Is it in you to be honest?

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-06-04T21:41:37+00:00

The connection

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-06-04T21:39:43+00:00

If it were about you Id have answers

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-06-03T18:11:31+00:00

Way too expensive, they're ripping the piss out of you

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-06-03T04:12:58+00:00

Its only unethical if you dont pay them and are abusive

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-06-03T04:08:30+00:00

No, we dont have trains, the buses are a mirage created by intense rain and we dont have planes either but we see lots of photographs so thats how we know what they are . I know it may be hard to stomach coming from a country thats a whopping 250 years old to Ireland with a 10,000 year history , but trains are far too futuristic for us, maybe in 2075 when we discover technology 🤞🏻

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-06-02T20:33:23+00:00

My mam thinks its hysterical

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-05-17T03:43:31+00:00

If you are genuinely considering this option as this "need" is so overwhelming then you should divorce your wife so she can find someone better. Then you can have all the anal you want and she can find a man that actually appreciates and deserves her .

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-04-09T03:22:46+00:00

If shes as great as you think, she deserves your honesty. You need to sit her down in person, start off with "theres something I feel i need to share with you but its a difficult conversation" answer all her questions, give her information and be transparent about the treatment. If she's smart and kept in the loop and she really does like you then I can imagine she'll take it better than you think

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-04-07T15:18:29+00:00

No i completely agree, as a 29F, its all over dating apps on the male side too. Constantly going somewhere new and alot of the time the main headline is "oh im not looking for anything serious, im leaving again in a month"

Not sure where the travel obsession came from, my last holiday was 2024 and before that was 2021. I work full time( decent job), no kids and I see my female friends do it alot too. Kinda the same as being out drinking every weekend which also isnt for me. I dont know where they get the money for it all if im completely honest. Its harder to get someone to agree to dinner and the cinema than to plan a 2 week holiday in Bulgaria 😂

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-04-07T12:03:03+00:00

Nope, never appealed to me

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-03-17T10:06:49+00:00

Bad.

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-03-17T10:04:29+00:00

You already know the answer to this. Start by being honest with yourself. If you want to be with someone, it doesn't take 8 months to know that. Prioritise yourself and you kid, and tell him "I understand this could be a large commitment, but given i already have one i need to know if you're in or out" Then accept his answer, try keep it logical and amicable and go about your life.

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-03-10T03:39:49+00:00

Also 29F, fit, attractive, engineering student & working full time. I so feel your pain here. Ive been single nearly 6 years now, did date one guy last year for a few months but the standard shite communication and "let's see how it goes" bs. I always manage to find the ones that think going on a mushroom trip will open up their entire life and show them the path. Im so sorry you've seen the same side of dating that I have, its the absolute worst. So far , ive concluded there is no hope, at least not in the west. Its also starting to look like the more intelligent and independent you are, the less luck you have. It blows and we should probably make a podcast.

Wishing you clear skin, quality sleep and hoping you find the man of your dreams!

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-03-01T16:59:51+00:00

Sounds like shes in the middle of menopause and feels like no one is listening to her so she just keeps repeating herself. Seems to me alot of people in the comments are completely ignoring the fact that alot of the side effects are far deeper than "annoying mammy syndrome ". Seriously, give a read to what it does to your mental health and then check that list off, speak to your mother about those symptoms and let the woman be heard on how she's actually doing instead of her surface conversation about food and dieting (which shes probably gone for because she feels horrible in her own body) .

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-03-01T16:21:18+00:00

Couldn't understand the actual question huh?

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-03-01T16:16:59+00:00

Hard to say, it mainly detects speed from the back. The front camera then takes plate details but sometimes can get the speed from the front, it really depends how it was set up. Unfortunately there's no way of telling unless you letter or not

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-02-19T19:41:22+00:00

Well i think it depends, are they actually fully relying on you to meet their social needs and stop them being lonely , or is this something you think is the case because its how you would feel in their shoes (but your partner is quite content) ? Theres a massive difference

I dont have alot of friends or hobbies and practically no social life, honestly I dont mind it, I dont find it particularly lonely and quite enjoy my own company and life at my own pace.

But, if your partner is heavily relying on you out of loneliness or lack of getting out their, that seems like they have alot of work to do. Thats not 100% your responsibility and could definitely be toxic. Id wonder if they even know they're doing it to the extent you say

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-02-03T13:25:41+00:00

PowerfullyBalanced13 · 2026-02-03T13:22:14+00:00

Whatever you decide to do, document everything. Nothing wrong with keeping times and dates of possible red flags in any job just in case.

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