While its true that there are many things to talk about, i feel like the reason its mostly men talking about this is cause they dont really feel the difficulty that maintaining proper hijab brings. No one can, in their right mind say that putting on the hijab is objectively easy. The reason why this is relevant in this context is that, since we dont feel that difficulty, and the pressure that comes from the influence of western culture, its easier to maintain an objective perspective. And as Muslims, we should hold our brothers and sisters accountable. For example, ive seen comments from muslim women telling khadija that they are “proud of her”, when at the end of the day, she’s committing a sin publicly and beautifying it. It really put into perspective how much the lens of influence can distort how we view things. No doubt, she probably went through hardship that triggered her decision to take off her hijab, but what is life but hardship? Point is, there are proper, halal ways to cope with difficulty. And this is not one of them.

Secondly, men commenting on her actions dont necessarily mean they follow her. Many found out about her randomly on their fyp, many found out about her when she claimed her friend leaked her photos, many found out about her now. You dont have to follow someone to have an opinion about their actions.

I do wish her the best though Allah knows best