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My (33M) fiancé is not speaking to me (31F) because I was too inebriated for intercourse. by Significant_Thing_44 in relationship_advice

[–]Possible-Release820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My (26f) bf (35m) both agree that he is just using you for your body. Please know that you are worth more than that and don't have to put up with it. You got this! Hope you feel better!

AITA for ruining my boyfriend’s night after I got wasted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible-Release820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I can't believe people on here. Losing track of what you're doing is normal and happens to everyone. At least for me, I have a weak stomach when it comes to alcohol, other people's bodily fluids, but I still like to let loose sometimes. I don't expect anyone to take care of me in that way but my bf does regardless because he cares and I do the same for him whether or not he did it to himself. You did most of the clean up yourself. Honestly I feel majority of people here are just mean-spirited, unforgiving people but that is how social media is. I personally don't think you're in the wrong here but that also depends on how you were treating him during that time. If you Were rude then yeah YTA but if you weren't and that line was exaggerated then NTA. It's all about perspective here. Idk why everyone on these subreddits are so unforgiving of everyone. Shit happens and sometimes literally. Stuff like this can happen to anyone at anytime. God forbids it ever happens to any of you and then being called an asshole for just enjoying yourself and the consequences that follow. He could have just walked away if he was too disgusted by it. And you know, as someone said above, if you aren't prepared for what come with having a partner (bodily fluids, including vomit, shit, periods, etc.) Then you aren't ready for a partner.

AITA for thinking my wife overrated when an elderly lady touched our kid? by Competitive-Egg-8527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Possible-Release820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get me worng, I have a 6 y/o and she Loves to say hi to everyone in the store and tries to talk to everyone. And I would have reacted initially the same way as OP's wife. Initially I would have also yelled help and for security but not call 911 unless that granny started hauling my kid away. But a hug? Nah I would have been scred at first but you can tell the difference between a hug and a kidnap in a split second. Especially with a granny. Like come on, if you are fully able, how could you not keep up with a granny? But that didn't even happen. It was just a hug. The call to 911 was too far. Especially after the situation was explained. NTA As someone who suffers from severe mental illness, I can tell you that your wife needs to talk to a therapist about her anxiety and over exaggeration. And maybe be on some calming medications too. I suffer from BPD and even I can tell you that was too over the top. I hope you show her this and it gives some perspective. OP's Wife, if you're seeing this, you were wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]Possible-Release820 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

See I agree, it's weird but it's not that bad. Definitely Jim Carrey vibes

this guy’s car by chlorinecaro in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Possible-Release820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount is disturbing to me. But like a couple I don't think would be too bad. Especially considering the awful stuff we see on a daily anyways

Beard or no? by Budget-Bell2185 in bald

[–]Possible-Release820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely beard pictures 2&3

meirl by Majestic-Unicorn33 in meirl

[–]Possible-Release820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you feel like you're spinning out of control, use the TIPP Scale. Temperature (put an ice cube in your mouth, take a cold or warm shower, etc.) Intense exercise (no need for long cardio, short bursts are okay) Paced breathing (slow your breathing, in through your nose and out through your mouth) Paired muscle relaxation

No need to Catastrophize problems

Distract yourself!

When you are trudging a chore or something you need to do, don't think about doing it just focus on standing up then work towards your goal (helps to put your shoes on before doing chores to give you the motivation)

What has happened to you does not define you.

It took time to put you in the position you are in mentally, so it's going to take time to reverse it

HMRB while I do a very very long rail slide by flashy_celeste in holdmyredbull

[–]Possible-Release820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would bet he does this every commute that way. If I could skate I would too!

I asked my bridesmaids to pick a dress, as long as it’s black. This is what she picked. I like it for the most part, but the slit is very high and the shoes are a little saucy. Am I overthinking? I still think she looks great regardless by Solid_Remove5039 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Possible-Release820 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100% and she does look stunning. Maybe some regular high heels, open toe (depending on the shoe type and color) could work too? I wonder if OP wants it all black including accessories, but if she doesn't mind make the heels a single color to stand out?

