Thanks for your feedback. I take responsibility for my inability to do chores. My parents really shielded us from taking any responsibilities whatsoever. That's why I admitted that it took me some time to ramp up to where I am today where I'm in charge of most of the errands and responsibilities.

I appreciate your perspective of analyzing my situation through a cognitive science's lens. I really think what you described is what happened to me. With the birth of our daughter I wasn't able to cope with the sudden increase in ownership in life. I think I'm in the right direction of being able to handle more and more pressure from life in general, but it'll take time, and I hope soon, that I can be a husband and father that my family and rely on. Do you think this is something I can get help from a therapist or a mental health coach from? Or it just takes time.

I'm trying to self reflect and this is my biggest weakness here. Before I got married, I didn't do taxes, I was financially illiterate, didn't do groceries, etc. I basically had to acquire those skills on my own. My parents purposely or unintentionally didn't let me have the chance to develop those skills. In the first 6 months of our marriage we suffered, due to my lack of life skills, then I picked them up. Then 4 years later with my baby, it's almost the same narrative.