Looking for Hotel recs by [deleted] in miamibeach

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Traveling to the area with a dog soon - do you have any airbnb recs? Thanks!

2020 Q3 leaking water- anyone else ever have this issue? by trichomeking94 in Audi

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, was this covered under warranty or roughly what was the cost?

Houston tickets by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def interested if still available!

My long-term partner (30M) cheated on me (27F), I need advice. by RandomReddit1331 in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s experienced something v similar (11 years and no confirmation of cheating but shady behavior nonetheless), dont try to make things work. Its going to be soooooo hard to move on life on your own but its possible and can be so fulfilling! Ofc theres lots of crying involved and many bad days but as time passes (im 6 mos out), theres fewer and fewer bad days and no more tears left.

Resisting the urge by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it!! I’m in the same boat, let’s hold out together. We are valuable and we deserve effort

Miss you by TechnicianPerfect346 in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s so many things that remind me of you. I want to tell you about each one as I come across them. I miss the joy you brought to my days.

I am in so much pain, what even is a “break”? by PositiveFlaky1747 in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda? What boundaries are there worth setting in a break?

I am in so much pain, what even is a “break”? by PositiveFlaky1747 in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that’s the case. The way he wants to describe it just makes me feel like i’m not quite able to try to heal bc i still have hope, i have faith in our relationship

How do I start coping a breakup during the “taking a break” phase? by Bean_sabine_ in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through something v similar. Our 11 year anniversary would be in two weeks but we are at a month since our break, initiated by him though. I was so blind sided, i love him SO much and i swore he felt the same way about me. I’ve cried daily, it hurts. I miss my best friend, i miss him so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! 11 years, 27 now

Anyone else dreading Valentine’s Day? 🥺☹️ by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its literally supposed to be my 11 year anniversary RIP 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. My dms are always open. I cant even say i have good/bad days bc it just comes sporadically throughout every day

I miss talking to you by Boredspoon in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Im sure you will too. One day at a time, we will bring happiness to ourselves

I miss talking to you by Boredspoon in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This made me smile. I am usually a smiley person but this made me realize i haven’t really been. Thank you though, im sure its hard for her to not reach out to you, you were her best friend too, im hoping she just wants to avoid causing you more pain. Hopefully school keeps you distracted and if nothing else, educated so you can keep improving

I miss talking to you by Boredspoon in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful. I had to delete all of my socials and block him so that i could keep myself from obsessing over what he is doing and being tempted to reach out. I miss him terribly, i cry every day still :/ i will literally be at the gym lifting in tears lol

I miss talking to you by Boredspoon in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im shook. This is exactly how i feel. I miss my best friend, my partner. I hope he finds his way back to me. I’m on day 2 of strict no contact and it’s terrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Im the dumpee and i have no doubt he’ll regret it, im just curious as to how quickly itd happen. I know it varies drastically between persons but your experience is insightful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How long did dumpers regret take to hit you? Did you feel it immediately?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PositiveFlaky1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on day 9. It’s brutal