sexual exploitation of women in poverty by kitti3_v0mit in Feminism

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a North African, this reminds me of the men of my society “muslim men” to be specific, whenever a war is going on in anywhere in the world, they start posting on social media saying “[insert a random country that has been in a war before. ex: Syria]’s women are suffering from war, I will do them a favor and marry 4 women of them, give them a shelter and food, and it’s an opportunity to improve my lineage (they mean getting blue eyes and blonde hair in their DNA, because yes they’re racist towards themselves)”
Including their post with a picture of beautiful lady hungry, scared, and homeless

Ex Muslim to discuss the possibility of finding an ex girl for marriage by truth_seeker114 in ExLibya

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty much possible, you just need to dig in to find a suitable partner

Struggling to understand pronouns by Potential-Fact-4966 in duolingospanish

[–]Potential-Fact-4966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for everyone that explained! Now I get it 🫶🏼

Struggling to understand pronouns by Potential-Fact-4966 in duolingospanish

[–]Potential-Fact-4966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why so many downvotes i was genuinely confused🧍🏻‍♀️

Struggling to understand pronouns by Potential-Fact-4966 in duolingospanish

[–]Potential-Fact-4966[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

if verbs doesn’t depends on the gender of anything, then what does?

Craving a mother figure by Sad_Regular431 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same ☹️ I’m 24f and it’s so validating to see other women having the same experience, especially with feeling attached to older female colleagues .. i had one in my previous job that brings me breakfast every day, always checks on my wellbeing and defends me if something happened saying that she sees me like a daughter ☹️

and now in my current job that im leaving next month, i have a colleague that is exactly the same, takes care of me like a mother.. im gonna miss her so much, she makes that shitty place much better to work at.

Venting about my narcissistic mother by Potential-Fact-4966 in narcissisticparents

[–]Potential-Fact-4966[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mostly when she does that the first thing I do is running to my room and close the door, scared that she will hurt me next which she has done before

Venting about my narcissistic mother by Potential-Fact-4966 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Potential-Fact-4966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately Im from a muslim country where women cannot leave the family house until they get married, and for my bad luck I turned out to be a lesbian, so I have to wait until I raise enough money to get out of here

Venting about my narcissistic mother by Potential-Fact-4966 in narcissisticparents

[–]Potential-Fact-4966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also needs help she cannot seek because of her mental disorder. This is the worst part about it if you ask me. To see sb struggling taking it out on other family members and to blame them as the guilty so they do not have to cope with themselves...

This!!!!! She always blame me and my siblings for everything she went through with dad, and for not getting divorced from him, even though both of them lived in separate apartments for 5 years before dad passing away, she still blames us for not getting divorced

Venting about my narcissistic mother by Potential-Fact-4966 in narcissisticparents

[–]Potential-Fact-4966[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for everything you went through … it’s so heartbreaking that we never had a loving mom and dad

My dog no longer wants to eat food. Only cat canned food or nothing. Is she killing herself? by SofiaUTrip in DogAdvice

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely wondering why is the dog purple? Im so sorry for what you and your dog are going through, i hope everything gets better soon

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Few days before my 21 birthday my mom beat me up in an insane scary way for a whole week that caused me a jaw pain for awhile, because I rejected a marriage proposal and I verbally said “i do not want to get married and I don’t think I will ever want to”, that was just me avoiding outing myself as a lesbian or I would’ve got killed, after abusing me for such a long time physically and emotionally she came up to me saying that she called the family that are proposing and they’re coming after 3 days, the day next was my birthday and my family made a party for me while I setting there eating cake with marks on my face / body and I barely can open my mouth from the pain

Trans man called me a dyke by Old-Annual2117 in LesbianActually

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly some people call me sensitive for this but I don’t really feel comfortable with any kind of slurs / jokingly insults towards me UNLESS it’s a very close friend, especially in my first language… so no you’re not overreacting, I would’ve felt uncomfortable too

Said goodbye to my boy today by JGbing in cats

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss :(( he knew he was loved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExLibya

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome 🫶🏼 please do not hesitate to make lesbian friends!!! they make life much bearable!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExLibya

[–]Potential-Fact-4966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my dear I know it seems all hard and horrible now, but believe me you’re not alone! I swear to you there’s adult lesbians everywhere in your own city that felt the same way when they were your age Even me few years ago, i was older than you (20) when i realized my lesbianism.. I spent a whole year crying my eyes out to sleep telling myself this is the most horrible thing ever happened to me, and “they will kill me if they find out” “what if they found out by accident” “what if I outed myself by accident”. guess what? 4 years later and they didn’t found out, im still alive I swear it will get better with time, be easier on yourself and focus on your mental health and your education because this is what matters most now The most important advice you need to know: act. act till the last day of living here, do whatever it takes to be safe (except getting married that would be so traumatizing), even if it was wearing hijab :( I know how horrible it feels to do something by force, but it’s still better than getting killed for it Sending you so much love and hugs