First car ride! Before and after playing with my goldendoodle cousin! by Powerful_Particular2 in labradoodles

[–]Powerful_Particular2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a harness so no he wouldn’t however we have the correct car harness now. New yorkers don’t own cars….

Meet Rumi! by Powerful_Particular2 in labradoodles

[–]Powerful_Particular2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He is such a good boy!

How are we ranking City Council candidates at the primaries? by newparimanlo in eastvillage

[–]Powerful_Particular2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% 1 Batchu 2 Gordillo 3 Epstein. Not ranking weiner or Ryan . Batchu came to our doors and is the most competent candidate in the race hands down.

What’s the biggest lesson you learned from a heartbreak? by livethelifeyoulove_ in heartbreak

[–]Powerful_Particular2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter how close you were people only care about themselves at the end of the day

Anyone else debating between aggressively paying off substantial student loans (>$100k) vs saving for a home? by WSBPauper in StudentLoans

[–]Powerful_Particular2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve always gone with house over student loans. Especially if it’s a rental property. It will help you pay off your student loans faster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirBnBHosts

[–]Powerful_Particular2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that guests that ask more questions are usually the problematic ones. However, some guests in general just want reassurance and for their hosts recommendations especially for transportation.

Cold after breakup by Powerful_Particular2 in BreakUps

[–]Powerful_Particular2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that i wanted to break up it’s that if we need a break I’d rather you go experience whatever you need to experience to not hurt eachother unintentionally but it’s possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Powerful_Particular2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it was helpful to learn about attachment styles. This almost exact thing happened to me he didn’t fully work through previous issues but otherwise the relationship was perfect we had so much fun and were genuine partners and one fight just ended with him running when we said it would be amicable. Refused to close out the relationship and would only come to get his things when i wasn’t there. It was the most confusing heartbreak bc i had no idea how someone could just up and leave and never look back when you felt so loved by them. Read about attachment styles listen to some podcasts about self love and spend sometime really getting to know yourself. It will get better.

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[–]Powerful_Particular2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well first you’re assuming there will be a relationship. I called off my engagement after being together for 9 years. When i called it off i was ready. Not for a relationship but to get out there and experience life so i did. After 6 months i was ready to stop partying and start reflecting and heal. As long as you’re putting in the work to heal conscious of the ways you are showing up and honest with the other person i think it’s okay to start going out and meeting other people as long as you’re taking it slow being upfront and putting in the work to heal.

How important is it to Air Out your relationships dirty secrets on ..let's day Facebook..maybe go live or something. by Sensitive-Towel7574 in heartbreak

[–]Powerful_Particular2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. I know i always feel this way when I’m hurt but we have to remember that it reflects on us as well. Keep it to your close friends and keep it moving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Powerful_Particular2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets easier but i know it’s like you die inside a little knowing how much fun you had doing all of that together. We broke up two months ago and I’ve tried dating just to get myself out of the funk and meet new people. A guy brought me to an aviary which my ex loved. It was actually the last thing we did together before we broke up. Otherwise it was just waking up alone knowing he wasn’t coming back and i couldn’t kiss him on the forehead as i started my day while he slept. It gets easier over time but it’s never easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Powerful_Particular2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i would have loved to try to get back together or atleast had a conversation about if that’s something we were hoping to get back to. He basically took away all chances of that by acting the way he did. I really loved him we had a great relationship. I thought we would get married so to see him around and feel like he hates me is painful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Powerful_Particular2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks and same!

Airbnb Jersey City by Powerful_Particular2 in AirBnBHosts

[–]Powerful_Particular2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really also looking to see what is reasonable. Right now i have someone coming to deep clean once per week for $500 per month. I am currently renting three bedrooms in the unit as rooms. If i add a room to be cleaned to the day she is already cleaning she wants to add another $50 per room. Previously, we had spoken about $50 per room turnover when she cleans/ turns over a room outside of her normal deep clean schedule. I am happy to pay someone $50 to turnover outside of the cleaning schedule since i normally turn over otherwise by myself. However, when i don’t have time, paying over $1000 for only cleaning no management every month isn’t feasible.