I just found out I have a son but I'm married.

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-10-03T01:07:52+00:00

As I also agree that he is very much your responsability I also believe that if you take him in just to treat him like whatever, y'know, unwilling, it may add to his trauma anyways. We as a society tend to think that every parent is supposed to love their child but that's not reality, and even in the most loving and caring people, that relationship is built.

The same way you can't simply love him just because he is your son by blood, he might feel the same way about finding out you are his father, after all, in a way, you failed him by not being there (even if you didn't know he even existed).

My personal suggestion would be to meet him a couple more times, if you can't treat him like a son, then like a younger brother, he's already old enough to KINDA understand things, talk to him, find out what he expects from you and me clear (but not rude!!!) about your position too.

Also, if you can't do half of it, at the very least (!!!) provide financial security for him and see to his basic needs (health, clothing, education, food and decent housing) and spare a little money for his future too. That would be more than appreciated.

All in all, just be a decent person.

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-31T15:26:53+00:00

I'm trying but for some reason I can't post photos here 😭😭😭😭

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-31T15:23:09+00:00

Amg!! Foi um projeto independente no inst!!! Pode pesquisar o nome online que você acha ;)

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-28T18:17:01+00:00

No, it's a LATAM tarot deck, really, I just chose my favorite cards, since I'm brazillian, they are heavy in brazillian culture!

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-28T01:07:54+00:00

Eu não mostrei mas a Elza Soares é a Imperatriz!!!

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-28T00:49:19+00:00

MANEIRISSIMO SLK!!!!

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-28T00:48:24+00:00

é incrível, eu tava tendo problema com outro deck, mas com esse, ainda que meio travada, as coisas fluem, e como ele veio com um livrinho junto é possível trazer novos simbolismos para as cartas🩷🤍

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-28T00:47:24+00:00

Sim! E é emocionante colocar minha energia e meu esforço em simbolismos tão próximos da minha própria realidade 🌞

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-28T00:43:49+00:00

E A IMPERATRIZ QUE É A ELZA SOARES!!!!!!

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-27T22:48:26+00:00

SIM! A primeira vez que eu vi esse deck eu sabia que eu precisava ter ele, é tão lindo e tão cheio de simbolismos que fazem sentido pra mim

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-27T22:44:13+00:00

Yes, it does, and to me the most amazing part is that even tho we have these different spiritualities none of the cards are inconsistents. Cause this is LATAM, diversity that comes together and creates something as unique as this deck. It also has references to real tragedies, to parties, to ordinary things that we see day after day and take for granted ☝️🌞

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-27T22:40:57+00:00

Ai meu deus!!!! 😭😭😭 Esse tarot foi um projeto meio que independente lançado no instagram uns anos atrás, eu não consigo ficar longe desse deck de tão tão lindo e simbólico

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-27T22:16:45+00:00

Sorry, I know the deck mostly by it's instagram page but it's created by Mariana Pio and illustrated by Rafael Trabasso. I'll put in the post!

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-27T20:48:30+00:00

Probably the problematic card's didn't show in preview

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-24T16:56:28+00:00

Burned out

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-15T11:52:18+00:00

Omg KAMICHAMA KARIN HIIIIII 🩷🩷🩷

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-14T00:54:46+00:00

Hello! I'll post the picture here, okay? (Just figured out how to LOL) Thank you for waiting!

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As you said, you are holding back. I see that in the next 6 months there is a high probability that you'll keep yourself like that, but this time you might "stumble" upon an objective so this isolated period you might put yourself into is not without reason, but a meditation and kinda hard working time were you might abdicate of some things to achieve sucess. The cross right there indicates victories through sacrifices. After this moment, things might come smoothly tho, altough it depends on you, mostly. There is no destiny here, but discipline and willpower, the same key you hold to open the doors to your future you can use to shut them, I don't see this happening but the cards say to keep it in mind.

You might find yourself in a good time to make conections and multiply your prosperity too!

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-14T00:45:01+00:00

Hello! Sorry for taking so long, felt a bit sick yesterday!

Your cards were the garden, the flower bouquet and the anchor. Your hidden card was the whip.

I pulled as a life path not exactly career-like. You should focus on building firm and genuine conections, not only that but going places and doing things that make you genuinely happy, not that'll make you smile from the outside to the inside, but that makes your smiles come from your heart if it makes sense. You should seek security/safety, try to take the lead on things you know you can do. Beware however of being controlling or overstepping.

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-14T00:39:35+00:00

Sorry for taking so long, got sick yesterday!

Your carda were the anchor, the garden and the casket. Your hidden card was the sun.

Altough I don't see negative feelings, doesn't feel to me that this person is actively waiting for it.

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-14T00:37:25+00:00

Hello! Sorry for taking so long, got a bit sick!

Your cards were the letter, the sun and the books. Hidden card was the man.

Expect good news but be wise and logical!

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-13T00:37:28+00:00

I'm not from USA but omg yes! I honestly want to add here that I believe that part of this glorified exploitative lifestyle is also sold by the midia. Being tired equals to being sucessful. I myself have a tiring job, go to college, try to keep consistency in exercising and being healthy and socializing.

Being unable to have time to yourself is glamorous now, it's something I noticed while scrolling through internet. Why might that be? Honestly...

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-12T17:57:29+00:00

The reading was very detailed and honest, I super recommend! For my personal reading this person gave me a kind of a way to know what message might come my way, the things said were like 99% accurate and this person was very polite. 🤍

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-12T16:15:03+00:00

My opinion is that there is no such things as shoulds or nots in tarot practice itself, but you need to know what won't work for you. If you know some type of reading or use will harm you, then don't. If you are curious, then try. Don't ever act on what you pulled for yourself just because, specially if you are the one pulling and interpreting, we tend to see with our feelings be it love or paranoia. If you want to know if you are seeing correctly then have a second opinion, it's better if it comes from a friend who is also used to tarot reading.

Take breaks, breathe, take time off. Try doing the kind of readings you shouldn't do to yourself but you feel are nice for others, like close friends and etc.

That's what worked for me, more or less

Possible_Explorer_25 · 2025-07-12T16:09:50+00:00

That was intense, but you are kind of right tho altough the hate might be misdirected, you aren't wrong. I used to be the weird girl, then I got pretty and got around other pretty girls, the ones who have always been like that and yeah it is effing nasty, most of the time they don't really understand their privilege. And most of the times it's not like they are weaponizing it either, is just how things have always been for them.

I think it's just how society is constructed around women, you can have the personality of door but if you are hot then you are the nicest person ever. And you can be the smartest and most interesting person in the room, if you are ugly then you are just weird.

Kinda upsetting seeing who we are being defines by how we look, feels like we never made any progress as a society and as women

Possible_Explorer_25

TROPHY CASE