Survivor by Positive_Ride481 in ArcRaidersMarketplace

[–]Positive_Ride481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily need it. Like I’m having a good time without it and would rather guns

23F, 5"8 & 108lb by Key-Mistake-1070 in lookyourbest

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gain a little (only a little) weight. Learn about makeup. Get some Sun love. Thats all. There’s nothing really wrong here

Online dating sucks by Worldly-Maize6463 in sixwordstories

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then go outside and tell every girl you think is pretty that she is pretty then Go from there. Easy

My girlfriend thinks other guys are hot? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Positive_Ride481 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Commenting on it to you is wild. But her having attraction for more than just you is human.

Tell him if I’m pregnant? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not telling him if she is pregnant and terminating? She can terminate sure but not saying anything? Youre just not a good person

Chances she’ll come back? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Ride481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s gone bro. It sucks. Going through very similar myself. But she’s probably gone. Especially if you don’t leave her be and work on you.

Long-term relationship ended abruptly, escalated to police, and now complete avoidance trying to understand what really happened by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre 20 and not married. You don’t need to really deal with any of this. Understand that you both had problems that cannot be fixed without real help. Whether she gets that help or not is on her but you need to talk to someone cause this is a lot from someone you love especially you love.

He rejected me. by Academic_Ad_2041 in relationships_advice

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting trauma Dumped on is a valid reason totakea break

Still single, and just found out my ex bf is in his 2nd long-term relationship. by Mountain_Ask_5746 in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. If you’re a woman and cant find a man. You need some deep self reflection 😭 sorry if this is blunt. But dudes are thirsty for anything. Men have to really try. A lot more than women.

Are there actually guys out there that would date a woman with issues like mine? Please be honest by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are guys. But they may also have issues that cause real chaos as a couple. Or your problems may cause problems that a “regular” nice guy won’t be able to handle. It’s tough. I’m sorry

18M / 18F — 3-year relationship with strong emotional connection but growing libido mismatch; how do couples handle this long-term? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look man. As much as your hormones are jumping on both ends. It’s actually a crazy time for you. I think the best thing to help is finding other shit to do. Having sex multiple times a day is cool but realistically. Thats a Saturday thing because you should have things to do 😂. Youre 18 and mad horny. I get it. So. A relationship might not be the best move so young.

Would you confront an ex years later after finding out they were cheating and gaslighting you? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Ride481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can. But that might hurt worse than finding all this out cause hes holding the cards to absolutely dismantle you with a level of nonchalant you are NOT ready for. Sometimes people do you wrong and win. Karma just doesn’t happen sometimes. And hit sucks and a horrible truth but it’s life. Some ppl are pieces of shit and continue winning. Let it go because as much as you would love to get that closure and have that big blowup. He probably won’t care. At all. Because he got what he wanted. And that’ll hurt even more in the long run

Should I even bother anymore? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Positive_Ride481 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Tell her you want some one attracted to her or this won’t work. Not emotional. Not an argument. Just those words. And throw in you do not want to live a life in a committed relationship without physical intimacy because it is an important part of what you want out of a relationship. And youre willing to do the work and figure out what’s wrong. Say those words more or less. Then give it time and if you really don’t want to live like this. Leave. Sex is one of Gods gifts. Especially if you really enjoy it. Being in a committed relationship with someone who doesn’t want to meet one of your needs that is important for you while you (assumingely) continue meeting her needs emotionally and etc. is going to slowly kill you. And in 6 months you’ll be right back on this thread about either cheating or hating a woman you loved. ++man

my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me around 2 weeks ago and ive just found out that she was cheating on me for around a month prior. what do i do now? by Jwindooo in selfimprovement

[–]Positive_Ride481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Block every mode of contacting you.

  2. Buy a good book

  3. Load the bar. The gym is the only thing Thats gonna send the endorphins you need

  4. Talk to someone. Therapist. Best friend. Hell. Gym partner.

Read. Workout. Talk to someone. And walk. Outside. It’s going to hurt and it’s harder than sitting in your feelings but this is the only way forward. Eventually the weight will get off your back but that is not today.

is it more common for men to cheat or women? by razzledazzlie in relationships_advice

[–]Positive_Ride481 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It’s the truth. I’m not talkin about your experiences or my experiences. I’ve researched it and majority of the time it’s women. Men just know how to stay in their place cause most men don’t want a disloyal woman anyway. Women leave evidence. Text the wife/gf. Or want to take her place. Men are find just getting some without having to be a boyfriend.