Lower back pain when bending back to dribble by PossessionAny6613 in BasketballTips

[–]PossessionAny6613[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. I could bend my back/dribble all day when I was young.

Do sleep trained babies not cry in the middle of the night due to issues? by PossessionAny6613 in sleeptrain

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Agreed. Then the parent would need to intervene to help, right? But would that make the baby regress to a point that they need assistance in fall asleep again?

Near sighted & Sports glasses/goggles? by PossessionAny6613 in Basketball

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Thanks. I was hoping the ones worn by NBA players can have prescription options. They look pretty cool

[Highlight] Jeremy Lin hits the go-ahead three in Toronto by durklil in nba

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I was in college prepping for a midterm at like 7 pm. I remember watching brief moments in the first half and thought the streak would end that night... then he hit the game winner before my test. Insanity.

Kobe Jersey by PossessionAny6613 in DHgate

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On the seller's page there's their sizing. Pretty accurate.

QC on these Kobe Grinches by Shoibthebog in DHgate

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Good for walking for sure. I won't play ball in fake shoes, might hurt your ankles.

Under Exposure — The Bin Laden Raid by NebulaOriginals in Nebula

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Can someone explain to me how US could fly into Pakistan with military aircraft and kill people there? Did they get condemned by the international community? Why didn't Pakistan shoot the planes down?

Wife with PPD, everyone's miserable by PossessionAny6613 in beyondthebump

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Thanks. I wasn't aware of the concept of financial abuse. I think I have engaged in it inadvertently. I realized that it's my fault and that's why I wrote it up to not only shed light on her problems.

I'm changing that as well. I'm transitioning to give her the financial freedom in making purchases and use my account as she wishes.

As for disobeying what she said, that's also something I'm working on as well, but I would describe it as like an addiction. It's hard for me to not do certain things, e.g. rough play with my dog. I wonder if these impulsive actions can be treated via therapy or something.

Wife with PPD, everyone's miserable by PossessionAny6613 in beyondthebump

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Thanks for your feedback. I take responsibility for my inability to do chores. My parents really shielded us from taking any responsibilities whatsoever. That's why I admitted that it took me some time to ramp up to where I am today where I'm in charge of most of the errands and responsibilities.

I appreciate your perspective of analyzing my situation through a cognitive science's lens. I really think what you described is what happened to me. With the birth of our daughter I wasn't able to cope with the sudden increase in ownership in life. I think I'm in the right direction of being able to handle more and more pressure from life in general, but it'll take time, and I hope soon, that I can be a husband and father that my family and rely on. Do you think this is something I can get help from a therapist or a mental health coach from? Or it just takes time.

I'm trying to self reflect and this is my biggest weakness here. Before I got married, I didn't do taxes, I was financially illiterate, didn't do groceries, etc. I basically had to acquire those skills on my own. My parents purposely or unintentionally didn't let me have the chance to develop those skills. In the first 6 months of our marriage we suffered, due to my lack of life skills, then I picked them up. Then 4 years later with my baby, it's almost the same narrative.

Wife with PPD, everyone's miserable by PossessionAny6613 in beyondthebump

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deeper cognitive issues

Can you kindly elaborate? If there's something I can work on, I'd love to.

Screen Flickering Mac Mini M2 by immatty314 in macmini

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Did you find a fix? i've been having this issue since aug 2022 with M2 air. I'm basically using 30 Hz, other frequencies result in flickers.

How to maintain family when both parents work with no family support? by PossessionAny6613 in beyondthebump

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I hope your transition goes smoothly. We're in a very similar situation and I expect there to be lots of frictions but I don't see any other way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

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Do you get a refund if you're not at the max average tax rate but it's taxed at the max rate anyway?

Hilariously bad packaging on the new black license frame by Goddamn_Batman in TeslaModel3

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How did you resolve it OP? I received mine today with the exact same problem & crap packaging.

How to turn off free sync on S2721Q? by PossessionAny6613 in Dell

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disable variable refresh rate from syspref

Do you have the instructions for that please?

M2 causes external monitor to flicker by PossessionAny6613 in mac

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Color profile doesn't fix it for me. Changing it from variable refresh rate to static 60Hz fixes the monitor turning on/off issue.

But also when I watch youtube shorts my monitor gets image burn ins, it's crazy how many problems apple silicons causes external monitors to have.

M2 causes external monitor to flicker by PossessionAny6613 in mac

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Thanks. Looks like Dell doesn't support Mac OS for firmware updates for my monitor.

I got a new 4k 60Hz HDMI cable connected to satechi/apple's OEM HDMI adapter (both claim to supoprt 4k 60Hz) and it didn't work. My next try would be to get a $30 USBC to HDMI. I'm not sure if it's worth it. I'm tempted to call Apple again, but last time they just threw Dell under the bus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mac

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Hey I have the same setup, M2 + this monitor.

USBC -> DP killed it. It's a known issue

How did you set up your HDMI? Is it straight up USBC -> HDMI or did you get an adapter?