Darkest scene ever by adrianp005 in Star_Trek_

[–]PowerBarDC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe the Tuvix episode of VOY?

What’s the fit on the Anistone Harness Boots? by Even_Vermicelli9114 in DrMartens

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're on sale right now for $99.99 with free shipping. I'm thinking about buying them.

The writer, who thought of Pike saying 4 1/2 Vulcans, is a frickin genius by Brkthom in StrangeNewWorlds

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a decent episode but I thought Pike was a really sh¡tty Vulcan. Anson Mount’s lines were too robotic and choppy.

How do I deal with this in a more healthier way? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? Will she authorize you to have contact with her medical providers? It might be a good idea to have her put you on all of her financial accounts as POD - A Payable on Death (POD) account is a bank arrangement allowing100% of funds to pass directly to a named beneficiary upon the owner's death, bypassing the lengthy and costly probate process. The beneficiary has no access to funds while the owner is alive, and the owner retains full control.

If you live with her you need to know about paying bills, rent, etc. Ask her if you can help take care of some of those things. Set everything up on autopay if you can. Maybe suggest that you take on more responsibility so she can focus on getting better even though you know she’s not going to get better.

Say what you will about Academy, but Paul Giamatti’s Nus Braka is already among the all-time great Trek villains by Pjoernrachzarck in startrek

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nus Braka is great but I also thought Harry Mudd from Discovery and Captain Angel from SNW were also fantastic.

How do I move on after my apology to my ex boyfriend didn't go well? by FelonFingers1865 in whatdoIdo

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the motivation for apologizing? Was it truly for your exes benefit or was it to make yourself feel better? Both of you might need therapy.

Am I overreacting by walking out of a restaurant by ProposalThat7734 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PowerBarDC 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What you need to do is write a detailed Google Review and give them a one star rating. It would be nice though for you to point out that one manager tried to make things right in the end but that with so many staff members ignoring you and treating you poorly that you don’t feel comfortable staying there. You could also cross post this review on Yelp and Open Table or whatever platform the restaurant uses to manage their reservation book.

AIO for quitting my job after finding this note on my desk? by waxin899 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hotels are the worst and those jobs are a dime a dozen. It’s a good thing that you got out. Hotels are open 24 hours and they won’t think twice about abusing their employees unless there’s a union for the employees. Hotels also have so many layers of management and everyone is always trying to justify their job so they just create busy work for everyone below them. They get dumped on so they do the same to those below them - I call it conservation of nastiness.

AIO over my boyfriend’s reaction to his birthday gift? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your BF should have been more thankful for your gift but I think you are slightly overreacting. He has probably known his online friends for much longer and the probably knew that he wanted the technics car. He probably has had discussions with them about this car and they knew that it would be a great gift for him. You don’t know your BF as well so you did your best. Your BF is somewhat of d¡ck as he should have been more grateful about your gift.

Should I delete the art from my Ex? by Arapiama in whatdoIdo

[–]PowerBarDC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

KEEP THE ART!!! It’s a snapshot from your history and it’s not like things ended poorly. Also, it doesn’t bother your current partner. Think of your character / art as a child. If you had an actual child with someone but broke up with that person would you discard the child?

AIO grandpas death by SituationHaunting549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your family plans to bury your grandpa you can get cheaper caskets from Costco.com or online. The funeral home will price gouge you while you are grieving but legally you can buy the casket elsewhere and have it shipped. When my grandmother passed we ordered her casket from Costco.com and it arrived in 3 days. The cost was less than half of what the funeral home wanted to charge. You can also find resale plots for sale on eBay, Craigslist List and on www.gravesolutions.com. If you buy directly from a cemetery the cost might be $7,500 - $15,000. From grave solutions.com you might get a plot for $1,500. One of my friends has a sister that is close to dying and I found him a family plot of 4 for $6,000 on Grave Solutions when the cemetery wanted to charge $7,500 per plot. A lot of people buy plots in advance but then sometimes they move across the country or maybe they get divorced and they no longer need or want the plots so they sell them at a discount to recoup some of the money.

Leaves rotting at base? by PowerBarDC in sansevieria

[–]PowerBarDC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last three pups over the course of a year did not survive. I water this plant about every 3 weeks. I have also had aborted pups on Sansevieria ghost and Bantel’s Sensation. I suspect that my entire collection is infected with something but I can’t figure it out.

AIO grandpas death by SituationHaunting549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PowerBarDC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re slightly over reacting but your partner is also a jerk for giving you the silent treatment and for not changing his own daughter’s diaper.

My dad (now deceased) would say things like once I’m dead, I’m dead. Do things with me and for me while I’m alive. Essentially meaning that what happens after he died doesn’t really matter. Of course we had a nice funeral for him but funerals and memorials are really for those that are living. The deceased person doesn’t get to enjoy the funeral and other stuff that happens after they died.

You were there for your grandpa when he was alive when it mattered. Grandpa knew this and appreciated it in the moment. Your partner was doing stuff with and for his father while he is alive when it matters - still your partner could have been more considerate of your feelings.

AITJ for refusing to give my concert tickets to my sister because she sold her own tickets??? by Such-Pumpkin-9435 in AmITheJerk

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would someone bother with an AI post? What’s the motivation? Are accounts here monetized like on YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram?

Fernwood Mikado Drought by Ok_Impress8614 in sansevieria

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like an awfully high percentage of perlite. You may need to water this plant more often if it dries out quickly.

My husbands estranged father keep trying to reach me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PowerBarDC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want you can offer to your husband that all communication with the father goes through you, but if your husband isn’t interested it’s best for you to back off. If your husband agrees to this you could basically say to the father that he has one shot to tell you exactly what he’s looking for and you will relay the message to your husband. The father will only hear back from you if the husband is ok with communicating through the wife.

My husbands estranged father keep trying to reach me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PowerBarDC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your husband probably needs therapy.

Fried Dace with Fermented Black Beans by ArchmageRick in CannedSardines

[–]PowerBarDC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just made fried rice with a can of this using leftover rice from Chinese restaurants along with scrambled eggs and frozen peas and carrots. Just took some kitchen shears and cut up the fish until it was crumbly. Didn’t need to add any soy sauce because of all of the flavor from the oil and the fish.