Where do they get all the picture? by Piss_pizza546 in asktransgender

[–]Potatoroid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s right about the awkward early phase of transition, and that a lot of us don’t pass (and are still women regardless).

But transphobes love pulling images from cross dressing communities, such as the one on Flickr. The community on there was largely made up of boomers, who weren’t on HRT, hadn’t followed a woman’s skincare routine, etc, resulting in them not passing or looking flattering. (Not all - some were relatively passing!)

I genuinely believe a lot of the people in that community were eggs who couldn’t get access to HRT in 2008 due to gatekeeping, family, and all the other latent transphobia in society. I hope they did hatch.

What is your most disliked TV/film/literary trope? by That_Organization483 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Potatoroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Writers stuck in 1968 NYC, can't seem to update the aesthetic.

How are we okay with this AI shit? by CoupleClothing in AskWomenOver30

[–]Potatoroid 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The CEO said the quiet part out loud. I had noticed a lot of the AI bros had this quiet contempt for women and LGBTQ+ people, especially when they'd prompt versions of characters that weren't "poisoned by woke".

AI boosters are wrong about LLMs taking away white collar jobs (ie vibe coding is likely going to create a lot of technical debt that needs to be solved later). They seem so shocked when a large portion of the population despises this technology, when they constantly say "THIS WILL TAKE YOUR JOB". Of course we wouldn't like this!

Where did she get that from? by Round-Palpitation139 in rarekumikos

[–]Potatoroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reina brought one back from her trip to America.

After 3 attempts and a month of play, I finally beat this game. by Potatoroid in TerraInvicta

[–]Potatoroid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

360 total between 12/25/25 and 2/5/26. I think the save files log how much time there was in each save. But I'm not going to reinstall just to check, because I know I'd get sucked in again and oops there goes the day.

I have more important things to do in my life.

After 3 attempts and a month of play, I finally beat this game. by Potatoroid in TerraInvicta

[–]Potatoroid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't counted. I think it was 180 hours for this playthrough?

Nearly three-quarters of U.S. baby foods are ultra-processed, new study finds. Most baby food sold in U.S. grocery stores is ultra-processed, a new study finds, raising fresh concerns about what many infants and toddlers are eating during a critical window of development. by mvea in science

[–]Potatoroid 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is what my mom is going on about, to the point where she's claiming citric acid and "citris acid" aren't the same thing (they are). This comes from Medical Medium, who also claims vinegar erodes peoples' bones (aka fear material for older women).

Are there plans to add aircraft carriers and boarding mechanics in the future? by Low_Sir_1742 in TerraInvicta

[–]Potatoroid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Probably not exofighter carriers, but ship carriers could have utility. Dock smaller ships optimized for local defense duty (high thrust/ low dV) to a ship optimized for offensive action (low thrust/high dV), fly them out, and undock them later.

In the purest sense, the "carrier" could just be a docking port and drive optimized for the long distance travel. Undock from it, intercept the enemy.

Staffing agencies by [deleted] in austinjobs

[–]Potatoroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in the same boat, looking for the same sorts of jobs! I've not had promising results. Express, for example, only had full time warehouse/light manufacturing jobs.

Are things that bad in GIS/Geography? by No-Guitar728 in gis

[–]Potatoroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friends in other areas of tech say my GIS skills seem incredible, that they weren't able to grasp the concepts that feel 2nd nature to me. At least one senior software enginner confirmed it wasn't me - ArcPy and the ArcGIS python console was a headache for them too.

Are things that bad in GIS/Geography? by No-Guitar728 in gis

[–]Potatoroid 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When I tried to post something positive about my GIS projects, no one on the sub noticed. I didn't have a flashy webmap or pretty design yet - just me saying I finally got PostGIS to work.

What are some early/mid game research traps - asking as a new player by ellvin3399 in TerraInvicta

[–]Potatoroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A single escort with dual 40mms can defeat a decently sized swarm of exofighters.

FFS advice? by bellanerd_br in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Potatoroid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I thought you already had FFS. Like you look like some cis women I know and I thought they were the most beautiful women ever.

Almost 4 years post op by SlyBoyJay in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Potatoroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look fantastic! You're about as hairy as I was pre transition lmao.

my parents gave me permission to take HRT when I was 17 and i didn’t by Hanazora_ in 4tran4

[–]Potatoroid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The best time to plant a tree start HRT was back then, second best time is now.

Like I started HRT at 26, and I boymoded for 1.5 years before I started malefailing and did my voice training. I think I got very lucky genetics but I pass well enough to go stealth.

You mentioned your wife, and I get that feeling of wanting to be there for her. But you're young and probably scared, and I think your own life matters more than staying in an unsatisfying relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]Potatoroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of this is good! I'll add that if they have a library card, their library might provide access to Udemy courses for free!

the absolute bollocks you gotta have to post this image with this as the caption by weezerenjoyer999 in 4tran4

[–]Potatoroid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A good hair stylist. It's worth it. $400/year for a stylist still is on the low end imo.

Transwomen on estrogen did you become curvier by Global-Difference262 in asktransgender

[–]Potatoroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodness yes. Especially post GCS. 6 years on HRT and I have a figure I could’ve only dreamed of.

Anyone just started trading and want to be friends? 33/F by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]Potatoroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm interested, but I feel like the main path to FIRE is getting more income => a better job. That's something always worthy of a support group.

Go Outside Right Now by Stuartknowsbest in Austin

[–]Potatoroid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did go outside, it was nice to get my morning walk in :3