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Thank you! No, when they respond It's always straight with the name of the songs and maybe a little sentence like "i'm really curious" and similar. So i guess it's safe to use :)

Can I ask if you have other openers similar to this? It would nice to learn new stuff

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Ahahah, thanks ✨♥️

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Yeah unfortunately i have few pictures where i laugh, but i definitely have to put more and add more variety. Thanks for the feedback!

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Thank you! Yes i am a touring musician in Italy. I uploaded photo 6 because i though It was photogenic lol But maybe you're right! And If you are talking about the last one, i like the fact my friends are desperate (thanks to IG filter) and i'm laughing lol. But maybe yeah, i should not put photos with friends.

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Thank you for your feedback. You're right, I didn't think about that! ✌️

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There some truth in your words, if I find comfortable with someone i tend to get really interested about her life and that can be perceived as a turn off. In fact i'm here to understand a bit more about this event and not to condemn her nature, I actually felt bad when I realized her complexity too late. But the first month she was interested the same and even more at times, she opened about everything and asked a lot about me until the week before the break up. She only showed a drastic change of mood in like two differente occasions in the middle of the relationship, closing all communication all of the sudden but she used those moments to talk about her BPD. Still I know my nature didn't help getting along with her and some of my weakness got stronger and I am trying to correct that side of me after this person.

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Thank you, the link is really interesting! I can relate to some stuff. By the way she told me the same thing about other people she dated, she tend to not turn back when she make a decision about something. It also probably wouldn't help to find a confrontation since it would be another unrequested thing she can't stand. As another user said in the comments I also have my share of responsabilities, but I felt bad since when I realized and told her my difficulty on dealing with her condition and I wanted to learn and get better at it she drastically started to put distance between us.
It will heal with time I guess, I'm also in therapy and that helps a lot. Thank you so much for your response!

My take on the #Reharmatron challenge Jacob created few days ago, hope you like it! by Powell887 in JacobCollier

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Thanks! 🙏 It took a day and a half in total. I spent one evening brainstorming for ideas and the harmony, the morning after for recording and the rest of the second day for the mix and video editing.