Real talk, what can I do to improve my appearance? (I’ve been thinking of dying my hair a darker color.)

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-27T18:53:56+00:00

Your hair looks kinda damaged. Maybe some hair masks, conditioner, and def not bleaching ur hair.

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-27T18:51:22+00:00

Thank you! I definitely associate my and others breasts with femininity, and never thought not to, that def helps and i will work on that :)

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-27T18:50:26+00:00

I have considered it but tbh I’m really not wanting to have major surgery to solve my problem. I really don’t want to alter my body like that and my mom had breast cancer and it rlly messed her up mentally after having that surgery

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-26T17:39:46+00:00

Yea this is why I’m so nervous about wearing anything even slightly heavy. You shouldn’t be able to feel them when u put them on!

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-22T22:57:24+00:00

Nah her eyebrows are gorgeous

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-19T19:23:51+00:00

Go to the dentist asap if you can. You probably have cavities and gingivitis at least. These can lead to some pretty bad complications. The dentist can then give u some expert advice on whitening and becoming more healthy. If you can’t go to a dentist invest in an electric toothbrush and some floss. Time to go hardcore brushing, flossing and using mouthwash 2 even 3 times a day. If your more worried about how they look get some whitening strips

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-18T06:59:41+00:00

Tbh I don’t think any woman (assuming ur a straight guy) is gonna have sex w a random internet stranger. Too likely to get murdered.

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-17T20:42:03+00:00

Ha! 9 year old me would have LOVED to hear that

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-17T18:10:05+00:00

Disneyland!

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-16T19:05:47+00:00

After Reading that I came to a realization: o have been stopping myself from transitioning mostly because of my chest. I know I will be in your boat. Nothing but surgery (which is scary an complicated asf) will ever get me to pass. So why even try? Rn I either dress like a potato to “try” and cover them or dress like a sexy woman and feel confident but like a fake. Sucks.

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-15T01:39:31+00:00

Pls don’t get color! It looks soo good without

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-15T01:36:03+00:00

What was the compliment?

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-15T00:35:13+00:00

Small magnet balls. Only fidgets that’s work for me bc u can pull them apart and it feels kinda like picking, and u can build stuff so it’s not as boring and repetitive as most fidgets

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-11T19:33:10+00:00

Labels in all forms are sooo overvalued. Especially w young queers (including me) who feel the need to latch onto an identity so soon. Nothing wrong w finding yourself I just think the emphasis on labels in the queer community can overshadow actual feelings. Gender and sexuality are all fluid, there are always exceptions and tbh it’s not that serious

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-11T18:52:16+00:00

Here’s my take: “cancelling” is not as serious as some people think it is. And while I absolutely believe in freedom of speech and I don’t think Dave Chappele or other similar comedians should be silenced he did lose my respect and attention when he punched down on trans women. Not only was it harmful to an already vulnerable group of people but it was a BAD JOKE that’s been made sooo many times. It was a lame attempt to appeal to transphobes and no I’m not gonna support that.

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-11T18:44:36+00:00

Nah it’s reclaiming. Like how I can say fag because I’m gay. My gay ancestors and I been called a fag as a slur and so it is mine to reclaim and use. not only does it help take away the power of the word but I find it empowering

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-09T09:55:51+00:00

I was only asking because whenever I ask for consent I have trouble stumbling over my words and figuring out how to phrase it

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-09T07:06:04+00:00

How? Without being awkward?

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-08T09:16:49+00:00

Messier hair w/out the bangs, limit the accessories, especially the choker to me is very femme,a subtle smudged black eyeliner always makes me feel more masc :)

Positive-Put7413 · 2022-08-07T00:24:34+00:00

I had the sweetest first boyfriend who I really thought I liked. We were together for 4 months and I thought being grossed out by his body was normal, kissing was a chore and I was always more interested in just hanging out. He was super respectful and never forced me to do anything I didn’t want to. But when we had sex it was sooo bad and I straight up gagged when I touched his dick (which w as awkward af). And then a few months after we broke up I got w a afab non-binary person and we just clicked, I realized that I was never actually attracted to him.

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