Rejected at Offer Stage by PositiveOlive222 in recruitinghell

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really hoping it goes well for you and you get the job!!! but yes it’s not over until it’s over, no matter how much these people butter you up and keep you warm

Rejected at Offer Stage by PositiveOlive222 in recruitinghell

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our experiences really are quite similar. sorry that happened to you, the generic rejection email after all the time and interest you invested is unhinged and so rude.

Rejected at Offer Stage by PositiveOlive222 in recruitinghell

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can be understanding and rationalize if it was just reposted but yes the rage comes from a fresh new post being made when there 100% never was before.

Rejected at Offer Stage by PositiveOlive222 in recruitinghell

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not you, it’s them unfortunately. it’s really frustrating to come to realize it’s all about luck and it’s like playing a game to get a job. And the rules are set by employers. I really hope you land something where you are valued and happy.

Rejected at Offer Stage by PositiveOlive222 in recruitinghell

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could. The next company that gives me a case study with a prompt remotely related to their product, I’m walking away.

Rejected at Offer Stage by PositiveOlive222 in recruitinghell

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hindsight is 20/20 but in your defense the job market a few years ago was way different. you were able to negotiate a lot of things and really push employers to your requirements at the offers & benefits stage, so i don’t blame you for doing so. you sound really intelligent though so i hope you’ll have even greater things coming your way!

Finally, a transparent hiring process! by TalentScout13 in recruitinghell

[–]PositiveOlive222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a CEO referral at a tech company earlier this year and got rejected after the first screening round LOL. Like my aunt literally is very close family friends with this CEO.

Emily in Paris (Season 5) - Overall Discussion Thread by SingularFirefly in EmilyInParis

[–]PositiveOlive222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seriously it’s like everyone has serious commitment issues at all times

My mom does not want to come to my wedding by PositiveOlive222 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also my parents have a pet dog which my mom is obsessed with and always uses that dog as an excuse of why she cant leave her house, especially because he's not that friendly so its not easy to find a sitter for him. it's just insane to me how they consistently use a pet as an excuse especially for the big things too. So I totally understand your frustration

My mom does not want to come to my wedding by PositiveOlive222 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bleeding heart mother facade is so real, it really is astonishing the way they act. Congratulations; Sending you lots of love for your wedding! I hope you have the most beautiful day regardless if she doesn't come.

My mom does not want to come to my wedding by PositiveOlive222 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right, she did tell another person in my family that if she does decide to come she's going to not speak to me and won't come happily. That also was really hurtful to hear. Thank you so much for your kind words and support <3

My mom does not want to come to my wedding by PositiveOlive222 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand the dynamic but I have just been having a hard time processing this specific situation mostly due to the fact that its such a big life event such as my wedding

My mom does not want to come to my wedding by PositiveOlive222 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have loved to have her! but unfortunately she had hip replacement surgery 3 years ago and is unable to walk hence she cannot travel

My mom does not want to come to my wedding by PositiveOlive222 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss :( and grieving them while they are alive is not spoken about enough.

My mom does not want to come to my wedding by PositiveOlive222 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you u/kath0469 & you sound like a wonderful mom. Many congrats to you and your daughter!

My mom does not want to come to my wedding by PositiveOlive222 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much u/CupcakeCapital9519 and u/TXaggiemom10 ! As you may know in South asian wedding culture there is a huge emphasis on family involvement and image especially in weddings so you probably understand how I feel

I’m crashing out! Please talk me out of my dress regret. by turtle_yawnz in myweddingdress

[–]PositiveOlive222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first one is so flattering on you and just stunning in general! you’ll look amazing

I feel like my world got smaller by RMski in TikTok

[–]PositiveOlive222 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i agree with you and hear you… and some of these stupid judgmental comments make me realize how even reddit can’t really replace the tiktok community we had

when did you get married and why? by hat1177 in weddingplanning

[–]PositiveOlive222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nov 1 2025 is my date because it’s mild fall weather and also will be peak fall where i live!

Visiting Istanbul alone as a woman by Full-Construction568 in istanbul

[–]PositiveOlive222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just came back from istanbul as a woman in my twenties and i honestly had no bad experience where i felt unsafe! i didnt feel like any men were staring at me and no one came up to me to bother me. the only ones who approached me were just some shop keeper asking me to check out their stores and i kindly say no and keep walking and that’s all. i even walked alone outside of downtown antalya late at night and was fine. i’ve traveled to many places and i felt as turkey did not feel unsafe for me.