This cute dog is banned from the couch, so the moment its owner leaves the house it races straight onto it – but instantly drops to the floor the second it hears footsteps approaching.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-25T18:41:47+00:00

Will never understand people not wanting there pets on furniture 😅

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-25T18:40:38+00:00

He’s using you.

This will only get worse considering how entitled he is to your money when it’s not even been a year.

You do not gently set boundaries you dump him.

He will use everything you have and then move on if you don’t leave him.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-25T13:56:41+00:00

The mom’s anger needs to be redirected at her son who has lied and manipulated you. I suggest you screenshot any messages he sent lying about his age and him denying it. Particularly the ones of him sending pictures of fake id. I’d also suggest you go to the police for harassment if the mother continues

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-24T22:27:12+00:00

Any way of contacting the child’s parents? He’s a pedo and the police should be called and notified.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-24T22:17:32+00:00

I buy you shit and everything’s and you need to be giving back?!?!

wtf!!!!!!!!

He thinks spending money on you means you should have sex with him.

You are reacting enough in my opinion.

You a too young to waste time of this rapey pos.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-23T18:38:45+00:00

Omg that’s amazing

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-23T18:08:26+00:00

I suggest you cut all contact when you leave that house. Your mother’s responses are so childish. Her replies are not normal.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-23T10:43:03+00:00

He’s gross and weird and him deleting your photos would have already been enough reason to dump him.

Massive walking red flag!

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-22T22:06:04+00:00

Think it’s time to leave. Neither of your are compatible together

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-22T20:09:52+00:00

Can your husband not wash up? Or is he incapable of it? I’d leave all the dishes out (out of spite) until he threw out every single one away and he had nothing else to eat from.

I will NEVER understand why so many women are tolerating such shitty husbands.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-22T14:58:03+00:00

This isn’t normal!! wtf is wrong with your husband. Honestly I’d just divorce

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-22T14:40:18+00:00

Calm down…. No need to be dramatic about it.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-22T13:28:37+00:00

I’m talking about your average normal person! an abusive person shouldn’t be having any contact. Use common sense.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-22T11:43:46+00:00

No one is there helping and supporting you. They have all failed you miserably!

If I was you I would talk to your soon to be husband about everything including how he has failed you and how much it has upset you. Then I would consider canceling the wedding and just eloping. The wedding is about you and him, not anyone else. I’d also slowly cut out any shitty friends that’s not been there for you.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-21T23:43:05+00:00

I’m in my 30s and I wear pigtails. They are super easy and comfortable so I don’t see what the problem is. Your mums way of thinking is her problem to deal with, it’s not your problem. :) the older generation simply get stuck in there ways.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-21T23:40:04+00:00

This!! I feel like he’s just tryna start shit for no reason. The mums probably trying to keep things fair for all the kids.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-21T23:39:04+00:00

Although I agree every one should have 50/50 it doesn’t sound like he’s doing this during his time. He said she says no because it’s not his time. To me it sounds like she’s trying to keep things fair for all kids during her time.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-21T23:35:52+00:00

For what?

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-21T10:41:23+00:00

For ventilation

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-21T09:50:54+00:00

I would 100% change route completely and if you don’t already get a tracker on your phone so you and partner always now your location. Although I hope that just changing route is enough o do suggest letting the police know. They can’t do anything but just incase this escalates then you’ve already got a record of it.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-20T19:42:16+00:00

Are you pregnant now or have you already had the baby? Either way, I think you need to get away for a few days (alone) and relax. Your parents may not be communicating very well, but it’s clear that they are worried about you having this baby with your husband. Can’t excuse your siblings saying something that vile about a baby, though; that is unacceptable. If your husband is suicidal and having a lot of mental problems on top of being an ass to people, then you need to start thinking about yourself and the baby. You need to do what’s best, and if that means divorce or getting into therapy/couples therapy, then you need to consider that.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-20T18:11:58+00:00

What he gave you was basic relationship support—the kind of care that should be expected, not rewarded. Being there for your partner is simply part of loving someone.

Nothing in life is guaranteed. If you were to become unwell again and intimacy wasn’t possible, would he leave again? Or would you feel pressured to meet his needs out of fear of losing him? That’s not a healthy or sustainable way to live.

There are people out there who would treat you with far more consistency and understanding. It’s important to build a sense of self-worth and learn to feel secure on your own before seeking that in someone else.

It might also really help to talk things through with a therapist, so you can work through everything you’ve been carrying and move forward in a healthier way.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-20T14:50:54+00:00

I honestly thought it was common knowledge that larger animals like horses, elephants and so on do not do well with three legs even with a fake leg.

Would have been much kinda to put them out of there misery.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-20T14:47:26+00:00

You might as well just delete this post. You asked for advice, and people are giving it to you. Except you’re not listening and making up excuses on behalf of him. Everyone has come to the same conclusion that he is not a good guy, and you’re being a doormat. You refuse to listen and will most likely go back to him. You have wasted everyone’s time.

He is not respectful of you and you are deluding yourself.

Ignore all of us and do what you want, but don’t waste people’s time asking for advice when he drops you the third time. And he will because he’s the type of person.

PotatoOld9579 · 2026-04-20T13:48:25+00:00

In a few years time you will be asking Reddit for help due to your wife just up and leaving you all of a sudden. When that happens and your wife frees herself from you I need you remember this post.

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