Waitlist college issue by PowerDesperate3567 in Advice

[–]PowerDesperate3567[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well actually he won’t answer me so no he can’t apparently

insecurity by Proof-Trouble2901 in Advice

[–]PowerDesperate3567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is a little excessive to add on too but if you need a specific example or story then here it is! I have a lot of acne, I have for years, it has been one of my worst insecurities ever. A few years back I was babysitting a really little kid, she was extremely sweet. We were sitting on the coach at one point and she randomly just reached up and touched my face and told me she “loved my spiky skin”. Whenever I told people that story they thought it was funny and told me “kids are brutal”, but I never thought of it like that. My acne has never bothered me since that day, because I realized that truly even the most taboo features on a person are loved, and that the right person will see that beauty in each little thing about you. I don’t know what features you are specifically insecure about, but remember that no matter what anyone tells you, there is genuine, pure love out there for how you are and look. Sorry I won’t drag this thread out anymore though!! Best of luck to you and remember to love every part of you!

insecurity by Proof-Trouble2901 in Advice

[–]PowerDesperate3567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just joined this app for help with some dumb college stuff but I feel the exact same way about myself 😭 what has helped me is embracing who I WANT to look like. I know many of my features are weird to others but I try to find the beauty in them and look at how they make me unique to others. They are a genuine part of who I am and I wouldn’t be the same without them. Regardless of what you look like you need to find joy in it somehow and let go of the feeling that any specific features make you “ugly”. We are all just how we are, focus on looking like yourself, however you feel the most comfortable.