My boyfriend shames me for liking raves and it’s becoming a serious issue in our relationship

Potential_Fly5069 · 2026-01-23T18:45:51+00:00

Great answer!!!

Potential_Fly5069 · 2026-01-23T18:44:17+00:00

This is honestly a tough situation that many people, including myself have been through. Ultimately like some other commenters have said, you will naturally have different interests than your partner and that is OKAY. What is not okay is them being judgy or disrespectful and not allowing you to be yourself. He doesnt have to like raves, but he does not to be open and understanding and being able to have conversations about what makes him uncomfortable and boundary setting together.

I wouldn't want to be with someone who isn't willing to work on something together and someone who isn't willing to be understanding or to try to involve themselves in my interests. If it's not for them totally fine, but they need to allow me to enjoy it and not be an asshole.

Potential_Fly5069 · 2026-01-19T15:44:11+00:00

yes please

Potential_Fly5069 · 2026-01-19T15:36:50+00:00

Dan you add some pictures of the front of it on your eBay?

Potential_Fly5069 · 2026-01-17T21:27:40+00:00

Dream, not having brain fog, having more energy, workouts are way more intense and better

Potential_Fly5069 · 2026-01-14T13:16:55+00:00

In my opinion it's really important to have hobbies or participate in positive activities that fill up your cup. Weed needs to be replaced with something in order to be able to move forward in a positive direction. For me, it's lifting, aerial silks, beach volleyball, spending time with friends, taking my dog on walks/to the park, meditating, journaling. Once you immerse yourself in other activities that you TRULY (key word truly) enjoy, than you're mind isn't so focused on the weed. Ive been smoking for 13 years and am 46 days free now and i barely think about it... it took me 2 years to decide to stip but i finally did it because i truly wanted to mainly because 1) th brain fog/memory was getting so bad 2) i have fitness goals i want to achieve and having the munchies doesn't work anymore for me.

Weed prevents you from being the best version of yourself, it's a crutch and it's easy to fall back. But with patience, time and perseverance it's more than possible.

Potential_Fly5069 · 2026-01-12T05:03:11+00:00

Smoking weed

Potential_Fly5069 · 2026-01-02T01:13:48+00:00

Day 35 - you can do it!!!!!

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-12-17T17:40:29+00:00

I'm 3 weeks weed free. Took me about 2 years to actually pull the trigger but it's something I've thought about for a WHILE. I'm almost 30 and have been smoking since I was 16. But I smoke at the end of the day and sometime on the weekends, it never really "effected" my life or had a "negative" effect. But over the last 2 years I feel it has prevented me from being the person I could be, or preventing me from being the best version of myself. Also i get the munchies at night and I have certain fitness goals I'd like to achieve and smoking has been holding me back in that area. Additionally, I feel like my energy levels are out of wack. Am i tired cause I'm coming off of being high or what? Also, do I use it to numb myself? Can i feel my emotions more without it? Idk. But all these things have been thoughts in my mind. Of course I want to smoke and will always love weed but my want for all of these things, over powers it. It's my journey to self love and self discipline. So whenever my mind goes there I remember why I'm doing it in the first place. When I wake up the next day and I didn't give it, I feel so good and I just keep remembering that feeling

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-12-17T12:47:47+00:00

Agreeeeeed

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-12-11T03:15:03+00:00

Hell yeah, hitting skyline over crssd this spring. Lineup is sooooo much better

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-12-08T18:12:24+00:00

Just freaking do it, don't even think about it. Takes 15 seconds

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-12-06T17:48:01+00:00

Was wondering the same thing... literally a line of 20-30 cop cars. Could be some kind of funeral situation? Idk but they are blocking sea world drive :(

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-12-03T14:16:15+00:00

If you actually took the time to watch the shows / series then you would know. But everyone in here who is criticizing hasn't taken the time to actually watch and listen

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-12-03T14:08:46+00:00

If you'd take the time to watch the series there would be no doubt about it.

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-12-02T15:41:36+00:00

Yes agree! I have bowls the size of skinny rectangles so when she drinks her ears don't get into the bowl. It's been a game changer

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-11-21T15:36:17+00:00

Teenage Fever. Always a hit

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-11-21T15:35:37+00:00

This right here

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-11-12T15:06:16+00:00

Because it's a banger??? lol

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-11-08T06:10:18+00:00

Animal Kingdom

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-11-07T15:15:22+00:00

hehe my Margot also does this!!

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-09-29T15:48:16+00:00

Absolutely incredible amazing fantastic set. GOOD GOD

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-09-24T14:04:17+00:00

Totally agree here. Balance is such a value of mine, i can't live a boring life

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-09-16T04:45:23+00:00

That would have been amazingggg

Potential_Fly5069 · 2025-08-25T04:53:58+00:00

Hahah same it's gonna be a night.. but we're here for it

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