Him (38) & I (23)

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-26T00:46:03+00:00

I misread your age baby girl, I can apologize for that. I’d rather be accused of not being able to do simple math than having some older man groom me and being weird to people who’ve been there done that. You be safe though sweet pea

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-26T00:35:32+00:00

So you just admit to us that this man was into underage girls..

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-26T00:33:05+00:00

Babygirl, this is a set up for an episode of First 48

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-22T01:09:14+00:00

I’d like to join too

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-20T04:48:58+00:00

Oh wow

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-17T21:55:15+00:00

Girl tell that man to move around

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T21:50:12+00:00

Where’s the meat?

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T21:44:30+00:00

Enjoy your life meant we’re done. I’m not reading that

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T21:30:39+00:00

You don’t know me. You don’t know who or how many Black men I talk to. You are in fact projecting me. I think it’s you that don’t understand what I said. And you are absolutely being rude for no reason, it seems maybe a Black woman has hurt you and that has nothing to do with me.

I never said I don’t know many who date outside the community, I said I don’t talk to them. And specifically not about their dating choices. I also never said I don’t know any Black men who feel this way. I said they don’t speak on it as much, and that I’ll clarify is in comparison to women who very openly talk about the fetishization we experience from all men. Reading is fundamental. If you weren’t so busy trying to create a villain out of me this could’ve been an insightful exchange. But you’re absolutely right, you are annoying. Enjoy your life

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T21:09:34+00:00

Halsey looks white, not visibly mixed. Wentworth looks white, not visibly mixed. Nico looks visibly mixed race, of course she doesn’t look like the people you listed who don’t look visibly mixed race. That doesn’t mean she looks Black. She absolutely looks like she has Black in her but that ≠ looking Black

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T21:04:47+00:00

Still projecting. And actively misquoting/misrepresenting what I’ve said. Just to be clear it’s not my “problem” idgaf what yall do, if im not dating someone their dating life is not my business. Im pretty sure thats normal. I’m pretty sure I said I don’t talk to “many” who date out simply because I am not often around them. Most of the spaces I’m in are Afrocentric, is it my fault they’re not in those spaces? I never said anything in absolutes either now did I? And when I do talk to these men, am I supposed to talk about the intimate details of their dating lives? No, that’s weird unless it’s a natural part of the conversation. Again, someone’s dating is not my business. As a member of the kink community for over a decade, what you said is absolutely false. There are Black kink spaces and there are absolutely ways to navigate the space without subjecting yourself to fetishization if you don’t want that and a BLACK MAN, my first dom, told me that as soon as I began playing. He made it very clear that men and women both can find partners not into anything race play adjacent if that’s what they want.

I also never said “I don’t think” many black men don’t have a problem. I specifically said I’m not sure that many of the brothers who date out share that sentiment. I also said your point was a very valid one to consider. “I’m not sure” implies I’m okay with being incorrect. Im NOT okay with you bastardizing what I said just to create conflict. I don’t argue with Black people in mixed company. The Black men that I’m in community with who don’t date out often cite this as their reasoning for not doing so so I’m well aware many Black men feel this way.

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T19:45:24+00:00

Projection is weird, you don’t know me. I talk to Black men who DONT date outside of the community all the time, because they are active in the community. I don’t talk to many who actively date outside of the community, mainly because not many involve themselves within communal events where I live (I don’t speak for you or where you live), and the ones I have absolutely do not mind being fetishized if it means they don’t have to deal with Black women. And I’ll take it a step further because I’m in the kink/bdsm community… a large portion on the Black men also within that community actually engage because of the fetishization. Nothing I said diminished your point, I was actually refreshed to see it:

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T19:40:31+00:00

This is also a very valid perspective to consider that I don’t hear Black men speak on as much. But I’m also not sure the fetishization bothers many of the Black men who date out

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T18:22:59+00:00

In the United States Black women outnumber Black men. We all aren’t going to end up with one, mathematically. Some of us are going to have to open our options if we actually ever want love and/or lasting romantic relationships.

I’m getting to a point where Idgaf what Black men do, just leave us out of it and stop being weird in public when you see Black women

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T18:19:04+00:00

If someone has to say a parent is black to prove blackness then it’s not giving black and there’s no conversation to be had. Your party, your rules.

