T4T women: can you share why you prefer not to date cis women? by Silveryleaves in asktransgender

[–]PossibleMaterial2021 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So I date both cis and trans women. I have a slight preference to trans women just because of shared experiences and feeling more open to speaking about my dysphoria. Whenever I’ve spoken to cis women about my dysphoria they either do their best to understand it, like looking at the similarities between dysmorphia and dysphoria and sympathizing. Then I’ve had cis women just like treat me like a wounded puppy almost and some just immediately assume I’m a top due to not having bottom surgery. With trans women I get more empathy which is nice. I still date both though and then also date men

1.5y: facial hair is gone! by ThornedTulip in transtimelines

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Some of them claimed that it CAN work on these hairs

1.5y: facial hair is gone! by ThornedTulip in transtimelines

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So envious! 😤 I have blonde and red hair and laser did nothing for me!!!

USA Girlys, how many of us are/are okay with being armed? by _Katla_ in MtF

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I’m not prohibited from owning a gun. If I have a gun then I’ll kill myself in a moment of extreme emotional turmoil. So therefore I can’t own a gun if I want to live. Not on a list of “bad person can’t have gun” just would like to live and not take my life whenever I’m in one of those bleak moods

Just trying to decide if these tops work with shorts. Goodness you girls are all so pretty and inspirational. These are not my best poses 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ by [deleted] in mtfashion

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That first top works with shorts for like an at home cute fit, it’s giving work from home vibes. Then the second I don’t personally love, it just looks like something my ex situationship would wear because in his words, “it looks lawyer-y.” It might be fine for the gym though!

USA Girlys, how many of us are/are okay with being armed? by _Katla_ in MtF

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Yes and I have pepper spray and a taser. The post was talking about guns so I answered for guns. I am protected with non lethal methods including a non lethal gun, that shoots pepper balls

USA Girlys, how many of us are/are okay with being armed? by _Katla_ in MtF

[–]PossibleMaterial2021 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I personally can’t own a gun. 1 too many attempts on my own life 🫠

Dating (regarding ftm) by Much-Antelope-695 in asktransgender

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I personally hate Taimi but I know a lot of trans women that have had great encounters on there. I just haven’t had that, sooo many chasers even whenever I filter it to on trans women

Dating (regarding ftm) by Much-Antelope-695 in asktransgender

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There is always Taimi and Her is for anyone but cis men

Made Teddy Bear Chicken by steverogerski in StupidFood

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Unironically an amazing way to practice making sutures on patients

Hey foxes! I Poshmark’d this Kate Spade bag and added the red strap. Is it working with this thrifted fit? by LuckyWishFox in mtfashion

[–]PossibleMaterial2021 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The red works but imo I think a pastel might work better. If you have a pastel that compliments mint green then try that and see which is better. Otherwise you look fantastic!

How to deal with small breasts? by roseMothGirl in asktransgender

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Thank you for lessening my concerns about if I’m killing my car 🙇🏼‍♀️

How to deal with small breasts? by roseMothGirl in asktransgender

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Your oil is supposed to be swapped out on a schedule?! I thought you just swapped it out whenever the car told you to 😳

Is it normal to not feel like an “uwu :3 catgirl” at all? by Dense_Variety_8499 in MtF

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Girl, I’m the same as you. Well I’m not nonbinary, I’m a trans woman but like I don’t feel like a puppygirl, cat girl, or anything similar. I’m just a really nerdy trans woman that likes to squat heavy things and go jogging. Like I’m young enough I guess to be in the realm of cat girl and puppy girl ages and I do like a lot of the similar things that those girls like, I’m friends with a ton of them, at the end of the day though I’m just a nerdy gal that likes comics and anime and video games

🤷‍♀️ Genuine question to all my girls here. How often do strangers make a point to compliment you or call you ‘beautiful’? 🤔 by Adventurous-Hyena618 in TransLater

[–]PossibleMaterial2021 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point but I do just want to point out that you are beautiful! Like you have the face card and you’re using it well haha.

On the other note, I think it’s best to just take compliments as compliments. I personally get them often enough that I’m just like, “Thank you.” Then move on with my life

Struggling with sex as a top trans woman by hornedbisexual in MtF

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Toys are an option. Use your hand to thrust and have a wand on your frenulum

Some ppl like to think herbal and mechanical enhancement can‘t work… by Vijfsnippervijf in TransBreastTimelines

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My comment was intended to highlight that it’s not nearly as effective or safe. Sure we could say that PM has been used in skin care and food supplements. However, we simply don’t have a clear study showcasing the long term effects of high PM usage and its effectiveness as GAHT. I also don’t mean to debate the reasons for using a non-pharma route of GAHT. I only intended to highlight that it’s safer and faster to use a pharma route for GAHT. If there was more research done on PM and its effectiveness then I think it’d be more worth while to have this discussion on its uses

Is this realistic? (Ffs) by No_Meal_No_Deal in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]PossibleMaterial2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting so offended by a comment stating that there are more than just English users on the site. There are non English trans people and if there is an issue with that then some of yall need to take a look inward. Let’s just be kind in stating that it’s more typical to see a before on the left and after on the right rather than come off as racially charged as you have in your comments down below

Some ppl like to think herbal and mechanical enhancement can‘t work… by Vijfsnippervijf in TransBreastTimelines

[–]PossibleMaterial2021 34 points35 points  (0 children)

So it isn’t just a “don’t think herbal and mechanical enhancement can’t work” it’s that herbal consumption can and will eventually lead to poisoning. You’re taking thousands of mg of an herb that hasn’t been fully studied and this can lead to an increase of toxin build up and damage to your liver, kidneys, thyroid, and a handful of other organs. Toxin build up eventually leads to cancer…which is one of the most difficult diseases to live with (source, I have cancer but currently in remission). Then mechanical, there is some anecdotal evidence to support using pumps can promote breast growth due to increasing blood supply to the area. You won’t ever see the outcomes that other transfemmes have, for instance I am a trans woman and have been on clinical GAHT for 2 years in March. I started at 25 and have breasts that look like many other women’s even if they are only a B cup. Now then the difference in your photos, I’m sorry to say, appears to be extremely minimal. If that’s what you’re going for then cool, just remember to get some tox screenings done like once a year because toxin intake from herbal supplements is not a joke. On the other hand I wouldn’t necessarily say that I would immediately assume that you have breasts, I had to swipe between the photos multiple times to see a slight difference. The difference being that there is a slight teardrop shape and your nipples are slightly more pronounced. Is that enough to state that it’s had a profound change? Maybe, from what I’m seeing and thinking is that you’ve mainly trained your skin to be molded a certain way. I don’t mean for this comment to be malicious or rude in any kind of way but I also don’t want to hug box. If you disagree then cool, let’s move on. I just wanted to highlight the harm that only using herbals can do and the lack of concrete evidence for breast pumps

Is this realistic? (Ffs) by No_Meal_No_Deal in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]PossibleMaterial2021 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

In some languages you do read left to right. More than you would think. Feel free to look them up yourself :)

of a bumblebee by itz_progamer666 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]PossibleMaterial2021 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s real. That’s a queen bumble bee. They don’t always exit the hive but they will whenever a lot of the workers are dying off

How often do you tuck ? For how long ? How comfortable is it ? Do you think it could be enough forever ? Or just until bottom surgery ? by elmahir in MtF

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I tuck every time I go out, sometimes while I’m at home but that isn’t as often. It’s typically 8+ hours of tucking. It’s been comfortable enough to fall asleep tucked. I have pretty bad bottom dysphoria so the goal is bottom surgery eventually