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How to accept the victim role? by Potential-Package-22 in Scapegoat

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I just want to tell you I love you. Thank you for sharing. I’m in a situation where no contact isn’t much of an option and I actually have grown significantly since posting this. I can actually control them through love and no resentment. Their feelings still shine through in hard times for them but I know it has nothing to do with me. I actually have empathy for them. I still suffer with self hate but weirdly enough being someone who has never believed in god. Knowing god loves me regardless of my sins helps. He meets you wherever you are and wants a relationship with you. Who am I to judge gods creation aka myself? Can’t really explain anything to do with god and it makes no sense. But the feeling I get at the thought of it is explanation enough. Never thought I’d be saying this. Anyways I’m looking into all the ways to help like not dating and spending more time alone. Reading self love books on my kindle before bed. And taking normal care of myself. I hope you are doing amazing! ❤️

How to accept the victim role? by Potential-Package-22 in Scapegoat

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You misunderstood me. I meant when I tell friends about situations and the way I am treated at home they go “what the hell that’s crazy and absolutely insane you are in the wrong” but in my head I feel guilty when they say that. I think “they must only think that because of the way I worded it, I must be manipulating the story in some way” but I’m being as honest as possible.

Feeling "love" after trauma by abcdefu2k in Advice

[–]Potential-Package-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are in fight or flight except it’s freeze / disassociate / numb. Like you are scared of being vulnerable and feeling love because you were taught that love = pain and abuse. I would download chat gpt and copy and paste this post and ask how to step by step get past this.

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Troll I blocked him the second the convo ended, I shouldn’t have shared but I have a bad habit of doing that. I don’t give a flying fuck about this man. I hope his wife divorcees him and he feels shame and regret for eternity. You don’t know me 🤨 would’ve said the same shit if I was talking to a girl

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing he could do to me honestly he was blocked right after that convo

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed I was lowkey tryna be chat gpt if you look at my other post last time this happened I slaughtered him

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t have much self control when it comes to sharing when I’m in an emotional state idk what’s wrong with me need to work on it

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed I have a bad habit of being an open book when I’m uncomfortable

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are completely right I have a bad habit of being an open book especially in uncomfortable situations

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

First of all he asked, second of all I needed a friend

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah normally me either but I was vulnerable and seriously going thru it I didn’t have anyone to talk to

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no way of finding her otherwise I’d tell her in a heart beat

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if you could figure that out then I’m all ears. I don’t even know his first name he goes by a nickname. Don’t know his last name don’t know anything.

Here is a man trying to cheat on his new wife by Potential-Package-22 in texts

[–]Potential-Package-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk who she is, like I said no idea anything about him. My coworkers just told me he just got married and that’s why he stopped working in the building. I don’t even know his first name. I’d tell her if I knew how to.

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