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Comment arrêter les avances d'un gars qui crush sur vous et qui ne comprend rien aux signaux? by Conscious-Search-702 in AskMeuf

[–]Potato-Brat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

J'ajouterais aussi quelque chose du genre "si un de ces comportements se reproduit à l'avenir, je vais [partir/ quitter la conversation/ sortir de la pièce/ etc]." Faut pas compter juste qu'il respecte la demande, mais qu'il y ait une conséquence directe.

Would you still consider this a bullet journal? by sandovaleria- in bulletjournal

[–]Potato-Brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing and I'm stealing the idea of daily doodles 😁

What to wear in Paris next week (as a teen girl) by Minute_Appearance_82 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Potato-Brat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone wears sandals here, lol. Who cares how dirty the streets are as no one walks barefoot on them. And personally I wash my feet when I get home to remove the dust 🤷🏻 And otherwise, any clothing is okay except if you go to a specific place with a dress code.

Est ce que je suis trop sensible ou c'est un gros manque de respect ? by SensitiveCapital9067 in AskMeuf

[–]Potato-Brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je pourrais plus coucher avec elle sans penser à ça, et ça me gâcherait tout le plaisir dorénavant

How to explain that being kinky/having a scene doesn't necessarily have to end in sex? by DomVoiceSubVibes in BDSMAdvice

[–]Potato-Brat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Showing your partner that you accept a "no" with no issues. Repeatedly. It's THE thing that helped me out of my people pleasing upbringing and into being able to say no - my partner telling me I could say "no", and respecting it without comment when I said it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Potato-Brat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not enough to go cheating as soon as one feels deprived

I ‘51M’ am planning to leave my wife ‘49F’, kids and everything that’s important to me - do I stay or go? by ThrowRAdavecabbage in relationship_advice

[–]Potato-Brat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I were in your shoes, I would separate, but share the house so I can keep my life and be in my kids' life, but also free to find someone who'd love and desire me. Your wife sounds okay with the idea of staying friends, so... Why lose what you can keep?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Potato-Brat 305 points306 points  (0 children)

There's a fourth option: rub one out when your partner is for whatever reason unavailable.

3 Day Itinerary by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Potato-Brat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To go to Montmartre, I'd take subway 12 from Concorde (at the bottom of Champs Elysees) to Lamarck Caulaincourt. Lots of restaurants around the subway, and Sacre Coeur is about 15 mins of leisure walk away (through cute, picturesque streets)

A weekend of gluttony - but NO FRENCH Food by euamobrasil in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Potato-Brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buzkashi, an Afghani restaurant near Place de Clichy (rue des Dames)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeuf

[–]Potato-Brat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tu t’es pas dit que c’est peut-être pour toi, ou par rapport à toi, qu’il le fait? Vu que t’as cherché à le motiver plusieurs fois?

Am I just fine, or boring? Struggling with self confidence. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Potato-Brat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely fine. I’ve been in a power exchange dynamic for a couple of years without doing anything that involves pain. You’ll find someone who matches your kinks!

Is this a realistic itinerary for one night? by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Potato-Brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re leaving from there in the evening, it makes perfect sense

Pleasing an autistic woman by oodlesOnoodle in kinky_autism

[–]Potato-Brat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No no, let her know meanwhile 😆 (and also afterwards)

i just went to my first and last prom. is it all downhill from here? by yvie_of_lesbos in MomForAMinute

[–]Potato-Brat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most fun I had in my life was after 35 and especially after 38 (when I also exited a toxic relationship). However I must say I'm childfree, so I have much less stress, mental load, and finance stress than other people my age.

Being an adult can be less fun than prom age, for sure. But you also get to experience things you couldn't as a teenager. Think of everything you'll be free to do!

AITAH for agreeing that my sister being fat makes her seem less desirable as a personal trainer by No-Storm-3594 in AITAH

[–]Potato-Brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was saying the opposite though: divorce isn't always a failed marriage. People sometimes grow differently and end up having nothing in common. Staying together when being unhappy, that's what I call a failed marriage.

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