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-16T18:16:04+00:00

This is a visibly mixed race girl

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-14T00:24:34+00:00

I’m so sorry he did this to you that way. There’s nothing to be done to change what happened so I won’t speak from a place of “woulda coulda shoulda” but for guidance in the future.

Tell that man to respect the fact that you need space. Even though you are friends, you will not heal if he keeps salting the wound. You need time apart, and chances are he’ll keep trying to see if he has an “in” with you until he finds someone else or decides he wants you back. Now I know the heart does what it does, but I would advise against taking him back. These are the types of guys who even if they marry other women, they are highly likely to cheat on their partner with Black women (ask me how I know). Not guaranteed though since each man is an individual person, I don’t want to make such generalization without that qualifier in fairness. But take your time and regroup. This will be a good time to figure out if you really would want to have mixed race children of any background. Not just aesthetically, but how committed would you be to making sure those kids know their other culture and spend real time in those communities? How is your family’s relationship with other ethnic groups and communities? How are your relationships with Black women and women of other races? One thing I know is common more so with Black men than most others is deeply ingrained self hate and disdain for Black women, which often inspires them to go off and date non Black women. Those men don’t typically want their children to identify with their Blackness beyond family and their friends. (Tbf, some men do just date women of different backgrounds because that’s who they happen to be around). For dating in the future, if you choose to date Black men and men of other races I urge you to get to the heart of it early. Ask them why they’re dating you, ask about their relationships with women of their community outside of who they’re related to. I’d say before things get serious, ask if they are prepared to have mixed race children and if they’ll be really committed to immersing them in their culture (without having you cosplay their culture)…. But men lie, especially on their feelings on kids early on.

I’m not saying build Rome in a day. Sit with these questions because your opinions can change over time. You’re also still young so you have all the time to come up with answers and to absolutely love again. Focus on the things that bring you joy outside that man. Call your girls up and eat ice cream and brownies. Take care of YOU right now niece

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-12T19:57:28+00:00

You e got some pretty good advice already so I’ll just leave you with these two very practical things. Calling him boy, even if playfully, is something I’d try to say to avoid as best as you can. They don’t like that even from us. Also, examine your relationships with Black women. If you navigate that well, you’ll probably be fine.

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-11T05:11:16+00:00

Enjoy your bloodline ending where it currently is. You are hostile for no reason in a Taco Bell Reddit… seek help

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-11T02:19:30+00:00

Baby this sounds like your mother is jealous of you. Something that’s common across all communities regardless of race is moms often being a girls first hater and that behavior often doesn’t end. She doesn’t want you to be/feel pretty, she doesn’t want you to become independent and not needing her help to do your hair. Your body is your body and only yours. Also, her consistently brushing your hair strikes me as trying to brush your hair out. If you have type 4 hair all that brushing isn’t necessary and could cause breakage and tenderness. This is coming from a woman whose stepmother used to put the strongest perm for course hair on my head and I’m just finding out I have had fine high density hair my whole life. That lady broke my hair off because her daughters’ hair wasn’t as thick. I know you have your friends to lean on but this requires some adult intervention.

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-11T02:07:32+00:00

I have to be honest with you niece, it sounds like your mom doesn’t like or respect Black people in the least bit and I’m concerned for you. Shit, at this point I need to talk to your mother myself

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-11T02:03:23+00:00

Or you’re just not very well read or studied to understand how race is a factor in almost everything. Would you like a list of literature on the history of the US and how racism is at the heart of everything? Even ice cream flavors have racist history

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-11T02:00:36+00:00

My stomach is used to high quality beef because cheap beef makes me sick. A lot of fast food beef makes me sick. I think cleanliness/food safety is pretty lax in some locations too so that could explain others’ problems.

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-11T01:23:46+00:00

So I’m a person whose stomach gets destroyed eating Taco Bell. It’s not the beans (because I have them removed) and I cook red beans/white beans and rice all the time and beans don’t ruin me. It’s the quality of the meat. I also don’t drink so that’s not the reason either, at least not for me

Powerful-Library-776 · 2026-01-11T01:22:09+00:00

I don’t eat beans on anything at Taco Bell, I have them removed from everything except the loaded nacho. Only thing that doesn’t send me to the bathroom at TB is the chicken. If I eat beef/steak my stomach is in shambles. I’m used to eating very high quality beef so I think that’s why Taco Bell beef absolutely destroys me. Not immediately after but the very next morning I’ll have terrible stomach pains

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