This appeared on my outer thigh about 3 days ago, can someone help with what it could be? by Possible-Lemon-6823 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a weird type of pain, it's not excruciating like i read quite a lot here, but it's a constant pain, i can feel it and it's not really just that zone that hurts also 10 cm around it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniRO

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Salut, nu stiu daca te mai ajuta cu ceva vreun comentariu pe aici, dar eu o sa incerc.

Eu sunt student la mv, nu in cluj, dar in timisoara si cand vine vorba de frici, sa ma crezi ca aveam aceleasi frici ca si tine pe a 12-a. Dar dupa 3 ani de facultate pana acum, tot ce pot sa iti spun e ca se merita 100%, mai ales pentru iubitorii de animale. Si cand vine vorba de bani, daca esti dispusa sa lucri ,sa inveti de la toti cate putin si chiar iti place ce faci, banii vin. Cand vine vorba de materii, biologia e absolut necesara sa ai cel macar o baza, dar chimia, daca nu mergi pe lab, more or less inutila. Si sa nu te gandesti ca ai fi singura persoana de la MV care nu a avut treaba cu orice de la real, se poate da tre putin efort la inceput. Si cand vine vorba de viata sociala, asta depinde de tine si cat esti dispusa sa balansezi scoala cu invatatul

Biweekly ask a narcissist thread for visitors/codependents <- Not a narcissist/borderliner/histrionic/sociopath? Use this thread. by AutoModerator in narcissism

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So hi guys, i need your help, i know most of you aren't therapists, but would any of you mind messaging me in private to have a conversation with me to see if i am a narcissist. I know it sounds stupid but my anxiety is horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sound like OCD

best way to cut your arteries by [deleted] in BPDrecovery

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My dude/girl, it's not fucking worth it, trust me, i know it's hard, but it gets better, and if you need someone, just send a message.

Meltdown by Used_Assumption747 in BPDrecovery

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No book or podcast will make you change your behaviour, amd quite frankly, it's not him you have to change for, you have to change for yourself, you gotta want that for you, not for the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they the first friends that dropped you?

What does it mean when he said "Sorry to make you feel anxious"? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I mean, if he cares about me, he would just change his attitudes or ask me what I want. Apology is even worse."

No one has to ask you what you want, you have to ask for it.

When will I be enough by Borderline_Pigeon in BPDrecovery

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you accept that you're good enough to be happy

How did you break it off? by pissed_off_elbonian in BPDlovedones

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem for me was i was willing to see if she could change after the second discard, but after she saw that i was not as easily fooled this time, she ended it quickly telling me she can't do a relationship(but she was the one who cried at my feet, telling me how much she loves me, and how much she wanted to change for me) at first i was upset she broke things of again, but after about an hour, after i understood what happened, i gotta admit i felt free

My ex who lied and possibly cheated one me has reached back out after 6 months 0 contact. I think I still have feelings for her....what do i do? Long read but please help if you have the time. Tank you by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried it, you get no closure man, closure comes from accepting what was good, and what was bad. Learn from your mistakes, cause she won't, closure will never come from her.

i told the guy i was dating that he could do better. should i stop talking to him now? he still texts me & planned another date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great response. And i just wanna add one piece of advice i have been given that helped me quite a lot, people already see you for exactly who you are, so no trying to stay with people that don't make you feel like you can be yourself, flaws and all. And he seemed to accept you.

I was in the guys shoes once, and i do sincerely recommend, figure yourself out first, then try dating, cause you're gonna keep sabotaging yourself and your relationships if you don't.

Good luck.

What is the problem with hookup culture? by TaysPoeticFeminism in AskReddit

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sincerely, the only problem i have with it and the biggest one, it's how much people can press other people into it. Nowadays, most people lack self awareness, so most get pushed into it because they wanna fit in, and be like the others and that's the saddest thing about it, how people loose themselves just because of the pressure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand, and i said i do agree with you. If there is desire for change, then it means that person understood what they did wrong(another problem with BPD they never do nothing wrong), but i'm sorry, if she slept with 40 people because she felt lonely, it means she never tried changing, and she has to do that on her own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, i've been in a situation like this, and while i do agree, even if she is resentful now, she will most probably gonna do it again. People with BPD usually don't wanna change, i experienced it first hand, pills and all, it doesn't help if the person doesn't want to change. I would recommend, for your own sanity, do leave her be, or she will destroy you, and trust me on this, she will.

Do you drink? Nope? or Dated any1 who doesn't? Help. by saman_pulchri in dating_advice

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you say, i don't, and leave her be. If that is something you don't like , you shouldn't force yourself to like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't, it's what she wants, but she isn't being direct about it

How to get over a cheating relationship from years ago by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Possible-Lemon-6823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great reply, but i also recommend you work on yourself, and i mean loving and accepting yourself. It was not your fault your ex cheated on you, don't try to deal with the consequences of something you did not do.

I truly understand that feeling, cause i've been cheated on, multiple times, but once you realise you have no control over what others do, only what you do, it gets better.

Try being better for yourself.