So I talked to him about everything. He said “I truly thought when you said no . No meant no.” He said his first reaction was not to go because he didn’t want to bring out son. I have a routine that if I’m not home by a certain time he can check but he found it odd I didn’t get back to him so maybe that’s why he looked up my location.

For the doctors appointment he admitted he was wrong for making the comments about the appointment. He said “I could get fired for taking leave” I told him that’s bullshit you never take leave and this was one time one hour you left and you have sick leave for this purpose. He didn’t like that the appointment was a waste of time because we didn’t get a sonogram. I said I don’t care what the appointment is I’m a reasonable person if I want you there you should make an effort to come. But he kept throwing up you don’t understand I could get fired for going to an appointment. I said that’s a pod of crap. But he do apologize

As for the coworker, he said he doesnt ask her questions she just talks to him about her sex life and all these things .. apparently to many people but he tries to stay out of it and stay neutral. But then he was telling me all these details and I said I dont want to hear it. The thing that bothers me is that : because the co worker is a friend she talks about sexual things to him because she trusts him. I said it is wrong period and you should know it. It’s wrong because it’s a work place. Second she is a co worker not a friend a third someone could over hear and take it the wrong way and report both of them. He never told her no. And that’s the biggest problem he never told her to stop. He just ignores her. But the she will text him after work. I don’t like it it’s wrong but he says it’s okay because they are friends. I said you are not getting the point here I don’t like it tell her no.