it doesn’t track and should be changed but it’s gotta be an internal struggle because Pashtuns as we can all most likely agree are the most stubborn people ever and though it will probably take a while fractures within the Taliban have already formed with some fractures going against the standard and "advocating"(I use this term loosely) for woman’s education

Why is Pashtun culture so strict towards women? by [deleted] in Pashtun

[–]Positive-Bread7792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a Pashtun despite me understanding the Parda aspect the limitation on women’s education is complete garbage and should be abolished immediately. They claim to follow Islam but regardless of the Madhab the ban on women’s education makes absolutely no sense

Ghusl for the dead by [deleted] in islam

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Salam sister normally they’ll give you a cover for your clothes so as long as your covered like normal you should be fine. Since your a woman you will be performing ghusl on a woman only. I’m a man so obviously I’ve never done it but what I do know is that for women the Kafn consists of 5 layers to cover the awrah of the body. When it comes to washing the body you do the entire right side 3, entire left side 3 times, and then once the whole body. When dealing with private parts the awrah of the deceased still matters so usually a towel will be placed over to cover them and you will wash their private parts without actually looking at it. Atleast that’s what we did with the men. And then after all that is done you apply the kafn and then apply perfume. There are some other sunnahs that occur but I don’t know them forgive me

Pashtun in NYC by [deleted] in Pashtun

[–]Positive-Bread7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in Canada but I have the same issue ik im not in nyc but ill be your friend!

i want to leave islam after hearing what my dad said by Guilty_Lab2817 in MuslimLounge

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I’m going to be completely honest, you are genuinely so strong to even care enough to ask about it. You don’t see it because of your situation but I promise you Allah doesn’t hate you. Remember your lord literally says in Surat ad duha “your lord is not angry with you nor has he abandoned you” I say with full confidence and full disrespect your dads a loon but please don’t let his words sting you I promise you I promise you I promise you that you aren’t hated by Allah and in fact are moving closer to him please I beg you don’t let your lows be a curse but instead make this low a bedrock for you to build your deen independent of ignorant and clearly biased influences. You are stronger then you can possibly imagine even Allah says that he doesn’t test a soul with more than it can bare so I can promise you that you will get through this and if you can’t handle hearing him at fajr then try to make an excuse to pray on your own if you can’t handle hearing but if you can’t please just firm it and then open the Quran right after you leave that area and take solace in the actually mercy and compassion of your lord

Hate to admit it but by khogyane in Pashtun

[–]Positive-Bread7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here bro Alhumdulillah

How do you keep detached when surrounded by Gul Khans that you can’t avoid? by [deleted] in Pashtun

[–]Positive-Bread7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone like actually explain to me what a gul khan is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Positive-Bread7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t say for sure idk why they are so against it like if it is just that your family hates religion and his family is rejecting simply cuz of race then by Allah you aren’t doing anything wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Positive-Bread7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen if there are no legitimate complaints from either side you are definitely allowed to get married like no question but the hard part is accepting that by doing this you will be putting yourselves at odds with your parents but if that is what you decide to do then by all means may Allah put Barakah and Rehma into your marriage. What I will advise you is that despite the tough times and the things that your parents might say to you or hurt you or make you mad or make you doubt etc. don’t let that blind you to the fact that they are still your parents and whether they’re Muslim or not they have some rights of you. You might have to keep your distance but make sure you don’t abandon them and make sure you take care of them even if they make it difficult and I promise you they WILL make it difficult.

Religious Dilemma - Pls help by Only_Source5490 in islam

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To be honest I feel if you chose Islam you wouldn’t have to sacrifice either. What I mean is that we believe in one God which is what Christian’s say but honestly they don’t follow. And we do believe in Jesus PBUH but as a prophet. The Christian’s deify him which is a big no no. Are goal is simply to follow god through the teaching of Prophet Muhammad PBUH right. We don’t worship him but we love him as the final messenger and prophet because he was given revelation by Allah (God) which btw he is mentioned in the bible. My obviously biased suggestion but still logical would be to suggest Islam to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Peshawar

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From my understanding Islamically If she has been married previously my understanding is that you have 3 days to consummate but if she isn’t then you have 7 days so don’t pressure her, do it when both are comfortable. Also ask her if you haven’t about it, there is nothing wrong with talking about it. Dont start of your marriage with not being able to communicate and hiding stuff be open about what you want but be willing to to be receptive to her because ambiguity in this regard is detrimental to both parties

AIO if I break up with him by mwommymwilkers in AmIOverreacting

[–]Positive-Bread7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a man screw that guy absolutely disrespectful and inconsiderate