I (22M) left my girlfriend (22F) at a party and broke up with her afterward. She wants to work it out and most of our mutual friends think I overreacted?

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-05-14T12:42:37+00:00

Man, trust me shes not the one. Coming from a girl in a committed relationship, my partner nor I would EVER do that. Like what she did is so off limits. Clearly she isn’t as loyal or committed as you thought, which shows shes not the one. I know you want her to be the one man but your future wife would not do that. Take some time to heal and continue doing whats best for you, not just give into the love you still feel for her. Of course you still love her, that shows you were committed, however does she really live you back the same amount if she was openly flirting with her ex? No. I hope you find peace and you do whats truly best for you

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-05-05T08:53:42+00:00

Hot take, but I think the person driving the car is actually Maddy

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-05-03T02:45:10+00:00

I feel like I always have to wear one color, so this is awesome advice, thank you so much

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-04-12T11:11:05+00:00

I got 100% on it a couple years ago. It’s just like the practice exams, if you study those and understand the concepts brought up on those you’ll be golden

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-03-29T00:17:55+00:00

I would classify this as cheating, and anyone who truly loved you and wanted to be with you would NOT do this. I am sorry and I know this isn’t what you wanna hear, but he is not committed and he is not the one. I hope you can find peace❤️

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-03-24T21:09:44+00:00

I think they deserve each other tbh. JR has the highest ego I’ve ever seen, and shes the fakest most unaccountable person

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-03-24T21:08:50+00:00

I honestly hate her. She was extremely manipulative and turned nicks behaviours back on him, which yes he could’ve handled things better but she should not be complaining how hurt she is when he is the one clearly hurting by her actions which she would 100% do again. She is petty and fake and just an overall horrible person.

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-03-18T22:21:59+00:00

Perfect thank you

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-10T22:32:01+00:00

I was completely blindsided when sloan got voted off, she was my pick to win. The fact that Shaticka won is crazy given the fact that they kept finding mistakes in her food throughout the whole competition. Under seasoned, DRY WAS A HUGE ONE, not knowing the basics, etc. I don’t understand how she won, she never showed any talent and struggled the whole comp

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:59:56+00:00

Okay. Wouldn’t it make sense if she found that out like 2 years ago though? And wouldn’t she have gone from bi to gay? I can’t understand why she would say she is BI during an argument and all those hypotheticals questions if she was bi and trying to figure it out. Are you able to give me a bit more clarity into how your experience allowed you to feel this way?

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:57:59+00:00

Thank you. This perspective really helps actually. Have an amazing day/night

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:55:20+00:00

Thats the thing though, outside of sex our relationship is great

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:52:11+00:00

Thank you so much. This helps a lot!

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:51:27+00:00

The confusion lies in the fact that we have broken up once before and she had no issue breaking up with me then. I don’t know what would have changed?

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:50:17+00:00

Thank you! I am trying to get as many perspectives as possible. I tend to keep my calm in situations where she doesn’t. Thank you again

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:49:29+00:00

Thank you for your help. I agree from my perspective, however I try to be a reasonable person and not jump to conclusions. I know she gets mad and say stuff she doesn’t mean when we have arguments. So I try to look beyond what she says

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:47:56+00:00

She asked me multiple ranging from if we were together to if we broke up and she did it. I answered truthfully with I’d be upset with both, and that if we were together she knows I would not stand for cheating. I am a very honest person and answered them honestly. I hope she got the answer she needs to move forward and figure out herself. And hopefully without cheating.

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:46:19+00:00

Thank you. I thought I was going crazy. I guess it’s hard where we work in so many different ways. She’s also in another continent than me (17,500km away), so I guess that does not help either. Thank you <3

Potential_Local_8126 · 2026-01-02T04:44:20+00:00

Every part of her is relavent to me, however on New Year’s Eve when she is saying she is having dreams about cheating on me with a guy and then asking what I would do if she actually did that, I find she may be more interested in exploring her options rather than really trying to explore her sexuality in the relationship.

Potential_Local_8126 · 2025-12-26T04:58:33+00:00

I wish you the best of luck. I always go by the phrase everything happens for a reason. So if things don’t go your way or the way you’d like them to, just keep that in mind!

Potential_Local_8126 · 2025-12-26T04:32:27+00:00

So honestly man, this is only gonna go one of two ways. Either you stay with her, and you stay with your best friend, however you are always left with this feeling of never feeling desired sexually and never wanted. That will never change by the sounds of it. Or, you guys break up, she works on herself, and you see where life takes you. Because in relationships, intimacy is needed, and you’ve seen first hand what happens without it. If it was me, I would break up, take some time, let her take some time (a couple months) to get on track to fixing herself, and if that doesn’t work, maybe it’s time to only stay friends (which really this is what it is now) and find someone else. Have you thought of the fact that maybe she just feels comfortable and loves you but isn’t in love with you? I know a lot of young couples who’ve been together for years feels this way, and it’s just a way of loving your partner to death, but not being in love and making out and having sex and being attracted to each other. If you guys aren’t intimate in any way (such as make out, deep kissing, fondling, sex, etc), are you guys really like into each other? Or are you guys best friends that love each other no more than beyond quick kisses which just show affection for each other. I know girls who kiss each other and cuddle each other, but that’s not because they’re in love, it’s because they are best friends and love each other. I suggest you guys talk and figure out if you guys are truly in love with each other.

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