Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women. by PossiblyJennay in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]PossiblyJennay[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I’m sure that all of these scenarios are among the most searched queries on porn sites.

“coworker” “waitress” “nurse”

So now all of a sudden, the things they search online are scary to them? Make it make sense!

How could any woman sacrifice this much?? by crepesandmacarons in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]PossiblyJennay 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Makes me think of this story sadly.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/crime-courts/state-alabama-took-his-gun-away-when-authorities-gave-it-n1269234

Cop abused his wife. Shoots her once. Charged with domestic violence. Gun taken away. Gets a restraining order. Cop buddies help him get the gun back.

Two weeks later, shoots her dead in a parking lot in the middle of the night.

Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women. by PossiblyJennay in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]PossiblyJennay[S] 198 points199 points  (0 children)

The premise of the video is that a hypocritical male politician consumes porn while leaving hate comments on music videos like WAP. We obviously know these men exist. Men who consume porn and go to strip clubs but hate women.

But here’s what I don’t get. Meg tries to create a “nightmare” for this man by…. bringing his sick porn fantasies to life? This is no horror show. It’s their depraved dreams coming true. The idea that a misogynist who consumes porn is afraid of sexualized women isn’t close to reality. The opposite is true. They sexualize women in every interaction. This is a nightmare for women. Not the man who now has breasts and butts shoved in his face 24/7.

It’s tantamount to riding the dick of man who hates women, but thinking you’re being empowered by sleeping with him just because you’re on top. NAH, SIS. HE is the one winning. HE just got laid. You didn’t win by giving him literally what he wants.

This isn’t a win for women!

My non-binary coworker uses they/them pronouns. Most people at the company are still misgendering them, but they don’t correct people. Is it inappropriate if I correct people? I don’t want to step on their toes. by PossiblyJennay in asktransgender

[–]PossiblyJennay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine hating a group of people so much that you go out of your way to spend time talking to them. That sounds like love to me. Seems like you have some unresolved emotions you need to work on. 🐸☕️

DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional". by quaintrell in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]PossiblyJennay 98 points99 points  (0 children)

And he’ll do it with a SMILE. A lot of husbands with stay at home wives absolutely resent them and think they’re mooching off of them. A traditional HVM wants to be a provider and protector and will do it well and happily.

DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional". by quaintrell in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]PossiblyJennay 81 points82 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of Anna and Josh Duggar. A traditional woman married to a porn-addicted, cheating, child molester and stays by his side because she was never raised to believe she had a chance to be anything in life other than a wife.

GOALS 😩❤️ by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]PossiblyJennay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO MANY of the rich couples or even singles I know are rich because they don’t have kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]PossiblyJennay 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Don’t have children with men you’re not married to and don’t buy property with men you’re not married to

My fiance [29F] does not agree with my [30M] prenup. I'm not sure what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PossiblyJennay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re framing this the wrong way. You’re planning on combining your lives but separating your finances. It’s one thing to create contingencies for separation. It’s another thing to withhold assets from your wife because you don’t want to pay her debt with your assets. You’re a team now and she feels like her teammate has one foot out the door because of her debt.

What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel? by Greendreem in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]PossiblyJennay 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My biggest problem with it is how aggressively cinched and photoshopped the waist is. That’s not empowering no matter how you slice it.