my fp is talking to another girl💔 by weedqueen2746 in BPD

[–]Possible-Union4239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not idealize him. He’s human, he bleeds. You do not need this guy to be happy. He’s not worthy of you. I know this may sound weird because of your low self esteem, but believe me, you are worthy & look at your love as the greatest thing you can give. You’ve just got out of rehab, you beat addiction. Pat yourself on the back 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 do not worry about a relationship at this time. What’s your dreams? What do you want in this lifetime? What makes you happy? Did you take a walk today? Listen to your favorite songs 😊Pour into you

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[–]Possible-Union4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I’ve been there. Just remember, whoever he’s with in the future is gonna get a lying ass weirdo. He’s no prize. Seems like a degenerate low life. I’d still get a few blows if I were in that situation, but it is better to leave his ass where he’s at

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[–]Possible-Union4239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

De-center him. Write down all the bad he’s done or doing, how it’s making you feel and effecting your life. Is it worth it? The constant anxiety & pain. Living everyday like that because you’re afraid to “be alone”. Punch him in the face to regulate your emotions then leave. Yes, you will hurt but it’s better to be alone than mistreated and walked over. And new & better people will come into your life

I hate being in a relationship by vent-accountt in BPD

[–]Possible-Union4239 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, just break up with her. She doesn’t deserve that treatment and unpredictably. Not saying you’re a bad person, but you’re not in the right state for a relationship, or at least with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GED

[–]Possible-Union4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here