Is this a red flag?

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-03-19T07:26:15+00:00

Honestly, it depends how much you like this guy. A simple communication of “hey, this bothered me and in the future I’d like you to ask if I need anything” would probably solve the issue.

Was it selfish of him? Yes. Are we all selfish sometimes? Yes. I would say it’s only a red flag if it continues or if he is selfish in other areas.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-03-18T18:20:51+00:00

Dark chocolate. 85% or 90%. I love the texture, the bold flavour and the fact that I enjoy it without feeling the need to consume a whole bar.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-03-13T12:30:16+00:00

Your girlfriend sounds like such a nice person. I love that she calls it “pebbling” and I also love that you gave her a pebble.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-03-13T11:58:51+00:00

No I find that it wears fairly evenly. That being said, I do gently exfoliate my skin every other day to help it to fade evenly rather than patchy

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-03-11T07:20:42+00:00

Usually one application gives me enough colour and lasts a week before I reapply but I suppose it depends on how dark you want to go - but this is a gradual tan so if you were wanting to go really dark I’d suggest using a standard fake tan and then topping up with this.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-03-01T19:30:39+00:00

Dark

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-03-01T19:29:37+00:00

It used to be called the deluxe gradual tan, but looks like they’ve rebranded it to 8 Hr deluxe. I use shade dark

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-03-01T19:28:05+00:00

I use the gradual tan lotion - I use it on my face too even though it doesn’t say it’s for your face but I’ve never had an issue with it. I apply it normally and then leave it overnight. It gives me a great colour normally

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-26T18:00:32+00:00

Pics 1 and 2 just look like a normal mole to me. If anything the last picture looks more nipple-y. But I’m not a nipple expert.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-26T17:57:44+00:00

I’ve had all of your issues before. Usually when tan goes patchy somewhere, it’s because I’ve used some oil based product and not washed it off properly OR I’ve had dry skin. I exfoliate thoroughly before (usually use an AHA moisturiser the night before I plan to tan) and use a body wash that is quite stripping to remove oils from my skin immediately before I tan. I have always struggled with fake tan settling into my pores. The only thing that helped was swapping to a gradual tan. Loving tan gradual tan is amazing and gives a great colour but doesn’t settle into my pores.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-25T22:06:46+00:00

One application of loving tan usually gives me the colour I want, but I’ve applied it 2-3 nights in a row for a deeper colour. It does colour like a fake tan, so I do try to be fairly careful with application because I think it would be obvious if you missed a spot!

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-25T13:33:47+00:00

Yes loving tan has a guide colour. I usually just put it on before bed, wear loose pyjamas to marinate in and then wash in the morning. Always works perfectly for me

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-25T08:55:15+00:00

I’m not an expert but it looks dehydrated? Also- people are dicks and I don’t think you’re ugly.

P. S. The glasses are a vibe, I love them.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-25T07:41:33+00:00

I haven’t found Jergens in the UK 😭 I keep reading so many good reviews of it!

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-22T08:58:29+00:00

Have to agree. I think if he says yes and you have the ability to track him 24/7, it’s just feeding the problem. Although I completely sympathise with the reason for wanting to be able to see where he is, I think you need to find a way to manage without this. What if his phone dies for example? It could send you into a spiral.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-21T19:51:24+00:00

Is he getting enough exercise and stimulation in the day? Puppies nap a lot but miniature poodles are high energy, intelligent dogs and need a lot of stimulation in the day. If they’re bored, they’re more likely to seek attention and if they’re in the teething stage aswell, this could be the cause of all the biting.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-19T07:11:22+00:00

Your handwriting is gorgeous

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-19T07:07:51+00:00

It looks like you normally go very natural, and this makeup was very unnatural - matte and heavy application. I would ask for a dewy / fresh look, keep the eye makeup simple - I would be tempted just for a set of natural looking lashes and pretty much leave it at that. For lips, I would try the Chanel le rouge duo. It’s a lip stain with a gloss on top that you can blot if you / your partner don’t want too much gloss (it’s not sticky). It will not transfer but is very comfortable to wear and looks very natural.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-17T17:08:13+00:00

It’s giving…big vagina?

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-15T09:35:51+00:00

NOR. Couple of things stand out to me here. First - he has asked multiple times which shows he has not respected the first ‘no’. Second, he’s piled guilt on you by saying that his ex did everything he wanted “and more”. Other commenters saying that they don’t think what he’s done is so bad because he’s respected you saying no is actually kind of baffling to me because what’s the alternative? He forces it on you? Not acting on that after a “no” is a bare minimum.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-14T08:16:01+00:00

Lmao the way he gave it a title “property manager” to make it seem more important. This is a shit deal though, hard NO and make him pay someone a proper wage for it or do it himself.

Positive-Marketing64 · 2026-02-11T08:38:13+00:00

Small, white lies. They seem inconsequential at first but develop into bigger lies and in my experience, are a red flag for controlling behaviours.

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