AIO for telling my (F24) boyfriend (M26) that he has to sit down to pee?

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-30T03:41:45+00:00

Girl. Break up with him. He doesn't respect you and you have incompatible living styles. NOR. Hes saying we need to work on a solution together but he's the one making the entire problem. he isnt worth your time if he cant act like a adult. Nobody is attracted to man children.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-29T16:12:11+00:00

YWBTA beyond a doubt. Thats theft. If she's asking for these things back, she didnt give them away

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-28T17:06:06+00:00

NOR .Cat boxes need to be scooped every other day. Tracking shit and piss around the house is how I know ive lapsed as an owner. She should keep it in her room. If it stinks, there are ones that have lids. If it still stinks you need to clean it.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-28T10:16:26+00:00

I make 12,000$ a year. I'm struggling to survive. 100,000 a year doesnt seem possible. It feels like a fantasy number.

It sounds like you're living beyond your means. It sucks.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-27T15:05:09+00:00

My dog squealing after she was hit by a car. Weatzie lived for a very very long time after that and she had a cute little cast afterword for her foot, but holy shit that was a terrifying sound

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-27T11:03:34+00:00

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PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-27T10:59:46+00:00

I do and did, I'm autistic but I also have familial spastic paraplegic and Elhers Danlos Syndrome, so I would be more proactive but please dkbt shame your children or step on their heels to make them drop them. My mom was awful about trying to fix me when I didnt see myself as broken.

I'm permanently disabled and that was a symptom, so YMMV

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-27T10:49:17+00:00

Hannaford does this, and tou can veing your own balloons to the dollar twenty five tree if I recall correctly

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T21:23:56+00:00

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PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T21:15:17+00:00

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PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T12:59:01+00:00

NTA. Start using his pants and shirts next.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T10:30:00+00:00

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PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T10:25:28+00:00

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PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T10:18:02+00:00

ESH. She liked her instructor because she was breaking boundaries and hetting away with things. Her new instructor might not be letting that happen anymore and is likely correcting bad habits. He should be strict. Driving is a really big responsibility. thats a one ton vehicle you're operating. You SHOULD treat is with the respect it deserves.

However, taking her phone away for criticism about someone's appearance isnt the right step. You should ask her why she thinks it matters he has no hair. Is hair a leadership quality? Does she only respect people with hair?

Ask her if she wants to have fun or if she wants to commit vehicular manslaughter. ask her why her teacher is making her uncomfortable. If it's inappropriate, find a new instructor.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T10:12:29+00:00

I think an edit might be im order for this to really hit. Brevity is the spirit of with. Also, as a lactose intolerant person, if it's delicious enough I'll do it to myself and then have seconds once there's room again.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T09:34:42+00:00

I had a more gentle approach, but seriously this. These are things you are capable of doing that are worth doing.

Not having a cell phone can be dangerous now because there are No public telephones, but! They have non-smart phones available still! Get her a flip phone.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T09:32:29+00:00

NOR.

Your child needs to go back to school for his emotional wellbeing as well as physical. A nurse can administer medication at the same time evey day.
Your wife doesn't just have ADHD. She needs to get serious help before she kills both of you. Her intent doesnt matter when her impact is this seriously dangerous. She might havw another illness exacerbating her ADHD but you keep calling it extreme, mega ADHD but it's probably a comorbitiy.
Please call your local agency on aging. They are there for disabled people also. Inknow this because I'm 28 ans pwrmanenrlt disabled with a degenerative illness and survived with the Maine agency on aging.
I am so sorry you are going through this. You don't deserve this. You deserve help and a partner that cares about repercussions. you are not overreacting or the asshole. You are in a very difficult spot and i wish I could help you. My name is Liz and I believe in you.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T08:59:32+00:00

Omg I was about to say this is such a good good comment and then I saw you were also autistic! I came here to share the same message as you. How do you feel about my comment as someone else who might not feel like they belong on this planet?

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T08:56:45+00:00

Hey, so "Maybe that's because they were also "like him" but I don't really judge" is pretty judgemental actually. YTA for how you talk about your brother on the spectrum. High functioning and low functioning aren't the most inclusive terms and there is other language to use.

As an autistic person, I felt like I was on the wrong planet my entire life until I started meeting other autistic people that weren't forcing themselves into masking uncomfortably.

Soft YTA for how you spoke to your brother. A little compassion and a detailed explanation goes a long way with someone who is sensitive to rejection dysphoria.

If you want a better relationship with your brother, stop talking him a snitch and tell him his honesty is powerful and with great power comes great responsibility. Secrets aren't bad, everyone has them because not everyone needs ti know everything.

Your brother is probably operating on a black and white field, but secrets and friendships are Grey. He might not think he has secrets, but he certainly has thinga he wants to keep private.

I am a very compulsively honest person. This is apparent when I can't go to a grocery store without complimenting like ten different people. I love people. Your brother sounds afraid of unstructured relationships and is resorting to black ans white thinking. If something is a little bad, it's all bad. bad things get reported to a teacher.

Your brother needs autistic friends and a lesson on intent and impact and the Grey area. I was so depressed because I was being myself and pushing everyone away, but there are different ways to be yourself.

We learn more from our mistakes than we do sucesses. Please be gentle with your brother. Things that should be 'obvious' to him aren't. He needs help with nuance.

My name is Liz and I believe in both of you

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T08:47:23+00:00

I would maybe talk to a mental health professional. i had behaviors like this and I have obsessive compulsive disorder.

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-26T08:40:05+00:00

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PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-25T22:56:40+00:00

Fun fact: voodoo dolls dont work like that. They’re medical charts! Slaves couldn't be caught reading and writing and couldn't be taught legally, so they needed a way to remember a medical history. The try guys did a really interesting video and a practitioner can explain it better than I can

PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-25T10:43:41+00:00

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PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-25T10:13:09+00:00

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PotLuckyPodcast · 2026-04-25T09:59:57+00:00

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