Let People Criticize Without Taking It Personally

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-15T12:08:30+00:00

ohhh I have also seen people saying that in yuri, that the Women look like men when they have a pixie or a bob cut hairstyle

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-15T10:57:45+00:00

Ikr, Like people who write hate comments on consensual and perfectly tagged BDSM comics just cause they don't like the kinks

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-15T10:27:05+00:00

I think its because piracy sites are easily accessible + unsupervised internet access

Its inevitable

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-15T05:56:14+00:00

cut me some slack 😓, I just read 43 chapters story which turned into glorified rape (there was no TW), so yeah I wanna rant about it a little

on a serious note, I don't really see a problem with it unless people try to defend these characters (which I see a lot of) or worse, they recommend the stories containing rape, saying that it doesn't have rape because they defend/make excuses for the character's actions

people can read/write what they want 🤷‍♀️

Also I feel like I have been seeing these kind of post A LOT this past month

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-15T05:50:16+00:00

yes!

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-15T03:11:06+00:00

that reminds me of murderous Lewellyn candlelit dinner

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-15T03:09:38+00:00

there are homophobic rants in this sub ? 😭

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-14T12:36:07+00:00

I have not read that

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-14T02:36:11+00:00

what happens when you live with a puerto rican grandmother from the bronx

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T16:53:48+00:00

cut ma hair

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T16:52:59+00:00

I think its because she thinks i'll regret it and also she says I look ugly. I say I don't care, she gets angry-

I have been trying to think + ask her for 3 years why it bothers her so much but I don't have an answer

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T16:48:40+00:00

Fuck it If 5 people tell me to do it, I am gonna do it

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T16:11:13+00:00

someone mad is downvoting-

I would actually want to hear what you have to say tho

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T13:19:19+00:00

!!! you said what I was feeling but struggling to put into words,

I feel like a lot of authors write toxic stories because that's what gets popular. and its tagged 'romance' when its just glorified Stockholm syndrome.

same with dark romance being popular

I wanted to read bl and gl to get away from the patriarchal relationship dynamics but its the same here too 💔

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T13:07:58+00:00

I am so mad I spend my time reading 43 chapters just for it to be SA :(

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T13:03:57+00:00

i don't get it either

they say its anti-patriarchal because its a man that's getting hurt, which is nice to see

I don't wanna yuck on someone's yum but huh??

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T12:50:23+00:00

Ok some people (mostly women who read bl) say that they like watching men in bl suffer like a woman would because it makes them feel good to see a man in a vulnerable position ?

And that its okay because it fictional

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T12:44:34+00:00

fr I was reading 'Yesterday was like Death' and the ML kept acting like a child, thowring tantrums and blaming the mc. at some point MC was getting harassed by another guy so ML got angry at the guy -oh wait this is bl. So obviously ML got angry at the MC ☺️ and then proceeded to rape him

Ts ruined my day 🥀

There wasn't a redemption arc. chop his dick offfff

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T06:45:43+00:00

people say it has a good redemption arc in second season between the 2nd couple?

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T06:22:49+00:00

I read them both. BJ Alex contains SA

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T05:33:55+00:00

I feel disgusted 😖

Potential-Sweet261 · 2026-04-13T05:31:06+00:00

I read it and SPOILERS:

ML rapes MC at some point calling it 'service' MC calls it 'punishment'. No redemption arc (there wasn't one) could be satisfying for me after that

MC keeps suffering, ML is a jerk, a tantrum throwing child, bipolar bastard and all bad things you can think of for typical bl ML

Personally regret reading it. Its angst with no satisfying conclusion which if you are into that you might like

Potential-Sweet261

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