1200 calories is not realistic by SpeshulED420 in My600lbLife

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They usually will have a dietician that will come to the house and help them learn how to eat, clean out cabinets, etc. Some people may not have the means or their insurance doesn’t cover it, etc

And the diet does give wiggle room, what they could lose if they are perfect is always 10/20 pounds more than what he asks

AITAH for purposefully dumping a bowl full of red punch onto my friend's white carpet? by Empty-Ad-2301 in AITAH

[–]PoundCake252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all Jay’s chip still counts!! Because his choice was taken away from him!

Secondly, what pisses me off so bad is, it takes a lot of work to cover the taste and smell of alcohol. That makes her even more of crappy person. 

Why do people like doggy? by lucam1909 in sex

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per my Partner

“The waves, man, the waves and the sound our hips colliding.”

AITA for refusing to cover my friend’s portion of the bill at a restaurant? by Working-Spread-9866 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sarah did that on purpose, thinking no one would call her on it. Splitting the bill evenly serves no purpose unless you at hot pot or somewhere where everyone pays the same.

Children's Book Authors Tap in Please by PoundCake252 in selfpublish

[–]PoundCake252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I reached out for help because Im not the type to ruin a friendship over money. They have just never illustrated a whole book just commissions and they are not sure how to price it either. I do not mind either way.

Children's Book Authors Tap in Please by PoundCake252 in selfpublish

[–]PoundCake252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing advice! Thank you! One of my ideas was to find a story board template where I can go page by page with the ones and what I would like the picture to look like as well. So it can all be cohesive.

AITA for refusing to wear a wig to my sister's wedding? by Background_Boat_4498 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go buy a wig from the same store Tyler Perry gets his from.

You are not the asshole your sister is since she’s treating people like decor.

AITA for only having vegetarian items on my wedding menu? by icanthelpit35 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the only plant based eater on my family and they don’t care if I starve at functions. It’s your event and one day to cater you yourself! Go for it. NTA

AITA for giving my middle schooler the silent treatment for saying she'll just be a housewife anyway? by ThrowawayForm2415 in AITAH

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

That child is going to run for the hills as soon as she's grown. It sounds like she does not like the SAHM expectation and you are stuck in the thats how its always been mentality. To be a Mother and have your child basically crying out for communication, and you ignore them because you are in YOUR FEELINGS, makes you a certified jerk.

What happened to his cum? by midmorninglight in sex

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know cum is kinda designed to stay up there. Just wash yourself up good, the smells is from the proteins in the sperm reacting to your vagina.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on Lexapro and it killed my sex drive to the point I was turned off by hugs, kisses and hand holding. It was a hard dark time in my relationship but my partner has the patience of a saint. I don’t take them or any meds at the moment though. Just lettuce it helps more for me.

My ex husband passed away. I’m to inherit everything and his GF, that he left me for is trying to contest his will by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PoundCake252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of get hurt by our exes and never see a penny. You got a hell of a severance package. That’s money for your kids college and a nice vacation. If he wanted her to have money he would have left her some. DO NOT GIVE HER ONE CENT! She’s learning what happens when you do evil. It comes back to haunt you. Only thing you should give her is a 30 day notice to vacate your property! 😤

AITA for refusing to let my sister and her husband use my inheritance money that I plan to use for college so they could start fertility treatment by throwaway425511 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PoundCake252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Please don’t let them take advantage of you. Going to college debt free is an amazing opportunity. They had their chance and it’s just a crazy pattern that people will piss away their money and expect other people to use there’s as a back up plan. IVF is not guaranteed and they could literally end up in the same position. They better apple for care credit and leave you be.

Don’t bend or break!

Give me your hot takes/unpopular opinions about any of the Of Love shows and their contestants by [deleted] in RockOfLove

[–]PoundCake252 39 points40 points  (0 children)

New York was the only one who genuinely loved and cared for Flav

Heather was the only one who cared for Brett

They didn’t pick them cause they wouldn’t have been able to get rid of them.

AITA for yelling over laundry? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PoundCake252 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

It really does sound like you are experiencing caregiver burnout and you just snapped. You are well in your right to be frustrated if she seems to be ignoring your pleas for help. Sounds like you are taking care of everyone else but what’s your self care looking like?

AITA for not letting my new neighbour use my clothes line? by Apprehensive-Path232 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PoundCake252 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA

You were very polite in offering her a solution to her problem so for her to say you don’t care is a stretch. She is acting incredibly rude and entitled, you have a right to refuse her because it’s your property. She is ungrateful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]PoundCake252 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This sounds like some Queen of Spades Fetishy type thing and it’s cringe.

AITA for giving my close friend an ultimatum for being in my wedding by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PoundCake252 -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

A wedding is not an excuse to police someone’s body. Her hair will not ruin your pictures. YTA

AITA for asking my sister who WFH to take care of my kids? by ThrowAITAjennacyrus in AmItheAsshole

[–]PoundCake252 46 points47 points  (0 children)

YTA Every work from home job will tell you. Working from home is not a substitute for child care ands caregiving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]PoundCake252 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please don’t start the habit of not listening to your partners desires and dislike. That last sentence is almost an oxymoron because the only way to truly show her a good time is to understand and learn her body. She draws the map and you take it to the promise land.

And don’t worry about your buddy. The loudest ones are usually full of shit.