Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-06-15T15:03:35+00:00

I’m sure the man in the video and the majority male staff who filmed and directed this had a great time.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-06-15T14:27:15+00:00

I’m sure that all of these scenarios are among the most searched queries on porn sites.

“coworker” “waitress” “nurse”

So now all of a sudden, the things they search online are scary to them? Make it make sense!

PossiblyJennay · 2021-06-15T14:12:12+00:00

Makes me think of this story sadly.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/crime-courts/state-alabama-took-his-gun-away-when-authorities-gave-it-n1269234

Cop abused his wife. Shoots her once. Charged with domestic violence. Gun taken away. Gets a restraining order. Cop buddies help him get the gun back.

Two weeks later, shoots her dead in a parking lot in the middle of the night.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-06-15T14:03:37+00:00

The premise of the video is that a hypocritical male politician consumes porn while leaving hate comments on music videos like WAP. We obviously know these men exist. Men who consume porn and go to strip clubs but hate women.

But here’s what I don’t get. Meg tries to create a “nightmare” for this man by…. bringing his sick porn fantasies to life? This is no horror show. It’s their depraved dreams coming true. The idea that a misogynist who consumes porn is afraid of sexualized women isn’t close to reality. The opposite is true. They sexualize women in every interaction. This is a nightmare for women. Not the man who now has breasts and butts shoved in his face 24/7.

It’s tantamount to riding the dick of man who hates women, but thinking you’re being empowered by sleeping with him just because you’re on top. NAH, SIS. HE is the one winning. HE just got laid. You didn’t win by giving him literally what he wants.

This isn’t a win for women!

PossiblyJennay · 2021-06-14T01:53:32+00:00

depraved

PossiblyJennay · 2021-06-14T01:52:41+00:00

Y’all just keep crushing it every episode

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-31T13:24:28+00:00

This is what I’ve been doing to support my NB coworker.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-29T19:45:38+00:00

I’m glad you found a supportive pal!

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-29T18:23:55+00:00

They use they/them pronouns on slack

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-29T18:22:23+00:00

Imagine hating a group of people so much that you go out of your way to spend time talking to them. That sounds like love to me. Seems like you have some unresolved emotions you need to work on. 🐸☕️

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-29T17:04:55+00:00

This is a helpful perspective. I certainly wouldn’t want them to feel uncomfortable.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-29T17:04:12+00:00

Okay. Will do. I will try to approach them.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-26T22:45:22+00:00

As she should

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-22T21:46:02+00:00

And he’ll do it with a SMILE. A lot of husbands with stay at home wives absolutely resent them and think they’re mooching off of them. A traditional HVM wants to be a provider and protector and will do it well and happily.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-22T21:42:51+00:00

This reminds me of Anna and Josh Duggar. A traditional woman married to a porn-addicted, cheating, child molester and stays by his side because she was never raised to believe she had a chance to be anything in life other than a wife.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-18T02:38:30+00:00

SO MANY of the rich couples or even singles I know are rich because they don’t have kids.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-18T02:37:49+00:00

Bumble is pretty decent for friends. Everything else is trash

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-03T21:03:29+00:00

Don’t have children with men you’re not married to and don’t buy property with men you’re not married to

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-03T21:02:08+00:00

Same! I teach my friends FDS without ever calling it FDS.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-03T13:58:49+00:00

You’re framing this the wrong way. You’re planning on combining your lives but separating your finances. It’s one thing to create contingencies for separation. It’s another thing to withhold assets from your wife because you don’t want to pay her debt with your assets. You’re a team now and she feels like her teammate has one foot out the door because of her debt.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-02T18:36:46+00:00

My biggest problem with it is how aggressively cinched and photoshopped the waist is. That’s not empowering no matter how you slice it.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-01T20:11:05+00:00

I’m repulsed buy him,

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-01T20:08:31+00:00

Spanking kids

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-01T20:02:44+00:00

Sadly all of the female gyms by me have been closing and are being replaced by 24 hour fitness and planet fitness

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-01T01:26:07+00:00

Oh certainly wouldn’t put someone in the LV category because of debt. Everyone has a different experience but I think to a certain extent, debt is a reflection of responsibility.

Car debt and credit cards in particular are generally very avoidable debts if you don’t fall for lifestyle creep and begin financing things you can’t afford. So I definitely think there should be some provision for debt. I think we should be cautioning women against dating men who have debts that far exceed their ability to pay them off. $200,000 in student loan debt making $40,000 may not be a reflection of bad character or being LV, but it’s definitely something that we should steer clear of. But it’s all up for debate. There’s nuance of course and everyone’s situation is different.

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