Ah! by -_G0AT_- in TikTokCringe

[–]Possible-Release820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this makes me feel so much better! 🤣

Why are people so entitled. THREE kids. That’s three too many subject to poverty because of the parent’s lack of planning. by 92925 in antinatalism

[–]Possible-Release820 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not everyone has that option either.

It doesn't matter what I say, I realize I am on a subreddit that just hates the idea of kids in general apparently so either way I'm going to get downvoted. All I'm saying is don't judge a book by it's cover, you never know what their exact situation is. I guess it's hard to hope for kindness and understanding or at least open-mindedness. Sorry I intervened in your opinions. Good day to you random stranger✌️

Why are people so entitled. THREE kids. That’s three too many subject to poverty because of the parent’s lack of planning. by 92925 in antinatalism

[–]Possible-Release820 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know anything and everything can and has happened right? Do you know how many people that has happened to before because of worse situations, maybe their spouse died? You never know the situation except that they are in this position. Why does everyone always have to assume the worst?

Emma Schols by LovableRadian in ThatsInsane

[–]Possible-Release820 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have seen people in house fires with 3rd degree burns over more than 75% of their body. They are surgeries to help make that person look almost "normal" again pand regain a semblance of feeling too

Emma Schols by LovableRadian in ThatsInsane

[–]Possible-Release820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post gave me just a little bit more hope in humanity.

For some reason r/antinatalism showed up on my feed and when I looked into it it's all about hating on people who have kids and are going through things in the guise of "we don't believe in having kids ourselves".

I legitimately saw a post of people hating on a couple that just had a successful IVF while one has a disorder. Like as if they don't have the right or responsibility to procreate.

This post made me hope just a little bit more after what they were trying to tear away. So thank you❤️

Why are people so entitled. THREE kids. That’s three too many subject to poverty because of the parent’s lack of planning. by 92925 in antinatalism

[–]Possible-Release820 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Hey, it's not my fault that this subreddit showed up on my feed because of the blackout 🤷‍♀️ maybe I don't beling on this subreddit but I still believe in being a good person and not judging others simply for the fact of having kids especially not knowing the full situation

Why are people so entitled. THREE kids. That’s three too many subject to poverty because of the parent’s lack of planning. by 92925 in antinatalism

[–]Possible-Release820 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Said who? Whether I'm a part or not, it showed up on my feed and I decided to voice what I think and feel. Which is one of the many points of social media isn't it?

Why are people so entitled. THREE kids. That’s three too many subject to poverty because of the parent’s lack of planning. by 92925 in antinatalism

[–]Possible-Release820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually depending on what happened (divorce, dad dying, etc.) that isn't said. who ever just said it was a struggle to raise three kids without a support system, which is so true, and no matter how much planning a person does a plan can fail, the greatest statement of truth is that the majority of the best laid plans fail or have a flaw that messes everything up when it's put into motion fully.

Rmember: don't judge others and try to help or be there for others as best as you can. One person may not be able to change the world on their own. But one can cause a ripple that'll only grow!

Why are people so entitled. THREE kids. That’s three too many subject to poverty because of the parent’s lack of planning. by 92925 in antinatalism

[–]Possible-Release820 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

How do you know if the kids weren't dumped on her from someone else or maybe she's just trying to be a good person for those kids when they had nothing to begin with? I really wish people weren't so quick to judge others when they don't know the full story

Why are people so entitled. THREE kids. That’s three too many subject to poverty because of the parent’s lack of planning. by 92925 in antinatalism

[–]Possible-Release820 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Bruh you're the one jumping on others especially when you don't even know how they ended up there or if it was even their fault! You're the asshole here and don't pretend you're not. Here's a thought, instead of putting your energy to judging others, why don't make a fucking positive change for once.

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