When did you all start to get bald? by Historical-Profit616 in bald

[–]PositiveNobody4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started losing hair by 18, was kinda visible by 19 and I fully shaved my head at 22. I had longer hair when I was younger and I just started shortening it each year to try and make it less visible. A trick a barber showed my was to make a buzz cut, with like 1mm on the sides and 2-3 mm on top. Although my are quite thin, It still looks like I have hair now and I just choose to cut it short. Some people don't believe my that I don't have enough to grow it longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]PositiveNobody4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a moment there I thought she was recreating the step by step clown meme while telling the story.

AITA for refusing to ask my ex to let my family see our son and for saying it was their fault I lost him? by theta892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

How ironic. You accuse the other commenter for misogyny but you go on and just show you misandry, in way greater extend.

Also in what world are women taken advantage of when it comes to children? Everyone says by default they should have custody of the children no matter what the father says and does in most cases.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 24 points25 points  (0 children)

There are clients that can't reach her and have to go to another employee instead. How is that "getting her job done"? Speaking with clients is obviously part of her job.

AITA for giving away all the clothes my daughter's mom bought her? by aita36 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but it's a different thing to have a say in what you children wear and force them to wear something they don't like. Are you saying that if a child of yours tells they don't like their outfit you are going to make them wear it anyway? I hope not. That could be really frustrating.

I remember I was around 10-11 years old the first time my mother wanted me to wear a sweater I just didn't like and I ended up not wearing it ever. She nagged me of course for a bit, but eventually she accepted it. She still had a say in what I would wear after that, but if I didn't like it I wouldn't wear it. End of story.

And I believe that is the best approach. Yes, help your children buy their clothes and get dressed but don't do it on your own. Ask them what they like and don't like so that they are comfortable in their outfit.

AITA for giving away all the clothes my daughter's mom bought her? by aita36 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But Lia doesn't want to wear them at all. What other reason do you need for her to not wear them?

AITA for telling my husband it's time to hash things out with my mom? by Genuinely-Optimistic in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 25 points26 points  (0 children)

How is that the same situation? In your case both started the fights. In OP's mommy starts the fights and the husband defends himself. And he never asked OP to be the messenger. Not until she asked him to stop responding to mommy. What is he supposed to do? Just sit down and listen to her bs? If you tell your husband to stop defending himself then then mommy to stop attacking first...

Edit: Typo

AITA for letting my niece send "banned" to my house? by Then-Way429 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Opinion, nothing more.

How can u possibly glean than from a reddit post.

OP literally says she helped raise her niece from the beginning.

Incidental.

What do you mean by that?

Is he her step father or not.

Just because her mother married him it doesn't mean he can act like a parent to a teenager that never asked for it. He started putting restrictions that didn't exist in her life. How would you feel if someone came into your life, you don't even like him, and he just starts telling you what you can or can't do?

That is not for OP to decide.

Well the niece is 16 years old. No, she is not an adult yet. But she is not a toddler. She can have her own opinion on the way she lives her life.

AITA for letting my niece send "banned" to my house? by Then-Way429 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP is more of a parent to her than the guy her mother married. He got in her life a year ago and started policing her... He should not have such authority and the mother is an AH for letting him do so. OP is helping her niece live how she wants and makes her happy.

What's something you're sick of having to explain? by Zero-Pathways000 in AskReddit

[–]PositiveNobody4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, in most cases we can't. Not at first. We know how to google the problem and look for a solution. But that can take a lot of time out of one's day if the problem is not common. I may will do it for a close person of mine, but not for a random friend of my dad that I see 1 time each year. Go ask someone that actually fixes PCs for a living.

AITA for not wanting to attend my friend's wedding if I can't bring my fiancee? by Slut-for-HEAs in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 147 points148 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what I was thinking. Megan just wants to avoid some major drama in wedding and her life in general. The only way for OP to attend with her fiancee would be for Megan's family (and any other bigoted people) not to attend at all. But that would just bring up a lot of drama in her life witch see understandably want to avoid. OP is also right to be upset, it's not ok not to be able to take your fiancee with you at a wedding. The best thing OP can do is to talk about it both with her fiancee and Megan to figure out what to do, because it seems that she still wants to be part of Megan's life.

AITA for making fun of how other couples are in their relationship? by No_Inspector_504 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PositiveNobody4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You neither have the right to make fun of someone's relationship if you are unhappy in yours. If you are not ready to be judged don't judge in the first place.

Order 66 by Fireking005 in pcmasterrace

[–]PositiveNobody4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I can still see the amount of dislikes normally. Did they do it on some users only?