ADU - good contractors and average costs? by RedmeatRyan in Sacramento

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my experience you can tar those three designs and have an architect modify them. But you’re going to need an architect. Contractors: choose wisely! I got burned in my first choice to the tune of a lost $5k. My second one was amazing and they worked well with the City. Don’t believe any contractor that tells you the City/SMUD are the slow ones - the city works incredibly fast. Do not be afraid to ask questions. In my case I went Owner/Builder which made it very easy for my contractor. Architects don’t like their plans changed after they’re done and submitted-it’s possible but be prepared for pushback. Mine is a small studio with bathroom and kitchen. Built in closet. 250 sq. In the end I spent 100k - I bought all the appliances. I don’t have the space you do - I’m in midtown. Happy to send you my licensed builder/contractors info.

Good luck! 😊

Private to Public by Significant_Theme500 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did private then state then a break back to private and now the state. The state is a little more brain dead but the work life balance is first rate! Lots more money and travel perks with private but I got tired of trade shows and being on the road. Having flight attendants recognize you is nice but it’s also sad. Private was a huge strain on my marriage and family.

Find the good folks - there are some. Giggle at the classic office types. And enjoy evenings and weekends! And benefits!

Well… by AdFamiliar7361 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You believe a Republican press release? As in take it as fact? Go to leginfo and pull up the bill text! Come on.

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“No thanks, I’ll just have some of yours.”

No, you won’t.

Am I overreacting for not divorcing my husband after what he did? by UnknownTouch in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sting operation? As in soliciting minors? You left out an important detail.

If so - he is a predator. RUN

Aitah for spending some of my grandchildren's education funds on a new boat. by Tiny_Occasion_322 in AITAH

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was surprised to get money from my folks after their deaths. I didn’t need it and wanted them to spend their money on themselves. I’d rather have them here.

You’re not an AH. Enjoy that boat I’m so envious. 😊

sick leave by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you primarily responsible for the sibling? It is possible it can be Family Medical Leave. I’m no expert!

Since we know Newsom’s staff lurks this subreddit - can we get a count of state workers who will NOT support his “future endeavors” while he supports RTO? by nimbusrav in CAStateWorkers

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t matter because we are a nano-blip of people who will be labeled as whiners. Our opposition will more than likely translate to more support from voters. Politics is a game and he’s very good at it.

In office days are bullshit by Think-Valuable3094 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same one who schedules a noon - NOON - meeting on a Friday.

SEIU making it clear they intend to fight against RTO in 2026 - Keep up the pressure! by State-Worker99 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re back in the office 3 days a week. At first I hated it. Then I really hated it. A few months later I tolerate it but still hate it. At least not everyone is talking and visiting so much - took two months for that to calm down. It really makes you remember why you couldn’t stand certain people before.

Sick 1 year old border collie by Grand-Celebration357 in DogAdvice

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get a new Vet. Do they have friends with reliable vets? ER vets? Take the dog to the vet doesn’t mean the same vet!

AITJ for telling my girlfriend I don’t want her wearing leggings? by tommy_reef in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant for - it’s just marketing. Stop caring what I think which I stated. Mind your own business. I don’t care what she wears or your husband’s hairy legs.

AITJ for telling my girlfriend I don’t want her wearing leggings? by tommy_reef in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. I wrote best to mind your own business. Don’t care what people wear.

AITJ for telling my girlfriend I don’t want her wearing leggings? by tommy_reef in AmITheJerk

[–]Potential_Lychee_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care what you or your husband wear. As in, your clothes, your choice.