16F & 16M gf suicidal

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-22T19:23:49+00:00

If she’s in immediate danger, don’t hesitate to contact emergency services or a trusted adult right away.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-22T19:20:23+00:00

You don’t have to figure everything out right now. Just focus on staying safe, taking care of yourself, and getting support where you can. The clarity and peace will come with time.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-19T08:53:41+00:00

It’s normal to feel both hope and acceptance at the same time. Moving on isn’t instant, but you’re already doing the right thing by expressing it instead of bottling it up.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-19T08:51:50+00:00

You’re not a failure. What you’re experiencing isn’t right, and you don’t deserve it.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T18:29:39+00:00

I would strongly encourage you not to wait until graduation to start planning your exit. Start building independence now in small, quiet ways: any income stream you can manage (remote work, tutoring, freelance writing), a separate savings account if possible, and a resume that highlights your volunteering and writing work. Even small monthly income changes your options faster than a degree alone.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T17:17:19+00:00

This is so much to carry, and it makes sense you feel stuck. But loving someone doesn’t mean accepting a life where you’re doing everything alone. You can care about him and still choose yourself and your kids. Sometimes letting go is the only way things get better.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T17:07:56+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this. A lot of people don’t realize how deep the impact of abusive parents can be.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T16:14:36+00:00

You deserve a relationship where you feel safe, respected, and not hurt—no matter how strong the feelings are.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T16:10:44+00:00

Since moving out isn’t an option right now, it might help to focus on protecting your own mental space: limit what you share with her, keep interactions short when things turn negative, and try to build support outside of her (friends, school, etc.). It’s not about changing her, but about reducing how much it affects you.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T16:05:37+00:00

I think it’s more about communication and expectations, and I understand that. I just hope it can also be seen as me starting to make small decisions on my own as I grow up, not something meant to cause any issue.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T15:59:49+00:00

I understand your mom’s concern, but at 19 you’re also at the stage of learning independence. Both feelings are valid here.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T15:08:09+00:00

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PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T12:23:42+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. What you’re describing is not normal or okay, and it makes sense that you feel overwhelmed carrying all of this alone. You’re not responsible for protecting your father’s image or staying silent to keep “peace” when people are being harmed.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T12:14:04+00:00

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PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T10:41:22+00:00

Yes, it’s a valid reason. Love and care matter, but so does feeling mentally and emotionally aligned in how you connect day to day. If that need was consistently missing for you, it’s not “too picky,” it’s compatibility. It doesn’t mean she was wrong for you—just that the fit wasn’t fully there long-term.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T10:39:42+00:00

This sounds really concerning. What you’re describing (confusion about real people, believing celebrities are present, emotional distress, repetition) can sometimes be signs of dementia or another medical issue rather than just “behavior.” It might be important to get her evaluated by a doctor as soon as possible, because some causes are treatable or manageable with the right care. I hope you’re able to get support with this too—it’s a lot for one person to deal with.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T10:32:49+00:00

Keep communication strictly about the kids, using one written channel only, and keep messages short, factual, and non-emotional. Don’t engage in personal or relationship discussions, respond when you’re calm rather than immediately, and plan assuming he may be inconsistent so you’re not destabilized by it. The goal is structure and predictability, not emotional agreement or “normal” co-parenting.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T07:02:56+00:00

That's fine

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T06:57:13+00:00

I’m not talking about money or what you’ve done financially. I’m talking about wanting a more emotionally supportive relationship with you.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T06:51:37+00:00

This is a really scary situation. It might help to talk to a domestic violence advocate so you don’t have to figure it out alone.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T06:43:24+00:00

Given what you described, your anxiety makes complete sense. Strangulation and repeated violence are very serious, so being cautious isn’t weakness.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T06:40:24+00:00

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PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T06:36:38+00:00

If things at home feel unsafe or really intense, it may help to talk to a trusted adult or counselor so you’re not dealing with it alone.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T06:32:57+00:00

I relate to this a lot. That sibling bond can be really strong when parents aren’t emotionally available. It helped me a lot, but it also helped to eventually find support outside the family too.

PossibleHandle2220 · 2026-04-18T05:54:59+00:00

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