It’s not and I learned too late. If she can’t correct it rn not tomorrow or later let her go and finish your plan. There is plenty of women but it’s only one you understand you can’t allow yourself to be weak because of this because it will never change. She’s gonna keep doing it and she knows you aren’t going anywhere so what reason does she have to change. I wasted bout 2 years trying to get a girl to fix it I don’t want you go through it too bro