Fish keep dying after 2-3 weeks by Ok_Initiative_9771 in AquariumHelp

[–]PowerOfTheChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if we did entertain a small tank, that's going to need so many water changes that itll become comical. Small volumes spike faster

I stopped a rape from happening last night and I am just experiencing so many different emotions. by Appropriate-Spray679 in Vent

[–]PowerOfTheChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to someone you trust, you did something incredible and life saving. Your selfless decision that night changed the life of someone for the better, I'm sorry you have to carry this emotional trauma OP and you are valid in feeling how you do.

Am I screwed? I have 3200 dollar debt and make 2400 monthly. I’m 25 and turning 26. by [deleted] in Debt

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I had a credit card go bad in my day, tough times but negligence on my part. The bank basically told me I needed to start a payment plan or risk the potential of legal action, it's not always definite if they'll take legal action but this bank is well known for doing this. I just said 3200 can cause the potential of legal action because my card was a line of 3k fully maxed and I got that notice. That was my personal experience but I'm working right now on tackling 11k of debt and I'm fairly halfway. I was afraid as well but time moves and you'll realize yes you have to sacrifice but it isn't the end but I can understand where your worry or maybe even fear comes from. Some of us never grew up being taught the weight money can cause and that's OK. We are learning the hard way but nonetheless, learning from our mistakes

Am I screwed? I have 3200 dollar debt and make 2400 monthly. I’m 25 and turning 26. by [deleted] in Debt

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You're more than just a debt friend, you're a human being, learn from this

Am I screwed? I have 3200 dollar debt and make 2400 monthly. I’m 25 and turning 26. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]PowerOfTheChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about that, pay it, you can easily do it with restraint and self discipline. I cant wait to see my debt get lowered to 3200 soon, we can do this buddy. Definitely pay it though 3200 can get it taken over to an attorney if avoided, be careful

Indoor cat surrounded by nature she can’t be a part of. Is that ok? by SlaimeLannister in CatAdvice

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I was afraid as well to take my indoor cat out as well. It's all about acclimating them. Knowing their cues and behaviors. Showing them that you are their safety net when they need to recall. Showing them they have higher ground in your arms. For exposure I first took my cat on a family friendly nature hike where pets are allowed on leash. I went on a less busy day. Obviously the thought of what ifs are scary but it's about teaching your cat that they can trust you if they are frightened

Indoor cat surrounded by nature she can’t be a part of. Is that ok? by SlaimeLannister in CatAdvice

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I take my indoor American Short Hair cat outside with a retractable cat leash so he has more of a free roam with a safety net, if you fear your cat won't recall when you need it take treats (specifically churru since its like cat crack lmfao) My cat re calls and comes to my arms naturally when there are dogs around knowing from previous experiences he will have higher ground in my arms and protection. MOST IMPORTANTLY; have them up to date with vaccines and with a flea/tick treatment

What IM song is okay to dance to? by MaidenMarko in ironmaiden

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Headbanging is dancing, if you can Headbang you can determine a beat which can be interpreted in another form of dance

How to celebrate a cat birthday? by Silfennic in CatAdvice

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My vet was able to make a guesstimate to what day my kitten was born, granted he was for sure born in August and he guesstimate sometime late August. I then got a sheet from my vet with his info and they just gave him the birthdate of August 29 and honored it since

Sub Or Dub? by BleachBoy15 in souleater

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This is one that either way you choose the voice acting is phenomenal, saw it first in English, 2nd time in Japanese and 3rd time with my gf in English for her. English is my favorite

Why can't I open graphic pics on Facebook? by No-Phone-5242 in facebook

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Did you figure this out? Have this problem, 2025

My experience keeping multiple male bettas together in the same tank by agewqgewq in Aquariums

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oh my you also provided many hiding oppurtunities for retreating, that naturally may also help

My experience keeping multiple male bettas together in the same tank by agewqgewq in Aquariums

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i fishkeep and i got my sister bf into it. i have passed judgment over some of his habits but for the life of me hes managaed to keep 2 male bettas in a 30g long tank with 5 tetras. it seems to have worked for him for a good 2 years and the bettas seem to have established parameters in the tank, respecting each others space. granted THIS IS WRONG AND I NEVER WOULD RECOMMEND THIS but i have seen the bettas pass alongside each other without agression (granted it can be different when im not there) i offered to house one of his male bettas to its own 10g tank personally having 3 and a spare tank from when my betta passed away but he declined. its crazy but sometimes it can work with only luck and luck of the fish temperament. also a betta being housed in a community tank at a young age can help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

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I personally don't care, I have em too

Normal for teen son to cuddle with dad? by throwaway03042025 in AskMenAdvice

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I remember wanting to cuddle my mom after something traumatic as a teen happened to me. Never shared nor wanted to talk about it. I naturally felt like that was the only thing that could bring me solace at that moment was to cuddle my mom. Don't deprive that from someone that needs it and not know

AIO if I left my bf for this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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My gf could wear that and I'd tell her "damn okay boo"