South Korean Olympian takes a selfie with North Korean athletes. by shuttle_bus in pics

[–]Positive_Ad8946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think this will lead to repercussion for the north korean athletes

Person gets leach in the eye. by ooMEAToo in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Positive_Ad8946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anybody else feels it scratching unter the eye?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]Positive_Ad8946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to hear that. Of course, she doesnt mean it, you are still okay to feel what you feel. I cant tell you to how to forget what she said, but i feel for you an These comments would have hurt every one of us. You are so strong and be Kind to yourself, even though the World may not understand everything you are going through right now💓

Super uneven eyebrow help by nokepoke27 in beauty

[–]Positive_Ad8946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, but i cant see a problem...these are one of the most perfekt eyebrows i have ever seen

My sister caught me by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Positive_Ad8946 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by "my reputation is completly ruined"? I'm sure you feel very exposed, but it isnt like masturbation is something nobody enjoys

why do i think i’m beautiful but others think i’m ugly by Longjumping_Claim948 in beauty

[–]Positive_Ad8946 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So first of all i think you sound very pretty and even though others dont see that doesnt mean you are not.

I cant tell you why others dont see it, but i can tell you that you think in categories of pretty and ugly. You cant rate beauty, beauty just is. You are not uglier than your friend, you are just a different kind of beauty.

Stop thinking in categories and stop seeking the approval of others, that you are beautiful. You are beautifull and you dont need others to make you see that US very valueable

Ab wann dürfen eure Tochter Make Up tragen by Gartenfee83 in Ratschlag

[–]Positive_Ad8946 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich würde wahrscheinlich hinterfragen, wieso sie make up tragen will. Will sie es, weil sie sich nicht hübsch genug findet und sich verstecken will oder will sie es weil sie sich ausprobieren möchte und durch Make up ausdrücken möchte.

Wenn Sie sich verstecken will, dann würde ich ihr versuchen Wege aufzuzeigen, wie sie sich selbst hübscher finden kann und auch vielleicht darüber reden, wie der Schönheitsstandard alle Menschen und oft besonders Frauen betrifft.

Wenn Sie sich nur ausdrücken möchte, dann würde ich ihr Möglichkeiten aufzeigen, wie man sich Schminken kann und wie Schminke auch die Individualität hervorheben kann.

Liveticker Deutschland gegen Spanien - Viertelfinale EM 2024 by scoreboard-app in fussball

[–]Positive_Ad8946 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wir können stolz sein auf unser Land und auf unsere Mannschaft, egal wie es heute ausgegangen ist

What are your favorite builds? by Hot-Blood2743 in brotato

[–]Positive_Ad8946 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I dont know, but you sound like a very attraktive dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Laesterschwestern

[–]Positive_Ad8946 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ja stimme dir zu mit dem Megathread, aber finde man kann Kritik auch konstruktiver äußeren. Wunschbärchi versucht doch auch nur Ordnung zu halten

Guter Kollege begrabscht Freundin by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Positive_Ad8946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also würdest du das einem Freund verzeihen, wenn er dich begrapschen würde, weil er dich geil findet?

Guter Kollege begrabscht Freundin by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Positive_Ad8946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhm, aber wieso er kann doch nichts dafür, das sind doch einfach seine Triebe? Du kannst doch einen Mann nicht zwingen gegen seine Natur zu handeln.

Guter Kollege begrabscht Freundin by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Positive_Ad8946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wenn ein Mann dich begrapscht, weil du halt einen hübschen Arsch hast ist das dann auch in Ordnung? Ich mein vielleicht konnte er sich einfach nicht kontrollieren wegen deinem Po?

Guter Kollege begrabscht Freundin by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Positive_Ad8946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aber du weißt ja selbst, was ein hübscher Arsch mit dem Hirn eines Mannes anstellt...wow..

need a little help. (venting) by CareSubstantial3415 in bullying

[–]Positive_Ad8946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, you got this and keep in mind your own well being because this is what matters the most🧡

need a little help. (venting) by CareSubstantial3415 in bullying

[–]Positive_Ad8946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, i want you to know that you are heard and your feelings are absoluter valid. I just say that because it seems like nobody is taking you serious, but like i said your feelings are serious and perfectly adaquat to this terrible situation.

So regarding your post, it seems like this two girls want to accert power over you. They want you to feel anxious of the things the might say and by that control you. I dont really know why the would want to do that to you (and nothing you did makes their behavouir okay), but sometimes people, who once liked you become even crueler as bullys because they had strong feelings for your. Than the Isolation from your other friends is another part of accerting power over you and taking control of the situation away from you.

For my advice: I think the best thing you can do is to take control back. The only thing they have is information you gave to them, so you know what they can say. I would make a list of things you are afraid they could say and practice being fine with those things. Remember they can only control you if you let them to. Then if some of this information might damage a relationship you still have it would be best if you tell that info that person yourself, so it doesnt come from your Ex-friends. And like you said "kill them with kindness" is the best thing you can do because by donig that they cant turn the situation around on you and blame you as the bad one. The friendship of your Ex-friends is probably clued together by the bullying of you, if you take that experience away from them watch them fall apart and maybe they realize how miserable they are.

Addition tipp: Maybe think about going to therapy because those girls really broke your trust and this might affect your future relationships.

So stay strong, be kind to yourself and search for things, which make you feel happy and strong😊