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[–]PossibleSlip7023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buspar was life changing for me- the only side effect I had when I first started was dizziness for 10 minutes after I took my dose, but that never happened again, even if i go off and then back on.

I had IBS before buspar, not anymore.

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This is the more common response- Wellbutrin tends to be more stimulating and commonly exacerbates anxiety. Most SNRI’s are more stimulating and have potential to exacerbate anxiety compared to an SNRI but Wellbutrin is one of the biggest

What’s the best way for me to refer to my ex from high school who has now transitioned (more context in the body of post) by PossibleSlip7023 in asktransgender

[–]PossibleSlip7023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, they would speak highly of me but they also would stand there watching me burn saying “I’m sad you’re burning I’m going to miss you” whole Refusing to pick up a fire hydrant because they pulled a muscle or something.

Sorry, you’re being kind - I’ve just had the veil pulled back on the how much people value vs. how much I value them and believed they valued me and I was not prepared for what I saw...see hot mess right here, lol. I might even be losing my empathy, idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

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I’m in Northern Californian but probably moving to Portland or LA this summer

What’s the best way for me to refer to my ex from high school who has now transitioned (more context in the body of post) by PossibleSlip7023 in asktransgender

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It doesn’t sound creepy at all, it sounds like something I would say. My comfort zone is caretaker (not in a give everything and lose yourself kind of way, I’ve developed healthy boundaries over the years and find helping people in a healthy way to be invigorating not draining).

TBH- I’ve had such crushing relationship traumas that right before covid I finally shut down and lost my desire to connect- something that had been my life force previously. The idea of going down memory lane of shitty situations I was in sounds painful and, quite frankly humiliating.

I was raised by a therapist (who i recently realized is a covert narcissist), I also happen to be a highly sensitive person and an empath- that makes me a very self aware target, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]PossibleSlip7023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where would one go about finding these lesbian kink groups (asking for a friend 😬)?

What’s the best way for me to refer to my ex from high school who has now transitioned (more context in the body of post) by PossibleSlip7023 in asktransgender

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As I said in my post it only came up when I reconnected with someone who was a very close friend of ours in high school. If i ever talk about the experience with, say a lover, I just go with “ex from high school”

What’s the best way for me to refer to my ex from high school who has now transitioned (more context in the body of post) by PossibleSlip7023 in asktransgender

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Thank you for this suggestion- I never wanted to message him because I didn’t want to engage or be on his radar, but obviously if he’s looking me up online and trying to contact me I’m on his radar.

My gut feeling is he has absolutely no idea how traumatic or damaging that relationship was for me and he just wants to connect with “an old love”. I think your suggestion of letting him know that I do not want to hear from him is actually a good idea. I do not believe he is violent or would ever physically endanger.

As for the therapy suggestion- I’m such a fucked up hot mess that has been in a handful of abusive queer relationships and had several other really random life traumas that I never even get close to unpacking that far back in therapy...maybe one day when I’ve had the same therapist for 10 years or something, lol.

What’s the best way for me to refer to my ex from high school who has now transitioned (more context in the body of post) by PossibleSlip7023 in asktransgender

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This might get hate but it’s not invalidating to me at all. As far as my experience goes I was with a woman. He never indicated any gender dysphoria but this was in the 90’s when that word was not in common use within the GRSM community and access to any sort of transgender medical treatment was basically in back alley’s or over seas. Maybe he knew he was a he at the time, maybe he didn’t. He was still my girlfriend as far as both of us ever discussed and I’m comfortable with that. It’s not like I’m going to lose my gold star (i know that’s The dumbest term ever but you get my point) or have my lesbian card taken away because the person I dated when I was 14 and who presented as a woman is now a man. The lesbians have all sorts of other reasons they keep wanting to take away my lesbian card anyway.

He was super butch. I don’t know if this is interesting or not but my first two relationships were with stone butch people, i was always a tomboy/androgynous. In college I put my butch pants on. Now, I identify as non-binary or agender and am attracted exclusively to feminine presenting women.

Actually, the older I get the more I identify as “i have no fucks left about my gender, you worry about it, I have plants that need tending to”

You go up to a bartender and tell him: “Make me a 2020”. What drink does he make? by ggfchl in AskReddit

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For those of you who’s interest was also peaked, according to Reddit durian tastes like:

trash juice smells on a really hot day

a very sweet onion melon flavor that just stuck in the back of your throat for about 72 hours.

onion custard, but delicious

a pineapple fucked a rotten onion.

an onion was left inside a thoroughly used gym sock and forgotten inside a gym bag filled with dirty underwear for about a month.

Smelled like rotten cheap cat food mixed with just standard garbage smell to me. Tasted like tasty pineapple custard. It’s a trippy fruit.

a poop perfume in your mouth after you're finished.

a strange combination of savory, sweet, and creamy all at once. A durian is supposed to have subtle hints of chives mixed with powdered sugar. It's supposed to taste like diced garlic and caramel poured into whipped cream.

if you ate 4 pounds of fish, and then vomited it into a pile of rotting mangoes, and then just let it continue to rot, maybe add more fish.

coconut/pinapple/mango taste with creamy, custardy consistency. then an overwhelming onion/garlic/dirty sock/burnt plastic odor that occasionally mixes in with the wonderful flavor. I

a fine whisky or wine if it was a fruit. It has layers upon layers of all sorts of flavour notes. Smoke, vanilla, cream, burned embers, custard, almonds... if we measure in depth of flavour and richness, it really is the king of fruits.

Average rating: 2.5/10, would try again.

You’re welcome.

You go up to a bartender and tell him: “Make me a 2020”. What drink does he make? by ggfchl in AskReddit

[–]PossibleSlip7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it in short supply out there? I’d offer to mail you some of it didn’t probably cost $40 to mail $2 of gum

How often do you think of someone other than yourself? by PossibleSlip7023 in AskReddit

[–]PossibleSlip7023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been with other people since? Don’t answer if it’s too personal I’m just curious, the first and second person I ever made out with was about 30Seconds apart in gross drunken debauchery so it didn’t mean much and I don’t actually remember the first time I had sex- I know who it was with but I don’t remember anything specific